I was just wondering. I am certainly enjoying being a provider.  I feel I've made lots of good friends and do it not only for the money, but curious about the men and their feelings and stories. I absolutely love when they take me to dinner, buy me gifts and treat me nicely! and being on my yahoo IM is a plus! I'm not from Boston, but moved here from Vermont and am originally from NJ.  I like Boston a lot better now than I did before I became a provider. The hobbyists I meet are so cool and sexy and I don't feel so alone being in a new place.

although I did enjoy the company of a few of the gals, but I wouldn't have paid just for that.

Now that I'm older I am coming to find the social interaction with many of my regulars as important or even more so than the bedroom activity.

We go out to dine and even see shows, visit museums and just in general get to know each other socially.

I'm glad that you enjoy that part of the interaction as well.

Where are your reviews Deb?

I am not the type to have an ATF. I will pass up on a provider that I enjoy being with to try a new face from proven sources. But, the pillow talk time that I get with providers is important for my sanity. My job has high pressure associated with it and is time consuming. I am single and don't have family. I can't talk to my colleagues about parts of my life. But I can talk to providers about anything that is on my mind that is not offensive to them. Providers are like psychologists for me, at a much lower hourly fee.

I think I like you LOL! and I didn't know you wrote this until I saw your name. lol

Damn if I know.  How do I get it attached to my name.  I'm the intellectual escort lol, Went to school for English, and switched to Psychology.  Although I think most everyone has an intellectual element to them.  You can learn something new from anyone.  Reviews are under my name Debbie/Miranda/Bethany and my phone number, which I don't know if I'm allowed to post here.  Damn that some of my clients are really hot!  How can I stop from enjoying myself as an escort so much!

Oh and another thing, can you tell I have no family and nothing to do on Thanksgiving? lol

I see providers for a combination of both, I will say that seeing providers who can't really hold a conversation or don't make me feel at ease, are mainly mechanical and just waiting to get it over with really turns me off, and makes for an awkward experience, at least on my end.

I find often times that I'd be willing to see someone multiple times if they are willing to engage in conversation, seem into the session, and there is some chemistry there.  Nothing has been worse to me than someone who has a set routine and expects me to get in and out ASAP (no pun intended).   It's great to see a provider and just go at it like you mean it once in-awhile, but it's nice to get to know one another as well to an extent.

So obviously sex is at the forefront, but for me if the companionship is half as good as the actual sex then it's going to be a great mix.

A horny social worker?  Sounds kinky.  Do you have a cure for what ails me?

For me hobbying started out just for the sex. I had been married about 20 years and sex was so infrequent I thought I would go crazy.  But in the 12 years since I started it has become more about the chance to meet people who can blend the erotic and intellectual. I have been fortunate to meet some truly wonderful women in the hobby. Though it does seems harder to find such a combination of such qualities.

Yes. I believe I do!

Why is it difficult to find the two combined?  There are so many escorts, and some charge a lot!  I figured those would be the one's you'd find the most intellectual and erotic or am I incorrect?  I'm both I think, not only because I went to college lol, but because I like to read and am arty.

of white envelopes.  Plus I do like both companionship and sex.  Would not one without the other.

I began just for the sex but I've met some wonderful, interesting, stimulating, courageous, curious, lovely, engaging, exciting, charming  women. Some are now friends and visits are unique to the person and the relationsheips encompass so much more than sex. So now I love it all. But, God! I do love the sex.