Yesterday two not so positive reviews popped up for two ladies we associate with Nikki and Lexus/Alexis and I just had a few thoughts Ide like to put out there for anyone interested to see.
First of all I do not support upselling in any situation . I think its tacky and certainly uncalled for and definitely not something that I agree with nor will I let go on witihin my agency.
Having said that I do agree that extra services above and beyond the call of duty should be at the ladies discretion.
Let me stress I mean above and beyond such as fetishes and things of the sort I do not mean normally inclusive sessions.
Not one person has brought any issue like that to my attention in the last four years .That is an issue I address before hadn with every lady I consider working with.
The lady in question stresses to me that the services requested were above and beyond . I have no way of knowing one way or the other at this point but I would like it to be known that if there ever is an issue I need to know about it immediately .
The other issue I feel like I need to adress is the review or Alexis/Lexus she is a lovely girl who found herself in Boston with an ad on eros and not getting the attention she felt she needed so we met and I decided to welcome her .I have heard very positive feedback on her since then and she has conducted herself very proffesionally while shes been here with us .She has been where she says shes going to be when she says shes going to be there .
I do reserve the right to refuse any appointment at anytime including last minute .If a gentleman decides to ask ridiculous questions while calling from a hotel lobby I have no intention of honoring that appointment .Im sorry if that offends anyone but I have to err on the side of my other clients safety and of course our ladies safety.
I make this very clear on our site and have no intentions of doing otherwise.
Safety at this time is something all ladies and gentleman need to consider in this arena and I think we all understand the implications if we don't.
If you have any questions please dont hesitiate to call me directly or email me privately.
Again I aplogize to the gentleman who had the unfortunate incident of upselling I wish you would have brought this directly to me so I could have done more to compensate you .
I hope that youll let me have the opportunity to mend things with you.
Yours Amber
978 387 7383 or 978 376 8442

Anber very well said,honey you can't control what certain ladies do.But I think it is very classy of you to except the responsibility for it.And as you said if a client doesn't tell you what's going on.How are you suppose to know!!!!You're a classy lady Amber!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Love,Grayeyed NicolexoxoxoxoxHUGS

through her own Eros ad and she wasn't great, but she wasn't terrible. I have gotten worse sevice from girls to whom Magnum gave all nines. lol Grade inflation is not just a problem at Harvard!

Thank you truly Nicole `
I appreciate you taking the time to write.

Actually I would like to thank all of you who have taken the time to write me privately or call with positive thoughts .
Yours Amber

Thanks again ...
You girls and guys out there have to be some of the nicest people around.
And I do take responsibility for anyone associated with my agency thats my job and I take that very seriously .
W
The funny thing is most people Ive talked to about this today have said "Why are you bothering worrying about two 5 level reviews most people would be happy to receive 5's "
My only response is we are absolutely not.

As always
Yours Amber

Amber I truely respect what you are trying to do and build a classy service.I don't believe ANY of your girls deserve 5's.I feel the same way gratefully I don;t have any and don't want any,hopefully I keep giving the service that is getting me the reviews I am getting.But again Amber baby I really respect  you for taking the amount of responsibility you do ,even when it has NOTHING to do with you.   HUGS You GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Love,Grayeyed Nicolexoxoxoxoxoxox

Amber busts her butt to make sure that all her providers are at a minimum of 7.( I consider them 9's and 10's but TER has strict rules about this.)  Anything else should be considered a bad day for either the provider or the hobbyist, more than likely the hobbyist.
I have yet to have any problems with Bodyoasis girls. They always make me feel relaxed and welcomed and seem to enjoy themselves as much as I do.
I have not reviewed all the girls, yet, but if it was possible they would receive at least an 8 in my book.

Nicole,Tom
You both deserve perfect tens as far as Im concerned .
I hope that the ladies I have the pleasure of working have the opportunity to earn themselves as positive of a reputation as Nicole has .
She certainly has made some lucky men very very happy and Im sure shell continue to put forth the great service that we all strive for.

I hate to repeat myself but
Thanks ...
I truly appreciate the positive thoughts from all .
Yours Amber

Careful ShyTom, you don't want Dappa accusing you of grade inflation now do you?

I happen to think Amber is running a great service, with great ladies and I agree with you. Amber is a class act all the way which is why I enjoy doing business with her over and above all other services I have tried. Each of her ladies that I have seen, including one special one have been a joy to spend time with.

A little history, when AB2 was around there was a lady I was  absolutely dying to see. The lady blew me off. The phone girl wouldn't return my calls.... I got in touch with Amber the next day and she made it right, no questions asked. A few months later, the same girl blew me off again. OK Dappa heres something you should try, THATS when I figured out I need to start using deodorant, taking a shower, brushing my teeth and using mouthwash before I see a lady.... Oh, and I also stopped grabbing myself in front of her when I walked into the room... Dappa, got that? Might help improve your sessions lmao Even after all that, she again made it right. She has always found ways to accomodate my whims, last minute memory lapses, and one day when my ATM card stopped working before a 2 hr appointment she even laughed along with me instead of doing what I would have expected from some owners, like telling me what an a$$hole I am lol

Amber, I truely do consider you my friend and I think friends are obligated to be honest with each other. You have gone over and above on this and it shows just how classy a lady you are. And as a friend, if I thought you had a problem with how you were doing things I'd be the first person to tell you exactly what I thought. And you know that.

Relax, and if you hear from my special friend, please let her know that I am looking forward to a very relaxing, fun evening tomorrow night. I hope she is ready to be wined and dined

Hello Troll, having fun? lmao

Just a word of advice.... want credibility? Post some reviews of your own, become a member with an email address where you can attack me personally(I love one on ones), or if you are already a member with reviews, stop hiding behind an alias. I love straight up, in your face confrontations, there is nothing subtle or hidden about me, so get in the game brother and stop being a puppy trying to run with the big dogs.

Magnum dearest I just got a great idea how about a prearranged meet and greet for all of the ladies out there interested in adding a true gentleman like you to their little black books and all of the gentleman out there whether they be old friends new friends  a chance to meet some of the local ladies in person before taking the plunge so to say . Maybe some of the indy ladies or other agency owner/ladies would be interested in attending an after hours social gathering for some nonshop talk as well ?
If it was possible to pull it together with all aspects of safety in mind would anyone attend ?
I have a few special lady friends in the south that have afternoon cocktail hours every week and its always quite a time Im told .
I think Ill have to look into it. I know there are lots of women out there who have expressed quite an interest publicly and privately in meeting our most visible supporter.
If possible it might give this community a positive boost after a slight bit of negativity lately.
I dont know how women can say there arent any nice guys around I consider myself very lucky to have the pleasure of corresponding by phone or email with some of the nicest gentleman around and for that I am very thankful.
Ill be sure to pass along your thoughts to your friend as well of course.
Appreciative Amber

Agreed, Dappa.

I don't even read Magnum reviews anymore lol.

Amber, I will be the first one to say, that I would love to attend

Just keep me posted on the date/time/location

Mel

Hey, I think thats a great idea.... Two of my favorite things to do, meeting people and having a party. And, just to make it even better, people in our own special community. And, in reality, we are our own community with our own alternative lifestyle. We should celebrate it.

And, it is a great way to help avoid some of the more unwanted issues connected with the 'hobby'.

I like it..... Ladies? Gentlemen? Lets rock

And as always Amber, a special thanks to you


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Hi Amber:

I would be insterested on attending.  It's been a while since last spoke to you or use your agency, but the ladies have always been friendly.  Thanks and Wishing you the best.

I ABSOLUTELY AGREE WITH AMBER!  I can only speak for myself, however the number of  TRUE gentlemen that I see certainly outnumbers the a$$holes I have encountered.

Water seeks its own level.  That's my motto.  Sooo, if you are engaging women who appear to be stand-offish towards you, not very affectionate and they are hurrying you out the door, maybe it is time to take a good hard look in the mirror and..

- take a shower

- brush your teeth

- wear clean underwear

- and worry less about multiple pops and more about enjoying the entire experience.

I double with a female provider who is an ex "Amber" associate, and both have nothing but wonderful things to say about oneanother AND when Amber saw that Brooke and I were  engaging together, she PUBLICLY POSTED her encouragement and best wishes.

AND -- to Yappa Dappa Schmoo..Magnum and I, though never meeting have shared several quips and emails with eachother.  He truly respects the hobby and the men and women who participate in enjoying eachother.  I think the problem may lie with you dollface.

I know ladies down south that do this all the time and it is FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN for all/Let me know when and where??Love,Grayeyed Nicolexoxoxoxxo

Mag-numb;
You sure have thin skin! Can't take a little good natured ribbing? And even then, only by implication. As a matter of fact, I do post reviews, but only under an entirely separate identity. An identity that I only access from a public access computer, an identity that is never, in any way, linked to the same ip that I use to access this account. I do that for security. Some might see that as overly cautious, but I am certain I would be wasting my time explaining to you why I think it is necessary. Indeed, I would be wasting my time trying to explain anything to someone who seemingly cannot find any numeric keys other than 8 and 9. You've never been able to come up with any coherent explanation of your rating system. I'm sure most hobbyists have some intangibles, some subjective criteria, but they can usually put them into some frame of reference. I personally don't find your reviews very useful, other than their intrinsic and unintended humor, but it's a free country, so keep writing them. This will be my only response, I know from experience that any attempt to reason with you or exchange viewpoints is futile. Your threads tend to continue ad nauseum and accomplish nothing.

As far as aliases are concerned, I'm glad TER allows them and feel no guilt about taking advantage of that opportunity. I have fun thinking them up and I always try to have some kind of association with art, history, literature or folklore (Dappa O'Neill, for example. Always one of my most beloved characters in Boston politics) I try to vary my rhetorical style to match the identities, but sometimes I mix em up. Sometimes I even find myself thinking in character! I don't think I am fooling anyone who has a brain and sets about to figure out my stable of aliases. I'm sure that I inadvertently leave enough clues so that some associations are obvious to many, but apparently not to you, my erudite friend. I do it for my entertainment with no apologies to anyone. If anyone else gets my humor, so much the better, I invite you to share a laugh with me. At least I don't post misleading or incomprehensible reviews.

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Amber.......I appreciate your apology, but you will see a review from me as well related to a disappointing experience with Nikki last week in Braintree.  I am a regular customer of Body Oasis and I have been completely happy with the service and the girls to date.  I will assume that this was a one time event and continue to use your great service.

I could be very wrong because I am computer illiterate but I had asked the question before to thirsty about the envelopes next to peoples names. I believe his response was that if someone had no envelope it ment it was an alias.  However, again I could be wrong if you have an alias then the original screenname registered has to be on that computer as well.  Am I just plain dumb or what? I know there are some computer guys out there enlighten the stupid one please.

Oh, security reasons, how convenient. No one says we have to continue this discussion on the board my friend. [email protected].... Like I said, I like one-on-one's. As for reasoning with me? From where I sit, I'm not the person that needs to be reasoned with

I am more than willing to discuss reviews, the review process and your opinions on those subjects, so feel free to email me. I’m also willing to explain the comments in my reviews should someone not understand them. I also checked my own reviews, and where others had reviewed the same ladies I have reviewed my numbers are pretty much in line. I'm sure there is some YMMV.

But, ducking behind an alias, starting threads just for your own entertainment is being a troll in my book, just a troll. That used to be an ugly word on the internet, a word that no one wanted to have associated to their real screen name.

Oh, should you decide to email me, please put Dappa in the subject line.


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Wow who would have thought so many ladies and gents would come out to say theyde be interested in such an idea.
I have had two very generous offers this morning alone so far with location ideas.
I will have to look into all aspects of everything involved and Ill post my report as soon as I have it together .
Ide be interested in hearing from any female volunteers out there with event planning backgrounds ...
Im happy to sponsor the minievent so theres no reason for anyone interested to not attend.


On a more serious note Dappa when you have a moment I would like to hear from you privately if at all possible .
I dont want there to be any yucky feelings between us even though I still dont know who you are .
I sincerely hope that your next experience with any lady is a double ten .
Yours Amber
[email protected]

I always wanted to go to one of these functions, but being so shy has it's pitfalls.

I am a "new freind" but would love to attend something like this with such classy ladies...keep me posted!

Having a get together is a great idea. It would help break the ice between hobbiest and providers for first time meetings.

I was always too shy to attend (I'm better one-on-one) but when they did it I remember all of the participants raving about it on the boards for the next week or two after it.

-Shy_N_Jewish

Because I liked the idea of seeing body (nipple) piercings just once ... Then again, I also like the special abilities I've read about Tia but I work until 8pm so I haven't been able to meet her yet. *pout*

-Shy_N_Jewish

Dont Pout ,
Tia is actually attending school during the day this semester instead of evenings so shes free later into the nights like tonight shes in until 10pm .
Hope you can find the time I know youll be happy you had the pleasure.

Dear lurker ,
Please let me know if there was some problem Im unaware of .
In Magnum's defense there are many friends out there who wait to see his reviews and even ask if hes seen so and so before and what his thoughts were and tell me they usually agree with his ideas as well.
I hope that he doesnt get a bad rep because of little ole me.
Yours Amber

Hello Ladies...I'm a first timer..I have been browsing the services and would like to know about this gathering.... "Testing the Waters" so to speak....How do I go about connecting with you all?  

There's no problem, Amber.

Magnum has become sort of an "inside joke" here on the boards.  I find it surprising "many friends out there ... wait to see his reviews" when all he hands out are 8's and 9's.  Makes no sense.

Your style of writing gives you away.

Not to worry lovikins, your secret is safe with me!!!

xoxo

If your physical attractions in any way match your wit, I'm sure I would like to "know" you. Dappa O'Neill was famous (imfamous?) for bringing a revolver to Boston City Council meetings. If we were to meet, should I would bring my gun?
Tip-O-Dappa's Sherlock cap to you!
Ole Dap

Depends on which version of the bible we're talkin' about "DP," (wow, that takes on a whole new meaning!)

And, in the words of the prophet John Lennon: "Happiness is a warm gun; bang, bang, shoot, shoot."  Bring away baby..bring away.......

Your good grammar and punctuation is quite appealling, AND if you are a man who pronounces his "r's," well________(you can fill in the blanks!)

ciao tesoro, and please be nice to my friend Magnum; his punctuation and grammar is wicked stellar too, and if you wanna hang with me, you can't diss my buddies!

xoxo

I have no axe to grind with Magnum. My original post was only meant it as a friendly jibe, but his reaction was to blast away at me. It was not my intention to start a pi$$ing contest with him. I should have just ignored him. I'm sure that in person he's a nice guy, but that doesn't mean his reviews are useful to anyone else. I know I'm not the only poster to think that. I wish he had thicker skin. If he's a friend of yours, though, I'll bite my tongue in future!

Thank you for your info lurker dear im glad to hear that Im not missing any info .

I appreciate the clarification to be honest with you Im quite surprised that some of the gentleman I spoke of havent come forward . In this climate I certainly understand not wanting to reveal yourself especially now. I hope Magnum takes that into
consideration when someone sends him a bc request for info.

I hope everyone has a great weekend!

Ah, but YOU are my friend, too -- under your other screenname.  We have exchanged private emails before...

Magnum is your friend as well, because independent of me, he knows who you are too, and being a gentleman has decided to keep it hush-hush!

You are both my friends and your intellects parallel oneanother, however D,(or the other initial which is a little further down the alphabet trail) you need to stop competing for the "wittiest man on the block" slot.  You can share, and after all, this is only TER!

Now write to me you ninnie! xoxoxo

Hi Amber, Thanks.... You'll never know how much I appreciate you, bodyoasis and your friendship....

PITA lol