It's obvious that ice pebbles and hubby are interested in a New Year's adventure. The message, though naive, is articulate and informative. LE it isn't. Instead of offering a helping hand, she brings out the worn out..."you have no history" and adds that her "spidey senses" are going off. Instead of telling icepebbles what she doesn't know and what she shouldn't have done, she could just have easily offered advice as to a more productive avenue without jeopardizing herself or anyone else.
We are a male/female couple in the Raleigh, NC area, and we're hoping to spend the afternoon of Sunday, January 2 with a sexy girl who is interested in seeing the two of us together. (While this date is ideal, we are flexible if the perfect girl for us is not available on Sunday.)
We've become aware that some providers have had negative experiences with couples, so we want to clarify up front that we are both completely on board with this hobby and very comfortable. We have been with non-professional females together and have never experienced any sort of jealousy or negativity. I (the female of the couple) am very sexually experienced with girls, and I also love to see him with other girls. We have no limitations, and we hope to find a girl who is as open to being with both of us as we'll be to being with her. We are happy to each speak to our provider individually to confirm our high level of comfort and lack of limitations.
We are young professionals, and since neither of us has ever seen a provider before, we can provide work references. We are attractive and fit, and we're most interested in being with petite girls. Other than our preference for petite, we are attracted to girls of all ages, races, and hair colors, so we are interested in responses from any girl who is interested in seeing us.
We will not get into specifics with you during our communication, but to give you an idea of what we're looking for, we would like a very GFE time with lots of DFK for both of us, BBBJ for him, DATY for me, both of us allowed to DATY for her, and sex between him/provider. We want an enthusiastic girl who will be specifically interested in being with both of us.
Please contact us if you think you might be the right girl for us! Looking forward to hearing from you.
To say, "we will not get
into specifics with you during our communication..."and then to put EXPLICIT things in your post is, well, IMHO a reason to proceed with EXTREME caution with you.
Do you not realize that LE may be reading this board? Or maybe you already know this...
You have no prior history of posting until a few days ago. And you've now asked for specific sex acts on a board ANYONE can read.
And since you publically have said what you want, even if you don't discuss anything specific
privately with a lady, big deal, you've already put it out there.
Some ladies here may feel differently about your post than I do, but my "spidey senses" are going off right about now.
Safety first...
Steph
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into specifics with you during our communication..."and then to put EXPLICIT things in your post is, well, IMHO a reason to proceed with EXTREME caution with you.
Do you not realize that LE may be reading this board? Or maybe you already know this...
You have no prior history of posting until a few days ago. And you've now asked for specific sex acts on a board ANYONE can read.
And since you publically have said what you want, even if you don't discuss anything specific
privately with a lady, big deal, you've already put it out there.
Some ladies here may feel differently about your post than I do, but my "spidey senses" are going off right about now.
Safety first...
Steph
-- Modified on 12/29/2010 9:10:02 AM
It's obvious that ice pebbles and hubby are interested in a New Year's adventure. The message, though naive, is articulate and informative. LE it isn't. Instead of offering a helping hand, she brings out the worn out..."you have no history" and adds that her "spidey senses" are going off. Instead of telling icepebbles what she doesn't know and what she shouldn't have done, she could just have easily offered advice as to a more productive avenue without jeopardizing herself or anyone else.
Some of the providers on this board lack the ability to respond kindly to people or take the higher road. Especially with new comers, it would be nice to at least give the appearance of a friendly environment. Maybe sending a pm to icepebbles letting her know why a provider might be leary of such a posting would have been a better way to give her some insight without being so scathing about it. Help her out instead of lashing out.
I believe there is a site that reviews or has ratings for bisexual providers although I have been unable to find it. Perhaps someone out here knows what it is?
Icepebbles, you may want to try another attempt with your search at the K-9. A little less drama over there IMHO. Good luck to you!
It would not matter which board this was posted on. The OP is mentioning specific sex acts which are a huge no no on ANY board, unless no one on the board cares about going to jail. I am a member of K9 and no one wants to go to jail over there either.
There is no other way to say it, esp after the OP has been told what the rules of the game are A FEW TIMES. I honestly believe this is a very new very green hobby couple. However, at this point I would not see them under any circumstances. There is a wealth of information on the Newbie Board, that clearly explain how to search for the appropriate provider, and how to ask those sensitive questions (that link still works and that page is still in effect correct?)
Had this been posted on almost any other board on TER this would have garnered the same reaction from responsible players in the game. This entire thread would have been yanked off the DC, Chicago, Boston, NYC, MN, or Vegas Board. The Carolinas are not immune to LE activity....the police in The Carolinas can read and the internet does not stop at the state line.
I cannot believe I am having to explain to HOBBYIST why it is NOT COOL TO GET UP ON A PUBLIC HOOKER BOARD AND BROADCAST THAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO LICK YOUR PUSSY, GIVE MY HUSBAND A BAREBACK BLOW JOB....and then ya get mad at Steph because she said something?
Spare me please.
There is no other way to say it, esp after the OP has been told what the rules of the game are A FEW TIMES. I honestly believe this is a very new very green hobby couple. However, at this point I would not see them under any circumstances. There is a wealth of information on the Newbie Board, that clearly explain how to search for the appropriate provider, and how to ask those sensitive questions (that link still works and that page is still in effect correct?)
Had this been posted on almost any other board on TER this would have garnered the same reaction from responsible players in the game. This entire thread would have been yanked off the DC, Chicago, Boston, NYC, MN, or Vegas Board. The Carolinas are not immune to LE activity....the police in The Carolinas can read and the internet does not stop at the state line.
I cannot believe I am having to explain to HOBBYIST why it is NOT COOL TO GET UP ON A PUBLIC HOOKER BOARD AND BROADCAST THAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO LICK YOUR PUSSY, GIVE MY HUSBAND A BAREBACK BLOW JOB....and then ya get mad at Steph because she said something?
Spare me please.
Oh wow, ladies and gentleman we have an idiot here. You still cannot put any logic to your useless response. You can't respond with an intelligent well thought out answer because you don't have the capability of using what you do not have, which is a brain. Your point is not to contribute anything of substance to the thread or anywhere else on TER your point is simply to argue, you created a TER ID just to go around in circles with me, and for what? The entire original post is so far outside of the acceptable protocol, even people who are not part of the hobby community would be able to concur with me, or did you not know this is AN ILLEGAL HOBBY?
Congratulations on broadcasting your current mental health issue which is: YOU HAVE OPPOSITIONAL DEFIANCE DISORDER.....in a nutshell regardless of how foolish you appear while trying to argue a completely undeniable fact, you will continue to argue the MOOT point.
This will be my last response on this thread.
I would love to chat with you guys. Typically I do Fetish work however love couples so def could offer GFE for you. Shoot me an email and I will send you some photos!
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danica at disciples dot com