You gotta walk away and take a deep breath.
I have one fake review from a guy he was from U.K. He booked a week out. Day off since i was an idiot he just shows up and rings bells. Hadt confirmed. Since swo many do this, book appts then never show. I assume we are not still on if its been a week and had not heard a confirm. He shows up I am actually here but sick and had not even remebered the appt nor heard from him.
He knew i have a dog, knew the min you walk in your in the kitchen by photos, and knew my last name{oops} and buzzer number. We never met ! he gave me a 6 in performance and got away with it for knowing how to get here.
I knew it was him cuz he reviewed in u.k. immediately after and the guy this happen with had english accent other country number. I called him ND SAID IF YOU CHOOSE TO RESCHEDULE I WILL GVE A FREE HOUR MASSAGE.
He started screaming at me like a woman with top of lungs {FUCK YOU FUCK YOU DONT EVER FUCKING CALL NE AGAIN}
Like a total psycho path. Like screaming bloody murder!
There is one out of like 10 revies from men i never did an appt with. Another guy took 20 out of the donation , hence my texting him after while he was with his daighter, I said things i shouldnt have like i know where you live even though i didnt! i had not even screaned him actually. But by him putting i said that in review Ai cant screen now no one will submit to it for fear.
i pm ter and say but he DID NOT leave the donation we spoke of he even mention in review. He claim he dont remeber.
Then he says i threw towel in early on the bbj happy ending. Not happy ending it was a massage he paid 150 for.
oh sorry no 130. ! since he took the money he spent on a sandwich and coffee back.!
It doesnt matter what your side of the story is they wont take them down,
Just know thta it will blow over. Worse comes to worse you will have to use back page and see guys that dont read reviews til it blows over which is what i do when i get bad reviews . Most definetly they affect business.
another guy in jersey gave me a 7 after dfk, bbj, massage session. We ghad agreed upon a barter i was attempting a tour and needed to get to a jersey hotel from ny.
I wasnt even feeling a barter should warra nt a review since that goes against ter rules.
he reviewed the entire car ride all the otc time where to me that was me and him as people, I hadnty gotten into the heels or false eye lashes and lingeraie til after we checked in, OB VIOUSLY! I was about to be at that hotel for 5 days why would i check in , in a hooker make up and dress? Not to mention my dog had diarea bad! and it was raining sleet and cold.
He documented the entire car ride prior to the massage hour. What i wore in the snow.
! To me i felt it was abarter ter shouldnt allow him to review. But they did!
I came home to Boston to recieve like 14 cancelations, YES if you get a review stating your wearing winter gear for a paid appt and a 7 in performance.
I felt the back lash bad and all my appts and business crashed ater his review.
I was forced to use bp and not screen and find clients that dont read reviews and had to lower rates.
You can stomp your feet and get upset they dont give a fuck!
What your gonna have to do is find a solution . Having many years , like me since 2011, of reviews is helpful so taking your account down because a few crumb bums gave bad reviews is NOT a good idea. You if you really have tats and you really want more reviews, stick it out and wait and the more good reviews will follow then you can make a come back....
Initially a bad review IN MY EXPERIENCES. I got all cancelations after or none at all because no one wants to hear your side story , they just read it think its true and it ruins your business.
You can still pull in 3 grand a week through back page, I have done it! Its just you wont book many 350 hours there. You may want to try using the fetish and domme area, offer bondassage for like 250 and fetish, offer massages with ending for 250,. offer half hours,
you may just have to see guys that DONT use ter or reviews til you meet more nicer gents to review, for a while it will fuck up all the hard work you have done and suck . .....Especially when you didnt deserve it and did right by them , like to me mis undertsanding or not any interaction as huimans not in a paid appt, IO dont thinkt hey need to review that, Like giving some one a ride to a store after an appt> if you offer and act like its not a bother to you, why go out your way to be a rat?
your gonna ave to just get work from other sites til it blows over or it apears your profile is gone maybe your takin the easier route and start fresh, That probly works too. SORRY BABE.
ITS A MANS WORLD IN HERE> LUCKILY THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHER SITES WITH CLIENTS THAT WOULD NEVER TAKE THE TIME TO COME ON HERE.
only caTCH IS THOSE SITES DONT HAVE AS GOOD A CLIENTELLE IF YOU ASK ME THIS IS THE BEST SITE BY LANDSLIDE. i DONT USE ANY OTHER SITES BUT THIS AND HAVE ALL DRAMA FREE NICE GUYS COMING. ....
Even the ones that reviewed bad, they werent violent , there was never any serious abuse , from either us, i never ripped off a client and i never been riped off, The guy that asked to take the 20 back he spent on coffee, hey he still left 130.
But dammit i sucked that prick til my neck was ready to snap! I didnt deserve a review sayin i gave up early he was here WAY over the hour. Even told me about his dog his house in maine. I NEVER CUT APPT short and every one stays otc here. So to me where i truly offer that style encounter low volume, un rushed, then I had fibro in back he tried he write i said i was sore, he failed to write sore back! He made it out to sound like i had been runnin a train up in here!
Which again when i work so hard to NOT run my vagina and business in that manner to have some one bash me and say just the opposite, It hurt business and it hurt me so bad to the heart. I put my entire being into what i do and it cut like a knife.
BUT . I also got a ten/ten removed because at that time my profile stated i dont allow anal. My ter service profile apparently didnt offer enough service to warrant a ten.
The man giving me the ten, i actually had laid in bed with his sister, before she died from bone cancer and breast cancer and she was like a mother to me. He came to see me and helped me aot but we knew each other in real life, The ten was well biased because we knew each other in real time outside the biz, Of course i was a ten ten to him, Fuck we got drunk and cryed one night together talkin about her.
I am not orivate about who i really am, so quite often these people who actually reaqlly know me come, and then I get a good review maybe un fairly? because they know me outside the biz and are liking me and wanting to help me as a person.
they argued with me and him on his ten and never allowed him to post it. yet some girls that dont offer anal have pages of ten tens? depends on who is wprking the day it is submitted i have heard.