I am not the type to have an ATF. I will pass up on a provider that I enjoy being with to try a new face from proven sources. But, the pillow talk time that I get with providers is important for my sanity. My job has high pressure associated with it and is time consuming. I am single and don't have family. I can't talk to my colleagues about parts of my life. But I can talk to providers about anything that is on my mind that is not offensive to them. Providers are like psychologists for me, at a much lower hourly fee.

although I did enjoy the company of a few of the gals, but I wouldn't have paid just for that.

Now that I'm older I am coming to find the social interaction with many of my regulars as important or even more so than the bedroom activity.

We go out to dine and even see shows, visit museums and just in general get to know each other socially.

I'm glad that you enjoy that part of the interaction as well.

Where are your reviews Deb?

I see providers for a combination of both, I will say that seeing providers who can't really hold a conversation or don't make me feel at ease, are mainly mechanical and just waiting to get it over with really turns me off, and makes for an awkward experience, at least on my end.

I find often times that I'd be willing to see someone multiple times if they are willing to engage in conversation, seem into the session, and there is some chemistry there.  Nothing has been worse to me than someone who has a set routine and expects me to get in and out ASAP (no pun intended).   It's great to see a provider and just go at it like you mean it once in-awhile, but it's nice to get to know one another as well to an extent.

So obviously sex is at the forefront, but for me if the companionship is half as good as the actual sex then it's going to be a great mix.

of white envelopes.  Plus I do like both companionship and sex.  Would not one without the other.

I began just for the sex but I've met some wonderful, interesting, stimulating, courageous, curious, lovely, engaging, exciting, charming  women. Some are now friends and visits are unique to the person and the relationsheips encompass so much more than sex. So now I love it all. But, God! I do love the sex.