I am married and my wife and I both play together and sometimes I go by myself. When we play as a couple my wife likes me to go on the first date to make sure that its on the up and up. We pick a provider that we both like and that says they see couples. The problem is that when I go on the first date either the provider does not look nothing like her pics or she is not really in to women, which ends up a waste of money. It might be because I use backpage. If anybody knows of a solution to my problem please let me know.

BP is not the best place, especially for someone new, which I am assuming you are since no reviews.  Still, it can be okay if you research thoroughly beyond that.  A lady's website will usually tell you if she is couples friendly.  Whichever ad mall you shop in, and even if she has a website, you still need to check reviews!  With well reviewed ladies you are far less likely to be surprised by either appearance or performance.  That is especially important in case of special interests like "couples friendly" providers, and it is also advisable to contact recent reviewers for more candid assessments.  You must have VIP to do that.  Picking a lady off of BP or any other ad site and booking a date without further research is at best a crap shoot - you may get lucky or you may not.  Improve your odds by doing your homework!!  There are lots of well reviewed, couples friendly providers.

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Ya know you're in a hurry and ya grab one of those Tornado things off the hot dog roller, when ya get done you're not hungry anymore but have you ever thought wow that's the best thing I ever ate!! Damn I'm glad I are that!! Uh no!! BP kind of the same way ya get you're nut off but on the way home are ya like damn!! That was freakin awesome, holy crap I've never had a lady make me feel like that!! Uh hh no!! Trust me dude do you're homework and find a nice lady or 3 here and you will never look at BP again. See my post a few threads down, whole different class of gals here!!

I really love you, man, so I'm going to be tough on you.

"Providers, please be honest"? Really? Who are you talking to? Do you believe that the creatures you are referring to read these pages?

Anybody with a couple of bucks and a debit card can place an ad on backpage. If a girl knows she is not hot enough to attract any clients, she will find pictures of a hot girl on the internet and post it. She calculates that most men are too stupid, too scared, or too horny to walk away (but if a guy DOES walk away, what has she lost?) Any girl who wants to run a real scam - cash and dash, or worse - do you harm, is sure as hell not going to post real pictures of herself.

Now you've already received a number of responses telling you not to use backpage, and that is good advice for any relative newbie. You are already a member here. Pay for VIP, search for the type of providers you want, read the reviews, and BANG! You'll be a happy couple MOST of the time.  

You can't go to the dollar store and complain about the quality of the items. There are bargains at the dollar store, but you have to do your homework and be an expert shopper to find them.

Thanks for the advice from everybody and yes I am a newbbie. I'm going to research my sources better to insure better outcomes. Out of the several providers I've seen only one has been everything she said she was (seductive jasmine) and I find her from her TER reviews, she was great and couple friendly that why I joined this site. Again thanks for the advice

Start at the top 100 TER list in your city & read the reviews.  Do not continue to waste your time & $!

I can say there are other more reputable sites you could try.

Not everyone on BP is shady But there are lots that are

I do post on BP and Feel your pain.. I have to talk to 100 idiots before I get one good client..
I have been very lucky.. Always trust your instincts..

Well if you open the door and the lady dont look like her pictures ,thats a sure sign that you are being hussled...was you born yesterday .

What area are you in? I suggest definitely cross referening and using the boards along with bp to read reviews and do homework... I see couples and have some friends that do too.. Good luck.. [email protected]  

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