At a gas station.. funny.. I recognized her dog before I bothered to look at the girl that was holding the leash.. I haven't seen her for almost 18 months.. but I said Hi.. asked her how she'd been.. funny.. brought back a flood of memories.. I saw her 4 times.. the place where she lives is not far from where I live.. I had expected to run into her somewhere..
We need to keep barriers for our mutual protection. You never know who else may be around. Think about how you would feel if a gal came up and started to chat and your wife was nearby. In truth, after 18 months, it's very unlikely she would remember you anyways. If you do want to avoid appearing rude, then emailing or texting later would suffice.
We need to keep barriers for our mutual protection. You never know who else may be around. Think about how you would feel if a gal came up and started to chat and your wife was nearby.
In truth, after 18 months, it's very unlikely she would remember you anyways. If you do want to avoid appearing rude, then emailing or texting later would suffice.
I have (10 years ago) been involved in a relationship with a provider I met. They are human beings too and chemistry is chemistry. if you guys clicked when you originally met I see nothing wrong with having a conversation if she's next to you outside. BUT... Don't run across 2 parking lots to say hi, that's creepy
It was just a hello.. and she replied.. I had asked her what I should do if I ran into her (since we both live so close to each other).. she said uhh.. tell me hello.. so I am OK. In fact I know that she works in a particular retail store and have been avoiding it.. in her case, her boyfriend sets up her dates and I learned from her that he leaves when the trick calls..once when I called from the parking lot.. I saw him leave by the back door. That's why I stopped seeing her.. That kind of freaked me out.
I walked into a hotel bar just north of Boston 2 weeks ago and sitting across the room was a girl I'd been with. We nodded at each other and smiled. No one was with her but we just sat there for about 20 minutes until she finished and got up to leave. She came over and told me that she had to go upstairs for her 7 PM appointment. She then said that she was hoping I was going to ask her for a QV since we'd have had plenty of time. I'll know what to do the next time and, no surprise, I'm sitting at that same bar right now just in case! I'm such a sucker.
It all depends on who the lady is if you approach this realistically. I once had a really good time with a particular independent. Via a chemistry, I could sense and feel that we both mutually felt very cool with one another in our own unique ways. Months went by, and I managed to walk right past her on the city street while she was enjoying an ice cream come. I gave her a smile and a wink, she recognized me and chuckled to herself, smiled back and giggled. We did not stop to talk. We both saw the humor of the situation in the same light.
I think you did fine. If she already said it's OK, and her boyfriend is cool with what she does, what possible harm could there be! I am married, and my husband is totally cool with my lifestyle (although I would NEVER allow him to control my business!) I understand your freak out factor, which is why I don't do incalls at my house, but if you know he is cool with everything, and her place is clean and safe, I would say not to let that be a factor if you enjoy her company.
I know several providers who have husbands and significant others that are totally cool with their lifestyles...one even does doubles with her boyfriend when she get requests for mmf threesomes. Some ladies don't tell clients that they have an SO to avoid freaking them out. Plenty of people in my circles have more of a swinger mentality and the extracurricular activities add to their own enjoyment of each other. If she says it is cool to say hi to her when you see her, then it's cool. Don't let it bother you!
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