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Re: Racial Discrimination
escalade1964 65 Reviews 2374 reads
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1 / 44

For me it is being "disrespectful" to hobbyist as well as

smaller items like not answering "PM's"

I prefer "Professionals" and many are.

What does the "provider" do to make you never want to book with her?

Your thoughts if any?

DEANGELO 2 Reviews 1981 reads
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2 / 44

Any provider who stipulates that they'll only see or won't see people of certain races is unprofessional.  I can't imagine doctors and lawyers discriminating.  So if a provider wants the same respect I grant other professionals, they must not discriminate.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 2062 reads
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3 / 44

So..............if I see 4-5 men who happen to all be one particular race and all of them have b.o. and I decide that I no longer want to see men of that race because of my unpleasant experiences combined....I am unprofessional?

Posted By: DEANGELO
Any provider who stipulates that they'll only see or won't see people of certain races is unprofessional.  I can't imagine doctors and lawyers discriminating.  So if a provider wants the same respect I grant other professionals, they must not discriminate.

DEANGELO 2 Reviews 1807 reads
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4 / 44

I would considered that unprofessional.  

If a gynecologist sees five patients with strong BO who happens to be of one race.  He/She can't start advertising that she will no longer accept patients of that race.

ExoticX See my TER Reviews 1762 reads
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5 / 44

Given the current world population, if anyone could possibly consider 4-5 men to be representative of an entire race, then I don't think "unprofessional" is the right word to use when describing that person.

Just saying.  

Not questioning your preferences, just your logic.

papidog 74 Reviews 1823 reads
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6 / 44

Regardless of statistics it is a little more personal experience ( when done properly) then a dr visit so its really a ladies choice  as to whom she prefers to be intimate with and given the fact that there are so many providers why not just move on? She's stated her preferable clientele and that's tha. To call that racist is the same stereotyping as calling Jews cheap or blacks criminals or Irish drunks or any other assorted bs . If its her body to abort a child then it her body to sell and or not to sell

powderpuff 1973 reads
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7 / 44

Crimson,
I have to agree with your opinion. It's not that racial profiling is right or wrong as you are using it. It's just the law of averages. You give one guy a great ride from a European country that doesn't feel that a daily bath is needed and he will recommend you to all his buddies. Pretty soon you get the feeling they all have bad hygine. Maybe you only saw one small sect but that was 100% bad and you don't need to deal.
Certain cultures treat their women differently too- so it's not all about hygine. There are lots of sterotypes and if your experience coincides with those stereotypes it is hard to stay impartial. I say do what you want- There are plenty of girls that will take the client.

Maddogwill 65 Reviews 1594 reads
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9 / 44
impposter 49 Reviews 1781 reads
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10 / 44

Posted By: DEANGELO
Any provider who stipulates that they'll only see or won't see people of certain races is unprofessional.  I can't imagine doctors and lawyers discriminating.  So if a provider wants the same respect I grant other professionals, they must not discriminate.
Doctors and lawyers are not allowed to discriminate according to the LAW. They must provide services without discriminating even if they have some sort of personal bias towards particular groups.

Doctors and lawyers must pass exams to be allowed to practice, they are then further regulated by the state, are frequently monitored by the state and, by law, must provide particular services to their clients regardless of race and other criteria.  The kind of contact they have with their clients is also regulated by state ethics and malpractice boards.  Doctor-patient and lawyer-client boinking is not allowed.

Providers don't have to pass an exam to provide their services.  State regulation of providers is of a vastly different nature than state regulation of doctors, lawyers and other licensed professionals (house inspectors, cab drivers, and so on).  Other pros are regulated in HOW they operate; providers are regulated OUT of operating.  

No other profession that I can think of involves the same level of intimacy that providing does.  Intimate contact for medical reasons allows the doctor considerable leeway to provide appropriate service no matter how disgusted they might feel (mask, gloves, nose clip, a couple of shots of Jack Daniels and on with the exam!).  Intimate contact between a lawyer and client can lead to disbarment!

I know that some Korean providers explicitly refuse to see Korean men but I think that's because of the close-knit Korea-town communities in some cities (NYC).  They are afraid they might know or be known by the guy

Mona_Talbot See my TER Reviews 1965 reads
posted
11 / 44

Unreliability
Running late
Ringing phone or handling phone during date
Overbooking
Substance abuse during date
Talking about "the biz"
Talking about clients or other provider

sweetnicole1 See my TER Reviews 1827 reads
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12 / 44

when it comes to my sex life the money is the last factor.
I have a hugely crazily Large list of DNS ppl I want nothing to do with.
I either didnt like them on the phone
Dont like them on the boards
They are under 40
Ive seen them and theres no chemistry
Ive seen them and they have poor hygeine
OR for some reason I dont like them

This is the absolute bottom line...theres no arguing with it and I dont care what anyone thinks...

I see who I wanna see
I play with who I choose
and I turn away who Im not interested in
its none of anyone elses business why I make the choices I do

this another account of someone not getting what they want.
I am not alone here.
Most women in this business have a personal list of ppl they have seen and dont want to see again
ppl they never wanna see ppl their friends have seen and they know they dont wanna see them

Its our choice who we share our intimate time with. Just as the guys make their choices as who to see.
You may have the correct donation but as I said thats the last thing concidered...
money doesnt buy you everything.
And I dont know anyone who advertises they will fuck anyone.
we all have our limits .
as far as not answering pms. when she doesnt get back to you the first 5 times concider THAT your answer. AND leave her alone. To continue to PM her constantly and post on her ads and under her threads is just obnoxious.  most ppl when they send out a request and she doesnt get back to them they move on ...you, dont seem to get the message.
I think thats better than ME having to contact you and tell you point blank shes not interested and to have to tell you to move on. then a crybaby post like this is all boohooing.
Just let it go you dont have enough money for her to play with you. You never will shes not interested! just be a gentlemen and let it go internet stalking is absolutely not appropriate and unattractive.

péineas 1600 reads
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13 / 44
PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 1675 reads
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14 / 44

Well then call me unprofessional BUT I still won't see them...when a man's balls are so heavily scented with b.o. that my eyes LITERALLY tear up and I start to gag....sorry dahlin, I just can't do it. For the record,  I personally LOVE foreplay more than anything...I want both of us to enjoy it though...I don't want to want you to leave...I want to wish it wasn't over...I really don't think I am unprofessional at all.  

Posted By: DEANGELO
I would considered that unprofessional.    
   
 If a gynecologist sees five patients with strong BO who happens to be of one race.  He/She can't start advertising that she will no longer accept patients of that race.

sweetnicole1 See my TER Reviews 1749 reads
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15 / 44

who you see or dont and the whys is your business alone.
Its your body.
dont concern yourself withther ppl think you should or shouldnt do what YOUR body.
Just do your thing the way you want with WHO you want and dont worry about what the crybabys think. You arent gonna see them anyway. their opinion means zilch.

Its your game girl run it your way!

Flamebird 1825 reads
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16 / 44

.. tell me she had been watching porn to get herself in the mood, then proceed to tell me she needs a drink first and proceed to finish every last drop of alcohol in the hotel room.

Finally her nerves calmed down a bit and the evening started.

I took the date because there was a communication mix-up (original lady told me to TXT her the room... apparently that meant email her the room number!).   By the time we figured it out, it was too late to drive to the hotel I was staying at and so she asked if she could send a friend instead.  

I think I was the poor girl's 1st customer ever

papidog 74 Reviews 1724 reads
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17 / 44

I responded to the right point, questioning her logic is as you say not disagreeing  but if her sample  preview is distasteful than the population of that particular race is irrelevant. How she arrived at the decision to see or not see someone is the providers business alone.

undertheradar2 21 Reviews 1782 reads
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18 / 44

Providers get to see who they want to see, that is their choice as it is their body. Just like hobbyists see who they want to see. It is not discrimination, it is choice. We get to pick who we see, maybe we don't want to see , fat, anorexic skinny girls, Asian, black, white or whatever. Doesn't that also mean discrimination,? NO , it means that is who we want to see. Providers get the same right to decide who they want to be INTIMATE with. It is totally different than going to the doctor or anywhere else that is a PUBLIC PLACE.  ANd no you don't have to paint everyone with a broad brush that would not be fair but is their right and it is real life.. get over it.  !!  It is tiring to keep hearing about discrimination about everything in life. It is everyone's right to do what they feel, that is a part of equality for all. It does not make them unprofessional, it is just their preference !!  Stop crying and move on!!

DEANGELO 2 Reviews 2258 reads
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20 / 44

All I'm saying is that escorts provide a service to the public.  In any other trade, be them physicians, taxi drivers, accountants, if they were to advertise on their website that they only see certain races, people would raise hell.  I don't see the escort business as any different.  Suppose that legalization becomes a reality one day.  Would the public still tolerate a business that takes tax dollars to regulate yet only caters to a particular race.

We all naturally discriminate, but I think we ought to refrain from making it so blatant when it comes to offering "professional" services.  Amateur escorts can discriminate however they wish, but then it'd be call dating, not escorting.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1833 reads
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21 / 44

For the record dear, I am absolutely no longer interested and basically "post" to piss you off, which seems to not take much. I would not see her or anybody that has an association with you for free,  

I can cry about anything I wish. Please leave me alone. NONE of my "posts" are directed at you or her. Just leave me the hell alone My DND (Do Not Disturb) sign is "Posted" to you. LOL

Clearly,  You are "Unprofessional"

LamontCranston69 1952 reads
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22 / 44

Look, we have the right to pick and choose who we see, Provider had the privilege, If they don't want to see a guy for what ever reason, they can say no. Nothing you can do about it. Just suck it up, Hey guess what your not the #1 must see guy on everybody dance can. Deal with it, it's going to happen more and more.

Look she didn't answer your Pm, big deal, she might be busy. like I said suck it up and move on. Bitching about it on the board only hurt you not the lady in question.

Hey I wrote to BI twice to get approved to see one of their young ladies, been about a year and I still waiting on an answer.
You don't see me bitching about it on the board, figured they don't want me as a client, Oh well I just moved on.  

 
Just my .02 cents in the matter.

undertheradar2 21 Reviews 1831 reads
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23 / 44

Is is not about PUBLIC anything.. It is about FUCKING AND SUCKING etc.  So take the discrimination stuff out if it.. Is is not about PUBLIC anything!! It is about who someone want to FUCK and SUCK with. Maybe the person is to small or too big!  
Is that discrimination ?  NO.. Stop crying already.

undertheradar2 21 Reviews 1838 reads
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24 / 44

Only if you can practice what you preach and leave everyone else alone on the posting..
I guess you don't like it much !!  

And for the record I have NO dog on this fight. It just seems funny that after the last 2 months of your constant posting you don't like when people bother you.. And posting to piss people off is really being a complete AH!!!

So saying "Leave me alone" just sounds funny..."Leave the rest of us alone and it might come around to you!

undertheradar2 21 Reviews 1574 reads
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25 / 44
DEANGELO 2 Reviews 1783 reads
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26 / 44

If it's fucking-and-sucking, there's nothing professional or unprofessional about it.  I'll take take discrimination out if we take professionalism out.

I'm not crying.  I'm just pointing out an incongruity with many escorts wanting to be treated as professionals yet violate some of the basic tenet of professionalism

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 1659 reads
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27 / 44

The next time you take a cab and the driver licks your balls please let me know lol

DEANGELO 2 Reviews 1766 reads
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28 / 44

If you're suggesting that the services being offered by ball suckers are inherently different than cabbies and therefore should be held to a different standard, I don't see anything wrong with that argument.  But a lots of other gals want it both ways -- to be treated like any other professional yet not act like.

sam_y 56 Reviews 1791 reads
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29 / 44

Sorry DEANGELO - but I disagree with you...a doctor has the luxury of putting on a mask to shield the b.o and does not have to suck someone's dick or kiss them or exchange body fluids with their patients in a professional setting...

If you are ok with a provider putting on a mask and asking you to kiss her on the cheeks...then I am ok with your explanation of giving the same respect as you would to a doctor.
Posted By: DEANGELO
I would considered that unprofessional.    
   
 If a gynecologist sees five patients with strong BO who happens to be of one race.  He/She can't start advertising that she will no longer accept patients of that race.

sweetnicole1 See my TER Reviews 1808 reads
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30 / 44

Nice. That doesn't strike you as a  little over the edge?
you nay wanna ask around jeesh!

I can't count how many times I have read you saying.   its a public board u post what u want...well so do I deal with it stalker.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 1733 reads
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31 / 44

Lol im just messin witcha now deangelo. Lighten up kid

Posted By: DEANGELO
If you're suggesting that the services being offered by ball suckers are inherently different than cabbies and therefore should be held to a different standard, I don't see anything wrong with that argument.  But a lots of other gals want it both ways -- to be treated like any other professional yet not act like.

papidog 74 Reviews 1964 reads
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32 / 44

For someone that spends most of their awake time either allegedly hobbling or spamming on this board why is it so important to see one provider that is not interested? It is posturing by an attention whore that needs constant approval or conflicts.
Sorry if this post make the board not " fun" and bully like, but posting your gay tendencies and bathroom etiquette are really inappropriate and unwelcome which is why he get the attention he craves.

My thoughts ( if any

DEANGELO 2 Reviews 1757 reads
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33 / 44

Thanks!  I needed it.  I haven't seen you since your return.  I've got to catch you sometimes.

DEANGELO 2 Reviews 1557 reads
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34 / 44

Fair enough.  I won't render the same respect to a provider as I would a doctor.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 1656 reads
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35 / 44

As long as you wash ya balls lol

Posted By: DEANGELO
Thanks!  I needed it.  I haven't seen you since your return.  I've got to catch you sometimes.

W43HRB 8 Reviews 1981 reads
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36 / 44

there's lots of things that may make a provider "unprofessional", but I think discrimination is far down the list. I'm a doctor, and I try, and mostly succeed, in my personal life not to discriminate(except for cigarette smokers, which i hate). In my professional life, discrimination doesn't exist, for any circumstance or condition. Being a provider is so personal, more so than what I do, that she should be able to share her body with whomever she  chooses.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1676 reads
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37 / 44
sweetnicole1 See my TER Reviews 1543 reads
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DEANGELO 2 Reviews 1786 reads
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39 / 44

ear Doctor,

I appreciate your input and I understand that the escort business has a degree of intimacy which may justify racial discrimination or profiling, but how do we reconcile this exception with the anti-discrimination rules that every other business must abide by.  Providers are sole proprietorships -- a business.  There are plenty of "legitimate" agencies out there.  Would the public be okay with them taking out ads in the yellow page proclaiming whites only.  What about a strip joint with posted billboards that refuses lap dances unless the patron is of a certain color?

What if we ultimately legalize the profession?  Would the public still be ok with the practice of open racial discrimination?  I, for one, can't wait till the day, but wouldn't they have to play by the same rules once that happens?  

I used the doctor example because I find it be the professional with unquestionable standards.  As you said, discrimination is non-existent in your field.  Perhaps, I'm too wishful, but I do hope that sex workers as a profession can attain high standards as well.  If for no other reason than to get voters to decriminalize the whole deal.

Again, I'm using the term "professional" strictly as in someone who brings their skills to market for compensation, not in terms of being cheesy or not

lustkatrina See my TER Reviews 1704 reads
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40 / 44

answering PM's? I don't even know what that is but get a life


I hope I am never considered a professional"

Not a career...and to turn down money makes me cringe but hey..

It happens

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1659 reads
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41 / 44

You just did and cool trying to be a professional hiding behind an alias. LOL
but perhaps that's not your thing. There are plenty out there. Have fun  

You lose.

Pavliena See my TER Reviews 1969 reads
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44 / 44

companies who sell shares publicly and those  who  do not have to file with SEC ??
 both of them can actually provide same kind of  products ..( services)
 so what is a deal here ? why everybody  has go publicly??  I guess it is dreams for many..  a ??
 wake  up you live not in communistic country .. so may be for some of you .. communism  and equality is just about right ?

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