Most providers have the sexual skills and beautiful appearance to make a session pleasurable.  What some also impart is that you are with a real girlfriend and you care about each other . Even if this is an illusion, it is important and is the difference between a good session and a great one.

Ask some basic questions upfront on guys preference.  Are you usually a one or two pop guy? Do you like to take lead or have the lady take lead? Things of this nature will help set the tone and pace of the date.

As for the second, I'd say a warm smile, which straddles both physical and personality.

I try to be sure I connect with each and every client on a personal and intellectual level, as I think many young ladies can provide mind-blowing sex and are really hot, but I am not sure there are quite so many who are genuinely interested in their partner, who will listen so intently to what he has to say that they will remember each answer he provided, who think that a real connection makes the physical part so much better. So, I am glad to hear that this is as important to you all as I believed it to be.

I also think asking questions up front is a really helpful tip that I currently do not employ.

My goal is to make every single client feel like he is the most important person to me at that time. No answering the phone. No fidgeting with my hair or nails. No preoccupation with a to-do list or other tangential concerns. For that hour, I try to make the world stop spinning so that it is just him and me.  

Eye contact in a conversation also goes a long way.

Your awesome and everyone here should be running to see you.  So, while I find some of the answers interesting I don't think there was anything mentioned that you aren't already doing. So, the bottom line is I think you've "figured it out".  

Posted By: QuinnAdams

Hi all,  
   
 In an effort to continue to improve my abilities as a provider, I wanted to pose a question to all you hobbyists:  
   
 What is your favorite thing that a provider can do in a session, or what is your favorite characteristic (physical or personality-wise) about a provider?  
   
 I am sure that all us ladies will benefit from this knowledge, so any insight would be greatly appreciated.  
   
 Thanks, in advance, for your answers and time!  
   
   
   
   
   
 

I love when a woman takes the time to dress extra sexy or has some sexy lingerie on...shows that she took time to care how she will appear.
I love when a woman smells delicious all over...sexy body lotion or the scent of a fresh shower can go a long way.
I love when a woman is flirty, sensual and takes the initiative to unbutton my dress shirt, unbuckle my belt...
I love when a woman allows me to undress her in a passionate manner instead of immediately taking off her own clothes.  
I love when a woman allows the foreplay to progress so that both sides are insanely turned on before breaking out a condom.
Try to remember we chose to see you for a specific reason...is a nice touch to see why someone chose to see you.

Turning the cell phone off is always a nice touch.  Nothing worse than seeing the phone constantly go off with incoming text messages.  Better to wait to turn the phone back on once your guest has left.

At the end of the session walking your guest to the door and giving him a nice kiss and hug to say good bye goes a long way too.
I always send a thank you text or email after my appointment with someone...would be nice if the provider took initiative to do that as I find I'm always the initiator.

Hope this helps you Quinn...although from your reviews I don't think you need any help!

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