I don't think I have ever been in a relationship where we haven't used toys and it also adds to the experiences I have with providers.  I was introduced to one yesterday that was very new to me, but I would do (almost) anything for this girl, so we said what the hell.  It was "shocking" how much we both liked it.

2 questions:
1.  Do you agree or disagree that toys add to the hobbying experience?
2.  At what point do you introduce them?

This is the third time I have seen the lady I mentioned and we really got lost in the experience to the tune of a couple of hours.  

Your thoughts?



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I think toys are so much fun to enjoy with my partners. It can be a bit awkward knowing when to introduce them as you never want to offend anyone and some people just aren't in to it. (Hard to believe huh?) From my perspective, I love it when a gent says hey do you have any toys? Or I would like to experiment with some toys, or can I bring you a new toy next time? I get the biggest grin and cannot wait. The chemistry has to be there for both parties to be comfortable but I am always open to enhancing playtime. Many ladies can have seriously amazing O's with them and I am in that crowd. I also like allowing my partner to please me as much as I am pleasing them.
I think you should introduce them when you feel the time is right, however some ladies are more vocal that these types of things are part of their path to pleasure. It never hurts to ask either because the worst thing that can be said is no. I have a feeling you may get many more yes votes than no though!
XoXo,
Savanah

The mental pic of the mod with pulsating nipple clips.

Toys...generally the second date.  The first date is alaways YMMV with a girl because its the intial meeting and you are "feeling" each other out (total pun intended)

I recently moved and I have a duffle bag, carryon suitcase and one shopping bag full of toys.  Sometimes I just go to the adult store just because....like a kid in a candy store!!!

I think anything that enhances the sexual experience is good to do in the hobby.

I think a little communication with your partner once you get together is all that is needed.  

So what was the new toy that so "shocking" ?

about that new toy!

A vibrator works nicely.
I've always liked using one(on her) while eating my ladies pussy!
Never had toys used on me,much! I was always into giving and not receiving!!!(well,what can you expect,i was married for 30 yrs!!) Not used to receiving!!!,,LOL!

I got to be the shocker for the most part and the shockee for a little.

my favorite place

I got one of those HITACHI HV250R Magic Hand Massager's and gifted it to my atf. She now brings it to every visit. She was already very orgasmic- this sent her over the top!
My favorite position is for me to sit on the edge of a chair. I hold the toy between my legs about 2/3 of the way down toward my knees. She faces me straddling my legs...
We can kiss and I can reach under and adjust it's speed....It's kind of like being a living Sibian.
I have never had a girl react with such intensity!

all chest no toys is a new one.

I love to play with toys, it can really add some spice to the time you have together.  Chicago had these wonderful rooms that you could get for 4 hours or so, with just about every amenity you could imagine, including hooks for your swing, mirrored ceilings, water slides, jacuzzi, pool, etc.  There was nothing hotter than Bebe and I finding a willing cock, and dragging out our suitcases of joy and riding, sliding and vibrating ourselves into oblivion.

I usually wait until I can be sure that the guy is interested and willing to be creative before I bring in any toys.  So, guys, if we ask you what your fantasies are, TELL US!!!  

XOXOXOXO

Jules

Now you know what you are gonna do next time

I have one and it's my best friend.

Well, it looks like I have to go shopping!  I need to get my toy collection back into shape!  It's sadly down to only my eroscillator...

Buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.................  

Oh, and if you have a lady that you adore, and she doesn't own an eroscillator, introduce her to the best orgasm of her life...