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Very thoughtful response. Thank you.
HatesWimpyMens 1025 reads
posted
1 / 19

Take a step back and read what you actually wrote.

You brag about her at every opportunity. Tell her how wonderful she is. Thank her. Tell her she makes you feel "special".

Then the next part. You're considered the "ideal" client by whom? In your mind, I'm sure.
The reality of it is that you're obviously hooked on her and more than likely pretty damned clingy.
In her mind (the one that matters) you're most likely FAR from the "ideal" client.

There's no doubt that your definition of things between you two, and hers, are VERY different.

Charlie101 102 Reviews 2332 reads
posted
2 / 19

There is a favorite provider of mine that I wrote one of my best reviews ever of.  Every chance I get I brag about her within the appropriate "shill" threads.  I tell her how wonderful and special she is, and how great she makes me feel, and I thank her for making me feel special.  I do it in a non creepy way however.  For example I have no interest in falling in love with her or dating her.  I am considered the "ideal client" (middle age, married, with disposable income).  This provider seems to have turned a cold shoulder towards me and I can't figure out what or anything I did wrong.  I feel bad because she is a great person and provider and the last thing I want to do is hurt her in anyway.  


Thanks

wantsitnow 2 Reviews 1448 reads
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3 / 19
Charlie101 102 Reviews 1416 reads
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4 / 19
Big fellow 50 Reviews 1304 reads
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5 / 19

If what you have mentioned is accurate, you are a guaranteed catch, I have a feeling you would answer her call without any hesitation.  So she probably focus her interest on gaining new clients.  Or she is bored, where she looks in excitement  for the mysterious new client stepping into her world. Or all the facts are not there, and what we are missing is the reason for the cold shoulder. Or she might be developing a connection (outside the incidental meeting) and separation/ cold shoulder is a way to cool things down? Or might spark some excitement after some time.  
Of course without offending any of the providers,
having a regular who is always excited to meet them, safe, and always appreciative of their company, and not willing to cross the line of the provider: hobbits relationship would be a keeper? Wouldn't you think? (of course assuming what you said is true )
Its her lose  I guess, and I am sure there is someone out there who will match her performance/ looks and maybe appreciate your company more.


-- Modified on 5/19/2011 9:40:50 PM

MajorJohnson 24 Reviews 1216 reads
posted
9 / 19

How often did you see her? Everyone in the service industry has customers they hate, but like and need the $$ and business, so have to be nice. It's all about the $$. I had a favorite also that stopped returning calls and e-mails...I got the hint, probably got sick of seeing me once a week. No big deal. Spend your $$ elsewhere.

IdealJohn 1237 reads
posted
10 / 19


wave the $$$ out though I do, I can't seem to get them to see me more than once.

I'm 47, 5'10" tall, 175 pounds, Ihave a 32-inch waist, washboard abs, a 6-3/4 long cock, perfect girth, with a slight fade to the right (I know it's true because all the ladies say so....at least once).

Ooh...I'm married, too, with an important job that ensures I'll keep the ship upright throughout my dealings.  Kids, one in college, one in high school.

Diposable income?  Bah!  Lunacy that you should mention it!  Disposable is SUCH a benign word to describe my situation.  All my mattresses, couches, chairs -- everything -- are stuffed with $100 bills.  I use collages of them for placemats.  My lawn is PAVED with --you guessed it -- $100 bills (saves in mowing and fertilizer).

Why I could make love to one these girls on my couch and her donation might get hung up between the cheeks of her posterior....BY MISTAKE!  NO! it's happened!

Tip, too (I don't bother with 20's for tips, straight to the Benjamins)....

So, when you declare you're the ideal client, it's likely that you're doddering along under the misguided conclusion that you really ARE ideal, but the fact of the matter is is that you labor and sweat IN MY SHADOW, somewhere south of being my twin in this regard.

So, I've decided to take stock in myself.  Being in every wise previously mentioned, the PERFECTEST specimen for a lady to visit, I thought about what she MIGHT NOT like about me.

Do I have an over-bearing personality? Do I post things on the board that might lead the general population of ladies to question whether the plates in my skull overlap their neighbors as God prescribed?  Or are they likely to come to the conclusion that I've got a marble free, rolling around and blocking out the light on occasion?

I haven't come to any conclusions with respect to ME....




cavernosa-kid 3063 reads
posted
11 / 19

maybe she heard that you nset your messages to "ignore
' and feels that is against the spirit of  the board ?????

dirty_little_tease 1329 reads
posted
13 / 19

Posting fake reviews, shame on you.  You lost your other user handles, now lose this one.  You should have been banned.

bballs 40 Reviews 1358 reads
posted
14 / 19

honestly in reading your post it seems clear you have creeped her out (even though you meant to "do it in a non creepy way")

making this post has probably served to "send her a message", which I am sure was your intention much moreso than asking any question of the board in general

I feel you, brah - it's hard to wait around for something you know may never happen, but it's harder to give up when you know it's everything you want

good luck

Charlie101 102 Reviews 841 reads
posted
15 / 19
FireinHearth1 28 Reviews 1200 reads
posted
19 / 19

-that something has occured in her life to change her approach to the hobby, ie.a new SO in her life or some other situation that has changed her attitude, not just for you but for all clients.
Maybe it's not about you at all.

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