Each escort has her own set of rules that she sets to make her comfortable
So why do guys always try to go around the rules.
it's almost like a power struggle

I say:
call me when you are outside

they say:
no just meet me outside

I say:
give me 4 hours notice

they say:
Can you just squeeze me in right now

I say:
You gotta fill in my form completely

They:
Fill in half of the form

I say:
Don't IM me

They:
IM me

there are reasons for the rules i have, most of the rules have to do with law enforcement, (the others have to do with laziness),
See heres is my main criteria; if you don't follow my rules you are a cop trying to find a way to arrest me
if you aren't one, fill in the form, give me a few hours notice and everything will be copacetic

That's the process I'm comfortable with
And when I'm comfortable, you will be too

but seriously guys what is the big deal about following the lil bit of rules we have?

Most guys who've met me realize I have ALMOST NO RULES in the bedroom so whats the big deal about following the few I do have outside the bedroom.

I'm just frustrated cause I've had to turn down 10 new clients who were responding the my 1/2 hour special just because they did not fill in my screening form or for calling me and asking if they could come see me RIGHT NOW.

money is secondary to my safety and comfortability
and safety and comfortability for me is a guy who follows my rules

Modified because of massive spelling errors, ack!!

-- Modified on 12/11/2003 1:24:58 AM

Hi Vicky,

I have spent the majority of my set-up time the past few days, on e-mails that start with:

"I'm married and can't give you my full name and verifiable home or work number."

And finish with any of the following:

"Is this the only way I can see you?"

"Is this the only way you work it?"

"I saw so-and-so in your area and she didn't verify me. Even though her website says she does."

"But I'm a nice guy."

"But I'm a young guy."

"But I'm a good-looking guy."

My response of course is always the same. Something along the lines of "I'm sorry to hear that we are incompatible. Good Luck in your search and have a great day."

Some gentlemen do respect the fact that I verify and understand why I do it. However, far more get immediately offended that I would not set up a time with them that the responses range from "you are rude" to very agressive, hateful replies that have actually scared me and made me thankful that they did not pass verification. Which then makes me thankful that I do it.

Most of mine go:
"do you want this money or not?"

I'm like WTF?? am I suppose to sacrifice my well being because you are too impatient and lazy to fill in a lil form and give me a lil info

Argh
BTW I added your link to my website

The best you can do is stick to your guns. If you don't feel comfy, they loose out anyway.

Stay Safe

Lisa Luvlie

There is no excuse why us guys can't follow the rules. From what I see you don't ask for any info that would be a problem. Keep to your rules and stay safe.

Duke

1) Ignore anyone that does not comply by your rules.  That means email, phone, IM, etc.

2) If someome is looking for an exception, shut the door tight.

3) Remember that your phone, cell phone and computer (email, IM, website) are there for your convienence, not the convienence of others.  If others find them convienent, great, otherwise too bad.

4) It's your body baby!  Just because you let one customer do XY&Z doesn't mean that the next customer has to get anything but X.  In short, there are never entitlements regardless of circumstances.  You set the pace and the agenda.  If they balk, do a refund and leave!

FINALLY, NEVER COMPROMISE THE STANDARDS YOU SET FOR YOURSELF!
In the end, they are all you have to protect yourself with.

Hope you find this helpful advise.  

As for anyone that disagrees with my advise, tough!

Warmly,
Loarthan

All Men Are Thinking  With Their "Little" Heads. Just Keep To Your Rules.