Today one of my lady friends had the distinct displeasure of being the target of a gentleman with bad intentions. While he is a previous visitor and has always been well behaved today he tried to medicate the lady he was with . I strongly suggest that all ladies indy or agency remember to provide their own refreshments or be sure to check to be sure the beverage your being offered hasnt been tampered with . Luckily the lady in question is just fine and was left unharmed but a little shaken up .
Most men bearing fine wine are thoughtful gentleman and should be proud of themselves for being so .

In this case however 74 year old men with open bottles of wine with crushed up pills inside are a totally different story.

Any actual providers or agencies interested send me an email and Ill be happy to provide discretely of course enough info for you to recognize him before hand .

Stay safe and play nicely Amber [email protected] 978 387 7383

I am glad to hear that the lady was not seriously hurt. I will be emailing you shortly, and thank you for the heads up.

Sincerely,

Mel

... especially the 74-yr old man aspect of it (god knows what he had in mind, probably to embalm her! -- ok not really funny

not that a younger man doing it is any less creepier

Im happy to help thats all , and as far as creepy goes you may be right he may have wanted to take her with him into his next life or something over the top like that .
Since then has called to apologize and seemed to be almost in tears .
Needless to say he wont be scheduled with any of my ladyfriends ever again .

Thank you to all of you to all of you who have taken the time to write me .
Its always nice to see positivity from this community .
Guys and Girls your fantastic .
Amber

Amber,it's great that you are putting this info out to the community.I hope that the travelling independents and agencies will read your posts and contact you.I am calling some people that I know to tell them to contact you.I certainly understand the problems with going public or to the police with this info,but lets all do what we can to stop this freak from hurting someone.If there is anything I can do,please contact me.

Bob,
Your very sweet to help I appreciate it you letting other ladies know what happened . Im glad that the ladies out there have taken an interest I have renewed faith in the agents in this business for taking the time to find out the details .

As always
Amber

As someone hoping to tour to boston in the coming weeks your inof posted was great and thank you.  In my experience 74 yr old men have generally are the last ones I would suspect of bad behavior but I learned something new today..not all old men are just innocent wee men...I wonder what he was like at age 20,30,40??  I wonder if was a real bad boy then?  Thanks again,catherine

Bob, you are so sweet and thoughtful. Thanks for looking out for us ladies.

Laura

Amber, thank you also for coming forward with this kind of information.  I really apprecite you looking out for all of us in this way.  I know I'm not the only one here with a  big NO list.  Too bad us ladies couldnt get together for a chat night or something once a month to exchange NO list info like this.  Take care and thanks again,
Laura

I strongly believe we all need to look out for each other whether your agency affiliated independent
a referal agent a  phone person a hobbyist or a lurker.

Its too dangerous not to.

I just hope that ladies out there realize that this he is not the norm , most hobbyists are kind thoughtful gentleman and today I have been reminded of that .

The kindness of this community never ceases to amaze me .

Again
Amber

::shakes head:: that's horrible!  I hope the young lady is doing fine and doesn't let this affect her long-term.

I hope all other providers/agencies have contacted you to find out who this creep is.

All the best of success to you.I hope the girl is OK.Love,Grayeyed Nicolexoxoxxoox

No thank you both !!!!
Your a very thoughtful !
Nicole your a gem ...

Shes doing just fine but won't be returning to work anytime soon .
She has promised to call me every week and give me an update on how she's doing !


As always
Amber