Eros is one of the worse one for that but you're not wrong. Had an ATF if 6 years scammed me in the end for 6k, so it's not just you. Times are tough, Things are bleak, girls are desperate, seems like you can't trust anyone anymore, now.
Regarding Eros, Word of advice: If they don't have an online presence outside of Eros, they're likely fake.
Stay safe, maybe wait for androids.
Just that a provider is Verfied or VIP (Vip only get's her more photos nothing more ) Verfied really don't mean much ( but she gave her ID to EROS and she the one in the photos ) and EROS can't say she will be the one in the photos when the door opens .
What I've seen on EROS are the ad's with no info in the BIO I would bet that can be a scamer and sure some are not , but i'm not 100% about this , she may just want her ad up in 24'hs .
The ads with no bio are called a fast ad and you can't put any BIO on the ad and they are to go up with in 24hr on the normal ads with bio takes 24-48hrs to get approved by EROS .. I use EROS on every tour and have a busy tour from EROS.
As for a EROS provider do your home work
Google- Email- Number- Name .. See if she has a website or on Twitter or P411 she if she has a long History as a Provider .
On twitter we can put our website info , where on EROS they stop that back in 2018 ..
We can put Twitter / IG link's on EROS , email, number that's it .
RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH
It's a shame that providers who are serious ( as myself and don't scam with deposit pay the price of guy's thinking he's going to get scamed by every reparable provider ( not not ture , put yes it does and has happened ) I call the not serious provider A fly by night providers, and may scam as they are here for some fast cash and don't have a Reputation to be worried about ..
Well Establishe Provider's Are The One's Who You Should Be Contacting !