I know that everyone strives for discretion, but lately I’ve been encountering a lot of “I do not discuss services” and, for me, that’s a hurdle I’m not able to get over.  

When I’m looking for company there are certain things that I like and knowing ahead of time if it’s off the table saves me from wasting time/money. I loathe the scenario where in the moment she says “I don’t do that.”
It’s an absolute mood killer and makes me wish I’d called someone else. So normally if I see the “I don’t discuss services” or whatever variation I move on. Conversely, I feel like I’m missing out because it’s possible that those things are available.  

How do you guys navigate that, if it matters to you? Is this just a ‘me’ thing?