Not sure how much of any sympathy this will create yet to me this is ultra frustrating. I am a well educated black male in good shape with good looks yet twice this week try to hoppy yet was not able to crack the doors open. What gives ? Called the agency back with the attempt just a few hours ago with the operator stating "she's a small girl she doesn't do black guys". Lastly, you need to tell me this ahead of time. So now by being black I also need to be double screened, I am upset aboout this, I could be a white male with a large unit what's the difference. Just thought I would put it out there and create a new thread.

not real privy on the screening process of many gals or agencies , but dont believe i recall seeing one that actually asks for your race in the screening process. Is that something you share ahead of time ??

Being in this Hobby, takes alot of patience. Most all providers have a screening process that you must go through, no matter what race you are.  

As long as you are respectful, have good hygiene and treat her like a Lady you shouldn't have a problem.

Don't give up, Boston has some of the Best Ladies around!

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Life is full of tradeoffs...

http://www.wsgforum.com/vforum/showthread.php?threadid=265#post155734

Eh, I've only run into this problem once and it left a bad taste in my mouth, but at least she was honest and told me up front she had a problem with Black guys.  It would suck to toss away money on what would likely have been a shitty encounter because a girl is repulsed by the amount of pigment in my skin.  Yeah, it sucks, but I recommend you just keep looking around and to be safe, when you make the appointment, ask them straight out if the provider does Black guys.  It'll save you a needless trip.  Your best bet is to try an agency that features a series of girls and ask the boss/madame/etc.  With a pleathora of girls at their disposal, you're likely to have at least one provider who isn't afraid of the Black cock.

Unfortunately in this business like any other you run into people who have a close minded view of what people are like based on any physical characteristic including race of course.
.Im terribly sorry that that happened to you . Many ladies have one specific type of gentleman they will see that excludes many great guys . Its a matter of personal preference I suppose but Ide imagine it must be extremely bothersome .
My suggestion would be to assume they did you a favor and saved you the donation that you can use to benefit a lady that appreciates you for who you are.
I realize by responding to this thread people will assume it was our agency , to the best of my knowledge it wasnt .This is just a topic I feel strongly about .
Celia

No Celia it was not your agency. I am not sure it would be right for me to reveal the agency yet she did comment that I should have told her I was black. I am an attractive male in good shape that saved money yet wasted time and will never do business with this agency. Earlier in the week it was with an independent. Thanks for the understanding all, I really thought there wouldn't be any sympathy here yet was wrong. Hey, I have been with many in Boston yet this has been the week from hell.

i agree wholeheartdlly with its probablly just a matter of personal preference , this is a unique "hobby" we partake in.
 i believe in the ole saying untill you walk in my shoes  ....i havnt  walked in yours or thiers, so i dont know . but have my own share of not so pleasent experiences...comes with the hobby i suppose ?
 IMHO ,  as hobbyists we pre-screen before the ladies, we have a like and dislike list that we all follow , be it hair , weight , age , sometimes money ,ect.....doesnt neccesarilly mean that we are being "prejudice" or whatever , its just personal preferences.... the ladies i assume  to a point do this also , they not be selling sweaters !, they are offering a very intimate and personal encounter.
 and like stated by easterncompanions, if the gal was really uncomfortable with the encouter for whatever reasons , it probablly wouldnt rate to high on your list , consider it money saved towards an encounter that hopefully leaves ya mesmorized, ...trust me we all go through some type of annoyances.................happyhuntng

This has happened to me several times.  If a provider doesn't want to see someone of my race, then she's not the type of person I want to see anyways.  I just wish they'd be upfront about it and not waste my time.  

But I must have to say that this isn't the norm...I've seen dozens of providers, and the vast majority could care less about my skin color.

I also don't see why it's a problem listing who the providers were.  You'll save other hobbyists from having to endure the frustration you experienced.

I've only been an active internet hobbyist for about 5 months. In that time I've yet to encounter this problem. It did happened to me in the past before I started hobbying on the internet, because of that I sometimes ask up front if the paticular girl I'm interested in has a problem with my race (black). You'd think we wouldn't have to do this in 2004 but some people are stuck in the past.
 My I suggest you try the BellaDonna. Although I've only seen Sasha they have quite a few beautiful young ladies and the agencey was a real pleasure to deal with.

Good Luck and Happy Hobbying
 P.S.
   please pm with the agencyand girls name so I don't waste my time

Don't worry darling, I'm sure plenty of women would love to see you. Your just having a bad week. Being a woman of color(mixed heritage)I understand your frustration, however we live and we learn. Do not allow their ignorance to prohibit you from having a great time with other ladies. P.S. I need a big one, I don't care what color it is! lol! Just thought I'd give ya'll a good laugh -Rachael

I do not think that is the "norm" among the ladies of this board.  I do hope you continue to enjoy yourself with us!

Ashley

Its how you treat me in session that counts. I  see only gentlemen of utmost class that  are clean,gentle and treat me like a lady. The few black men that I have seen in my  past  were NOT gentlemen...but there is always a first time. I don't see Arabs though...but all other races  are OK by me just so long as your a nice classy  clean gentleman that treats me like a lady. I don't like low class men of any color.

This is my last message about this encounter and hopefully again it is simply an eye opener and I hope never to have it happen again. To say I am shocked is an understatement, yet to have the operator state that I should have told her I was black really pissed me off and as I think ticks me off more. I have seen many ladies before from this agency and to give them as much $$$$ as I have makes me feel like an ass. The agency was Roomservice and if you are to do business with them have fun. Sorry to do this yet 2004 is long enough for prejudice, can't we all get along.

I know Jill of Roomservice and I don't think she her self would  say something like that,I don't know about her phone girls though.

I do know that some ladies,even some black ladies will not see a black gentleman. I know for a fact that my own girlfriend who's a BBW  escort and who I manage will only see white men over 40,and I state that on her web site.
As I said in my other post,it's really not a matter of skin color,its the personality of the gentlemen that count,and how clean  they are, and how they treat me in the session.
I wish you better luck in the future.

Not sure if Jill. As stated before what was said was true, whoever answers on a Friday afternoon was the woman I talked to. Yes, it is major yet my Patriots won, and never will I give roomservice business again.

You know there is another escort service called Roomservice 2000. I don't know much about them but I've heard that clients in the past have had problems with them. Also you stated that you paid up to $$$$ with this service. I don't think Jill charges that much for a hour of service with one of her girls,unless you took more then an hour with a girl.

Jill is a very nice woman.I know she has problems at times with her girls and her phone help,being an agency owner is a very hard job, but if you call her I am sure she would work things out with you.

Again I am sorry to hear that you are having such a problem with  girls not wanting to see you because of the color of your skin.
I hope you have better luck in the future.

Most men when they call or email me tend to ask me if I will see them if their black,asian,hindu or what ever. I tell them I'm more into the age and personallity then the color of their skin. I tell these men that as long as they are not an Arab I will see them.Also it's not the color of an Arabs skin that turns me off,it's WHO  they are that turns me off!

I had an almost identical experience with Room Service a few months ago.  I had an appt. to see Jenny and went up to her room.  As I entered the suite, she gave me a weird look and without saying anything, not even a generic hello, she goes to the bathroom for a few min.  I assumed she was freshening up and putting on her game face before the big event.  

When she comes out, she hands me her cell phone, saying "she wants to talk to you."  Sure enough, it was Jill on the phone, saying to the best of my memory: "I'm sorry.  I didn't know you were Black.  She doesn't do Black guys.  We've been alot of problems with them lately."  Maybe I was reading too much into it, but I thought to myself: "Oh?  Why?  'Cause I don't talk like 50 Cent?"  Before I could ponder further, she offered me an appt. with another provider a good 10 miles away, but the experience killed any libido I had that night.

I handed the phone back and Jenny just mumbled "sorry" as I left.  Yep, this experience left a bad taste in my mouth and was unfortunate.  I can understand if Jenny was uncomfortable around Black men if she's had bad experiences with them in the past, but why compound the tragedy?  I feel strongly the angency/provider should let us know at while we're making the appt. if there are any racial restrictions.  Otherwise, it ruins the evenings of the provider AND the jon.  If we're told the rules while making the appt., there's no harm, no foul since of course, the provider may set whatever restrictions she wants.  But to do all the way down there, go through the screening, 2 call-system, having to wait for the provider to finish (too common with Room Service), and then be rejected like that in your face...how can a man of any color not be outraged?!

Roomservice2000 is a verification service that is owned by a lady named Kathy in Chicago.  There is no "Jill" that works there.  I use her extensively (I am black) and this never comes up with her.