Wow.
Although I am LOATH to engage in this thread, you, whomever you are, have just been incredibly offensive. And maybe you don't know it. So let me woman-splain this.
Being beautiful isn't a total utter walk in the park. Being a provider isn't all roses and dollar signs. Have you any idea how annoying it is to be a woman of any degree of hotness in any open space where there are men? Catcalling sucks. People thinking they can rape you and get away with it because you're moderately hot and wearing a short skirt sucks (1 in 3 or 4 women have been sexually abused, depending on which statistics you're looking at). Providers are even more at risk for awful, potentially traumatizing behavior from men, and we still get up every morning and do our jobs (speaking for myself, enjoyably so) anyway. Smugness and beauty can go together, sure. But most of us are just trying to get by, using our genetic and other gifts, without being physically or verbally (in a message board thread or otherwise) abused by clients and others.
Your reductive view of beauty and its behavioral correlations is seriously problematic. We are all INDIVIDUALS and have differing physical and emotional traits (basic concept, friend). Re-examine your feminism and humanity and THEN possibly one of us will want to see you.
The Boston TER community respectfully requests that y'all dudes USE THE REVIEWERS-ONLY BOARD for this type of thread in future. You may not see it, but we work really hard at what we do, it's challenging, emotionally demanding and vulnerable work, and this should be a happy place for everyone, not a platform for shitting on the SW community. Seeing this kind of thread appear OVER AND OVER AND OVER SUCKS.
Donate to your local SW support organization and show some fucking kindness. Thank you.