She has very few reviews.  Anyone have any info on this beauty?

Seemed very overpirced for a few medicore reviews.  Very terse with her emails when I declined, too.  Seemed genuinely insulted that someone would have the nerve to pass.  Glad I did.

Don't  you just LOVE a woman who posts on TER and  insults her   clients

You passed because i'm out of your price range....

8-9 out or 10 is "mediocre"? I'd say a 5-6 out or 10 is mediocre, not an 8+ The wording in the emails calling me a 'firecracker' between the sheets, in "great shape" etc hardly comes off as "mediocre"

To each bitter and BROKE hobbyist his own...I'd say I'm biting the hand that feeds me, but you ain't feeding me at all.

I was insulted because I thought you were a time waster. Most people don't contact me until they have TAKEN THE TIME to check my ads and website for rates. You contacted me without first checking my rates, so you had no clue if I was $100 per hour or a grand....

and btw you people aren't my clients...most people on TER aren't, at least those who post versus just passively read....

A graceless comment can reverberate to people who actually are your clients- or at the very least haunt you each time you post here.
No provider enjoys this combative unpleasantness- but you can certainly get back on the right foot if you want to (without suppressing your opinions or personality, no less ).

If you have some free time this weekend give me a call so we can have a girl chat!

My best to you,
Ally

Just as I suspected: new, confused and a little frustrated.

You sound like a very sweet bird- I'm glad that I trusted the review of our mutual friend CanadaLover and said hello : ).

The internet has a very dehumanizing effect in that often we make careless, general remarks that we would probably never say to another person's face.
All of us opinionated broads make mistakes and speak out of turn on occasion.
When you're poked with a stick from all angles by several faceless strangers about those mistakes its very easy to become frustrated and make even more unproductive retaliatory comments.  

Its a tough gig and difficult to find your way in front of hundreds of people sometimes.

But the good thing is you're still *fresh & new*! You have plenty of time to relax and learn how to represent yourself here and on your blog in a way that allows your best self, the young woman that clients meet one-on-one, to shine through : ).  

Have a great day and I look forward to checking in with you again soon!  You can call me anytime and don't forget that other ladies are here for you as a resource too!

My best to you always,
Ally

Ashleigh, Ally and others have shown the ability to work with what can sometimes be a love hate relationship on these boards.

I think that it is terrific that you were able to talk with her and I assume a few others have reached out as well.

Here is a toast to your being able to voice your thoughts and enjoy your time here on the boards and in "real" life too.

We are a couple and we've seen Ashleigh several times. She is awesome!! Very sweet, very down to earth and very sexy in bed.  She is young and fun and highly recommended!!

How to piss people off.

You talk on your blog about marketing yourself better, so why are you posting on TER.

Since as you said "You people" are not your client base, isn't it kind of stupid to post on TER.

Shouldn't you be posting somewhere that is more to what you think your client base will be.

Granted I don't know much about marketing, but I know if you own a butcher shop you don't advertise on a vegan website.

But what do I know I don't spend all day posting about how great I am and how smart I am.

(I think someone has been watching Pretty Women a few to many times)

and help the community out.

That is what TER is for, not for totally secret experiences.

I realize we all get a little more sometimes with the ladies and they prefer we do not mention some
of those details, and I respect that 110%.

So give back to the hobby and write a review !!

just my .02

I agree, Ally.  I had a friendly email exchange with Ashleigh a couple of months back, and she was completely professional with me.

I am sure she is just getting her "sea legs" on this board.

I hope to meet her in the future, although she is a little above my normal price point.

she then should show her reviews and web address too.

Yes, this is me blushing.

Ally, you rock and to the couple I've seen, you rock as well!

Even the UNDERSTANDABLY negative comments are appreciated. Have I not indulged in some negativity myself lately? I'm ready to move forward!

In life you have to learn from your mistakes, which means you have to make some....I've learned a couple of languages, one to near-fluency, and the biggest theme with language was you HAVE to make errors. If you sit around and don't talk cause you're shy or embarrassed you have an American accent, it's counter-productive.

Thanks again to the girls, clients and others who took the time to comment, I'm feeling a bit bashful about my rash comments, but I've purged the bad vibes and I'm ready to get back on positive footing!

I have to disagree with Lamont that I've been not bragging enough versus too much. I'm a work in progress, but getting a higher degree and always trying to learn about new topics. Including how to deal with people skills and marketing without being too shameless in self-promoting

Best to you all, happy hobbying and go enjoy some wholesome family time while I do the same! We can resume our sinful rendesvous Monday and beyond!

She may well  be worth the price of addmission and for the the attitude,i just dont see it.

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Not saying TOFTT or gamble and I have not seen her blog BUT most people think i'm 'tudy until they actually meet me so just a thought.  It could very well be the same for her though I don't see this mega attitude from her.  

Look.....I have a big mouth also and maybe too many opinions and I've said things about this site and others still doesn't change how I am when I have someone sitting in front of me. Doesn't change anything.