I get several requests to be whitelisted by Gentlemen I have seen only once.
I prefer to leave my whitelist for those I have seen repeatedly. Everyone is different this is just my choice.
I know many guys who are Ter members who I have seen but they don't write reviews. That is their choice I get it. No problem.  I don't expect to be reviewed by everyone nor do I need to be.

I also don't put a lot of stalk in whitelists as a form of refs. I want recent accounts of who you have seen unless you have seen them several times.
Then it comes in handy. We all whitelist Gents differently. Some gals will put everyone they see on a whitelist that in my opinion weakens the system.
whitelists aren't like reviews, theres no description no details so I am less likely to accept that as a form of refs. I may look to see who whitelisted you so I can call/email them and get a refs.
I have had Gents get upset because I wont whitelist them after seeing them once. Look, we all have our own policy some gals don't use whitelists at all for anyone, that's their choice, and hounding them about it is ridiculous. Its the same for the guys who don't review, its not required and shouldn't be expected EVEN if you wrote her a review.
Many Ladies I know myself included do not see whitelisting the same as a review. the neglect of details its limited so its seen by me as a false sense of security. I don't feel comfortable putting my name on someone I only spent one hour with. I just think it can be misleading.
I have been told by guys they were whitelisted by women they have never seen. Crazy as it may be I believe it so that also weakens the system. I do whitelist but like I said they are Gentlemen I have seen several times many over a span of years.

Just my opinion is all. Ladies and Gents, what say you?

I've never asked to be Whitelisted, but many gals, some I've only seen once, have Whitelisted me nevertheless.  It's flattering but like you say, it reduces the usefulness of the Whitelist for gals who want to use it as a serious screening tool.

over the span of 8yrs I have 8 ppl whitelisted dating back to 2008. I remember who they all are even the ones I have not seen in a few yrs because I saw them several times.

I don't want to mislead any ladies to think I promote someone as safe and qualified for my whitelist if all I have spent with him is one hour. I don't know him really and that's too much responsibility for me. I take refs very seriously.

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Personally I believe that the whole whitelisting thing is a bit silly.  But take my view with a grain of salt. It seems to be a controversial issue for many so I will just step right out into the mess.

Just because a gent saw "Cindy Lou who" and has 42 white lists and has been to party ABC sometimes they will insist that they are "known" and safe. I think it gives people a false sense of security, sometimes entitlement, and so many other things that mean basically nothing in terms of safety and security when we are face to face in our skivvies.  The best clients I've had have never ever mentioned anything about who they have seen during our time or even asked about whitelisting or any sort of Okays. I have offered to be a reference for them first because they deserved it and I enjoyed them.

I want to know who the gent is that I am seeing, Cindy Lou may not screen at all and hand out white lists like tissues at an allergy convention. I don't know that. I got so many requests for whitelisting in the past that I did away with it for several reasons. The largest being that these reviews are supposed to be fantasies and by whitelisting it is a confirmation of the review. I'm not going to hang myself that way legally. Also many ladies and gents play games with the review and white listing system as a means of  gaining control or power as provider or super hobbyist. Sometimes everyone wants to be number one in their area or see whomever is number one.  Others are more laid back and just enjoy this for what it is.  

Grac

I have be in this business on and off for a long time now.  I do agreed with Sweetnicole1, she is a sweet lady which I have never met, but I have seen and heard lots of good things about her.  I do not whitelist anybody that I have never met or just seen him once, because I don't want anyone to get hurt.  He may be fine with me and not the other providers, that would make it look bad on me, if I have only seen him once.  This is our choice if we want put you on a whitelist.  For example, like Mr.Fisher, I know he is a real gentleman, but I have never met him.  He is well known on this site, but I still would not whitelist him, because I have never met him.  I know I would see him, because some of the providers I know knows him, so I know he is safe, but I still would not put him on the whitelist until I have seen him.  I only whitelist people I have seen several times.  

Gentlemen, most of you don't like to write out reviews because of you wanting to be discreet about, which that does puzzles me.  But you want us to put you on Whitelists.  It works both way

So, I hope you are not offended by me.

Missy

I know I am going to be drug out and beaten for this...But why cant there be reviews for the guys here....Providers could rate us!!  LOL....I am sure that would never happen, but hey WTF, for us guys who treat woman with respect, for those of us who have impeccable hygiene, for those of us who have decent body's, for those of us who know how to please our date, for those of us who have great personalities.....wouldn't it be fun guys to see what these girls rate us????  Can't wait to here the comments/flames....

Muffy

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.... .... just like w/ p411 okays or date-check recommends (giving or receiving) etc I don't hand them out like candy, won't let anyone manipulate me for them (couldn't care less about power play when i'm the only boss of my business) and I don't give them to anyone I'm not comfortable with and careful who/which I accept them from. And I always double-check with the recent ladies who gave their wl ref/okay/recommend anyways.

Good Question, I guess that is what whitelist is for hon.

I think whitelisting is a bit silly too.  Just because a client was OK with one lady doesn't mean he won't pull some shit on the next provider.  Another problem is many providers don't screen, so they whitelist a client and they know nothing about him.  Heads up ladies if you know who a man is and what he does for a living, he won't dare pull any shit on you.  If a client is not comfortable proving his screening info for a well reviewed provider that has been around for year, then he is not my cup of tea.
I only take references from well established providers, and its just as easy to contact them for a reference.