AdultFriendFinder worked for a buddy in NYC looking for UTR semi-pros.  I was wondering if anyone used it here?

I used it a few years ago and connected with a provider. No such luck with "non-providers" though. Look for words like 'seeking generous gentleman' etc... Good luck.

and i would also add,  "i was a member for a month about a year ago".that about 95% of the responses you will get back are no more than spam for pay-sites

I am still a member, but have had NO success hooking up with anyone in 9 months. Just like most places on the net, most of the members are men and the few women that are "real", ie not spammin for a pay site, have their hands full with hundreds of responses... from what I've been able to tell in the chat rooms couples looking for couples and or women have more success but not by much.
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I assumed it was a bad idea, but confirmation is always nice.