Have been rejected by few providers lately because they do not see Asian or AA men. Was quite disappointed and wanted to post her and see if there are any that do. I am an Indian male in late thirties.

Just keep looking. Good luck!

Thanks Taylor. Glad to know that.  

There a many providers out there that would be willing to see you, but you are going to have to do your research and don't be afraid to mention your race when first contacting them. Have you tried posting in the search for or carolina boards to help in setting up an appointment with a provider?

Some women have had bad experiences with men of certain a ethnicity- and that can be all it takes to put them outside of their comfort zone...
For that, and feeling like it is personal, I am sorry.

I try not to judge anyone by their ethnicity or complexion.
I don't even ask what race a guy is, because really it does not bother me, however,
I too have noticed a trend of ladies putting race on their booking forms.

I thought it a bit odd, but to each their own.

I have heard there is someone for everybody in the hobby!

Just like some gals may be too fat, thin, old, young, too dark, or too light to really "do it for you"- fear not,
there's still a lady out there for you!

Try not to take it personal or to get discouraged!

Foxy

thanks trifitness and foxy, posted in the search for board.  

Foxy - you got to be one of the best looking girls I have seen here.

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I think there is a lot of beauty to be found with these ladies here.
I am not the tallest, or thinnest, or have the biggest set of .... um yeah lol
There are so many things I could wish for, however, I am content with what I was handed.
I like to think I can hold my own!
They (meaning my folk's round these parts) don't call me Foxy for nothing!
I didn't give myself the nickname, it just stuck...

I can think of a lot worse nicknames! lol

You made me smile when I opened that post

Thankyou

Foxy

Although it doesn't get aired out here often, Indian and Middle Eastern men as a group have been branded with a similarly bad reputation as AA men. If you're American, born and raised, then you may unfortunately have been lumped in with the guys who are fresh off the boat (and assumed to share the dismissive view of sex workers in the home country).  

Your best bet is to simply avoid any provider who requests race/ethnicity information. Once you get a few really good references under your belt, if so desired, you can circle back around and see if those ladies will make an exception for you.