One reason I like to do this is VARIETY. A guy like me has NO chance with woman of the caliber I have seen. Sure it's hard to brag about it to my buddies but I know  So I like being able to see all sorts of ladies. I do repeat if I really hit it off but that is rare or they retire on me

I won't see a gal unless her reviews, looks, activities, price, etc. are all in line with what I want.

But that won't tell me whether we really click.

There are so many gals I do click with, it's silly to go back and see gals that don't give that extra sensation.

I find that sometimes strippers and escorts will lie to you about stupid shit thinking that it will somehow benefit them (in their relationship with you) in some way but for me it does the opposite. One example would be an escort promising you a discounted rate to become a regular and then pretending to forget about it later. Even if the woman was hot, if she promises me a hundred dollar discount or free session for something and then doesn't follow through with it doesn't really motivate me to repeat after getting all excited about her cool sounding offers.

Another would be the whole establishing of a relationship outside of the escort/hobbyist thing only to lead into the old sob story and needing money for their troubled brother or getting evicted or that kind of thing.  I should know better by now but when you have a pretty naked woman showing interest it's sometimes hard to think with your head.

The whole Zumba ordeal has kind of made me more cautious about this whole thing for a while too... that and the flu emergency.

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I think for me it is all about chemistry.  She has to have skills and be open to the activities that I enjoy. Lastly she has to be able to enjoy the time and not be faking it.  There have been a number of woman I have met who fit the bill and I saw them over and over.  It usually ends when she either retires or thinks my money is her money.  When it works it is great as you really get to know what works well for each other.

Jack

I'll be repeating some of the comments of others, but sometimes you leave a session and you had a great experience.  These are the providers I want to repeat with.  

For me it usually has less to do with physical performance and more to do with whether she was interesting, provocative or funny.  If she's full of herself and acts like she's doing you a favor by meeting you then it doesn't matter how pretty she is, I won't want to repeat.

I also look at value.  I get the impression that I'm less financially able than others on here.  For me this hobby is very expensive (and my financial ability is more aligned with Room Service pricing) so if I'm going to repeat, the experience would have to have been very special.

Obviously, the first session has to be great - otherwise, why would you go back?
I've repeated, but only when I've felt we had a connection - where we can kind of sense what the other wants. or where there are things left to do.

attitude and no chemistry

First attitude...for 200...400..500 roses no matter what the donation fee is...I think the provider should always welcome a client with a friendly attitude and a desire to please her client. A lot of girls after a while in the business doesn't care anymore and will look at you like a number.

I have seen a few very hot looking girls that I would never want to see again even when she reduces her gift fee. And there are girls not as "beauty material" are worth your time and donation to always go back and leave with a smile.

And that for me turns into the chemistry part, bad attitude = bad chemistry.

One more important thing is hygiene. Well most ladies are always smelling good...but there are times you just want to get it over with and leave.