another appointment with a provider you've seen once?

performance? she didn't do BBBJ and she usually does.

looks? not quite what her pictures inferred.

attitude? did she seem disinterested.

chemistry? this is a hard one as I don't believe the "connection"  established with escorts is real. I tend to think when you meet someone you form a "picture" of the type of person they are.You might gravitate to someone with similar interests or personality traits. For ex, I'm a passive guy, laid back. I don't usually get a long with high strung type A alphas

As far as escorts go, would you book another appointment with a lady you've seen if you wouldn't necessarily find them to be someone you'd befriend socially?

I won't see a gal unless her reviews, looks, activities, price, etc. are all in line with what I want.

But that won't tell me whether we really click.

There are so many gals I do click with, it's silly to go back and see gals that don't give that extra sensation.

One reason I like to do this is VARIETY. A guy like me has NO chance with woman of the caliber I have seen. Sure it's hard to brag about it to my buddies but I know  So I like being able to see all sorts of ladies. I do repeat if I really hit it off but that is rare or they retire on me

i.e., one and done.

I have seen the same lady more than once before but it ended up being one too many. There was only one who I would have liked to see again but she stopped responding after 2 visits

I find that sometimes strippers and escorts will lie to you about stupid shit thinking that it will somehow benefit them (in their relationship with you) in some way but for me it does the opposite. One example would be an escort promising you a discounted rate to become a regular and then pretending to forget about it later. Even if the woman was hot, if she promises me a hundred dollar discount or free session for something and then doesn't follow through with it doesn't really motivate me to repeat after getting all excited about her cool sounding offers.

Another would be the whole establishing of a relationship outside of the escort/hobbyist thing only to lead into the old sob story and needing money for their troubled brother or getting evicted or that kind of thing.  I should know better by now but when you have a pretty naked woman showing interest it's sometimes hard to think with your head.

The whole Zumba ordeal has kind of made me more cautious about this whole thing for a while too... that and the flu emergency.

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This is a tough one. I would book another appointment with a provider.  However, there are so many gorgeous woman out there it makes it difficult to repeat.  

I also have gotten into this hobby for the variety of woman that I could meet.  I read the reviews in detail, read posts entered by the woman and look for a young woman who I feel I may connect with.  Sometimes it works out great and other times it just feels like a session.  

like they have their shit together. i have not come across any sob stories.IMO, They have a difficult"job".I know I couldn't do it.

I think for me it is all about chemistry.  She has to have skills and be open to the activities that I enjoy. Lastly she has to be able to enjoy the time and not be faking it.  There have been a number of woman I have met who fit the bill and I saw them over and over.  It usually ends when she either retires or thinks my money is her money.  When it works it is great as you really get to know what works well for each other.

Jack

within first few minutes?

That's why I try only one hour for first session. If you walk in and she doesn't even smile...it's a bummer.

"Lastly she has to be able to enjoy the time and not be faking it. "

if you mean orgasm, another real hard one to determine. It has only happened once with me.

IMO, most of the time they are faking (unless they're a nympho) which is ok. I mean what should we expect?

If you mean faking having a good time that's impossible for me to tell.

I'll be repeating some of the comments of others, but sometimes you leave a session and you had a great experience.  These are the providers I want to repeat with.  

For me it usually has less to do with physical performance and more to do with whether she was interesting, provocative or funny.  If she's full of herself and acts like she's doing you a favor by meeting you then it doesn't matter how pretty she is, I won't want to repeat.

I also look at value.  I get the impression that I'm less financially able than others on here.  For me this hobby is very expensive (and my financial ability is more aligned with Room Service pricing) so if I'm going to repeat, the experience would have to have been very special.

can't stand the "princess" types.

it is expensive. if you consider the real motive for seeing an escort is sex, not companionship, since we can all have conversation, go out to dinner, catch a show at the theater, watch a ballgame etc... with any woman who is not an escort.When you consider that, the dinner dates and overnights that hobbyists pay for are even more expensive.

although my ATF list is getting a bit long these days  happy 2013!

Obviously, the first session has to be great - otherwise, why would you go back?
I've repeated, but only when I've felt we had a connection - where we can kind of sense what the other wants. or where there are things left to do.

First attitude...for 200...400..500 roses no matter what the donation fee is...I think the provider should always welcome a client with a friendly attitude and a desire to please her client. A lot of girls after a while in the business doesn't care anymore and will look at you like a number.

I have seen a few very hot looking girls that I would never want to see again even when she reduces her gift fee. And there are girls not as "beauty material" are worth your time and donation to always go back and leave with a smile.

And that for me turns into the chemistry part, bad attitude = bad chemistry.

One more important thing is hygiene. Well most ladies are always smelling good...but there are times you just want to get it over with and leave.