I wont elaborate on what happened, other than to say, in more or less words, I was told that I had a weight issue, and that I that I couldnt generate a profit worth mentioning.

I refuse to live in the land of make believe, and you cant hurt my feelings anymore, I'm all cried out  by now.

I am only bothering to respond because I expected that you spammed the boards.  Refreshing to see you didn't.

Different strokes for different folks.  I was a BBW and now I'm somewhere in between in that I am a tad bit voluptuous, but use the curves to my advantage.  Whether I've been BBW or half my weight, I always had something to offer.  A few gents have loyally followed me through phases for many years regardless of the numbers on the scale.  I am also mature, and I love it!  My following has to have more to do with numbers on the scale or my new bust size.  

Treat gentlemen right, develop your own style and forget about trying to conform to Madison Avenue standards.  One of the reasons TER developed (in addition to outing rip offs) is so that men could find their favorite flavor.  

If you aren't old enough to know Howard Johnson had '28' flavors, then you're probably not grown up enough to visit with me.    But using that ice cream flavor business model, think about all the new options.  We now have ice cream stores that offer half and half, mix ins, different sauces, candy coat, whipped cream-all providing an ice cream tweaked to your liking.

Your photo won't come up in my browser, but if you are truly upset about something that someone said (or maybe this is a twisted marketing ploy, dunno) move on.  If the Provider lifestyle has got you down get out and volunteer or do something else with your life along with escorting.  

There is a whole world out there that will value you for the goodness in your heart and for more than your weight.

Silly girl!

"Miss Kitty" Kate

Don't cry !  There are girls making money on these boards that weigh a LOT more than you. Hard to tell about "weight issues" from that pic.

I will give you a test drive if you want!  

I was unable to open your picture however if there is one thing i have learned over the past few months as a newbie is that there are different like for different types. If Fuzzy says your F$%kable than you must be Send me a picture in PM would love to see.

Glad to see that Fuzzy could view the pic -- all I get is a crossed square. Oh well

I'm a gourmet from that region !  

For you guys that could not see Jaycee --  here she is. If she thinks she has weight issues -- I'll "lay on the feed bag"!


http://cid-67f6676c782a919e.skydrive.live.com/self.aspx/Jaycee/April2009.jpg

This ppl are jealous of you hunny, dont let what they think of you bring you down!
Always remember: Is not what ppl think of you that matters, but what you think of yourself!!
When I first came to this board I had all kinds of ppl trying to hurt my feelings and my business and I ignored them and kept my head up!
Yes, I still have some(actually a lot of) baby fat, you know... I am way bigger than you, and there are a lot of guys who love my body(at least they say they do) and I'm comfortable with it.

Trust me, You are smoking hot and you do not have weight issues!


Be safe!
Lauren

If thats a picture of her She has nothing to be upset about. Damm girl your smokin!

amen!

Tell you what Jaycee, you and I meet, you show me that pose, and I will daty so that I can determine if you have an issue or not.  

Holy Crap Batman!! I would certainly NOT call that baby fat, a weight problem (other than the problem she may have with backaches from carrying those pillows around!) or ANY other negative term.

Smoking is only the beginning of the fire - WHEW!!!!

Jaycee do NOT fear or fret - you look MOST adorable and definitely delicious!! (Illegitimi non carborundum)

Something doesn't seem kosher here. Jaycee, there isn't any information about you ANYWHERE!! No postings on TER (on ANY of the boards, including Dallas), or TBD (including Dallas), no reviews to be found, no website, as far as I know you are unable to receive PM's which means you are not a VIP on here, no tour of Boston scheduled that anyone is aware of either.

Can you offer up ANY information about yourself? PLEASE!!!!!

Forgive me, I am brand spanking new to TER.  I tried posting a pic again today in a new posting.

I also dont know how to email from here of pm from here.

My head has not been in the right place, as I am still trying to wrap my head around being told I had had complaints about my weight and that I needed to take some time away for awhile.

My self esteem is shot, as I struggle to pick myself up.

I checked your review link and then your web site. You are absolutely stunning from I can see !!!! Where did you get the idea you are heavy????

As others have said, come and visit us, I'd visit you.

we all have something about us that will appeal to someone, to Gentlemen who like our style look ect   and we all have things about us we would like to change, or we don't like and what others don't like either. Its not everyones cup of tea but then again you don't want to play with everybody anyway. You'd be a very tired girl if you did. Concentrate on what you like about yourself, and what you think is appealing, your strong points. Those who see it differently well you don't want to see them anyway. If they are being rude they are Not Gentlemen but rather bullies, and they are not who you are interested in wasting your time with.
It takes all kinds, variety is good. Just be who you are and no worries!!!

Forgive me, I am brand spanking new to TER.

I accept the opinions and decisions of the of the company of I was with, that has asked me to "take some time away for awhile".  They are very well respected and I mean them no ill will.

I posted in Boston, I have never been there, for a completely unbiased and unrelated review of my photo, away from anyone, that might have already had  an opinion of me, and would either "hoo ray me", or "flame me".  I hope that makes sense.

I have reviews on TER, I was just trying to do this as obscurely as possible, with no pre formed ideals or mindsets, just honest feedback.

As far as PM go, I dont know how or where to receive them.  But if you can tell me how, I am most certainly not opposed to doing so.

I am not a VIP.  I have never been to Boston.  I live in Texas, and chose to "tour" on occasion, and "tour" far away from home, in order to maintain some sense of privacy about what I do elsewhere.  I still maintain my "real" "civie" job, and want not issues of potential discovery.  I hope you can understand where I am coming from.

I see you have posted the link to said company in question.

I accept there opinion and decision, and I wish them no ill will.  They are very well respected.

I will not try to read anything into the words that were relayed to me, but this was what was said.  This was cut and pasted directly from the email I received.

"Concerning you working this week I think that it is better for you to take some time off with us.
Working with you the past few weeks have barely been profitable. The agency is barely breaking even with you each time. Also your appts are just going to dwindle bc we have received a few complaints on yr weight.  I hate saying that but in this biz appearance is a must. We feel it is better for you to take some time off from us for a while."

She's a buddy of mine!

Here are Jaycee's TER reviews!

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=123148

Because I was merely seeking an unbiased opinion of my pic, from an audience that had no idea of who I was, or who I had worked for, and therefore had no preset, preformed, or preconceived ideas about either.

Like I said, she is very well respected.  Her opinion and decision, carried alot of weight with me.  I wish her and her company no ill.

To hear that they had received complaints concerning my weight, completely caught me off guard.  I was mortified, ashamed and embarrassed.  Futhermore, I was stunned and completely taken aback.  I had no idea or any inclination, that I was perceived, even remotely, that my weight might be a cause for complaint.

I'm done crying about it.  I'm just trying to pick up the pieces of my very shattered ego, and make an informed decision whether to continue or not.

and you have pretty good reviews. I'll shut up, and let others reply.  The Boston gang sounds like they'd like to take you for a ride.  Do not cry--  everyone gets a bad review or 2.

Fuzzy

I haven't looked at your web sight or what the agency photos look like but what I read from your reviews is that your pictures don't reflect your current physical appearance. I think you need to put up new pictures and market yourself for the client that is looking for someone just like you. Please just be honest and you will do great in the buisness.

what is your current (honest) weight and height?

You simply do not have a weight problem at all.  You are a sexy woman.  Never believe anything that anyone says to you.  

You are not overweight.

Every single woman is sexy.

Anybody who says differently is just plain stupid.

'Nuff Said!

Jaycee,

I apologize profusely!! You are definitely a stunning lady and your reviews are certainly solid!! It is entirely up to you whether or not to continue down this road but (and i think the feedback on here is definitely positive)it would be nice to have you decide to pay Boston/New England a visit!!

I can't see the photo that you posted in this thread but I've used your agency several times and have looked at your photo set on their site closely numerous times deciding whether or not to see you. The pictures looked very nice (I like petite, hard bodies), but I was concerned by comments in reviews that the photos were not accurate.

Do you need to lose weight? I have no clue. And, as others have posted here, different men like different body types, so women of various body types can be successful.

Therefore, the most important thing is that the pictures in your advertisement need to be accurate so that client expectations are being met and you're attracting the right type of clients -- those who are interested in your body type and age range.

From the performance scores in your reviews and the responses from the gentlemen on this board, I have no doubt you can be successful, it's just a matter of marketing yourself to the right clientele.

Good luck and I hope you start feeling better soon.

I dont have a website, I assume you are referencing the agency's website and the pics on their site.

I am new to TER, my first posting was yesterday, so I am quite unfamilair with how everything works, including being able to see my own reviews other than just the very basics.  Trust me, I am most curious to view them in their entirity.

My pics that are on the agency's website, where not taken until my start with the agency, November, 2008.  That was 5 months ago.

The pic, the one that you have access to in regards to this posting, was taken this past Monday, 04/20/2009.  This was also the same day, I was informed that they had ever received a complaint me in regards to anything, and the same day that it was also suggested I take some time away for awhile.  All in one very concise email.

I was trying to view this situation from as many angles as possible, to try and wrap my head around what had taken place.

Had my appearance change so drastically in five months, that the pictures that are on the agency's website, were not a reflection of my current self?
I needed to know.

Many people have said, in regards to having put on weight, that their wake up call, was when they finally saw themselves in a picture.  Was I just not seeing it?  I needed to know.

Like I have said before, the agency is very well respected.  Their opinion, and therefore their decision, carried alot of weight in my mind.  I was fired up, motivated now, by a completely shattered image of myself, to get my body to a place that would meet with their approval.  

I wanted a "before" and "after" picture of this process, and that is why the pictures were taken that day.

I dont ever want to represent myself as something that I am not.  It doesnt make sense to me from all parties concerned.

Tab down a little further to "Fuzzy sees all", he was able to open the link and has posted it there.

In regards to there being comments in my reviews, about the photos not being accurate, I am most interested in reading my own reviews.  I am new to TER, first posting was yesterday, so I am still trying to figure everything out.

Seriously, if I had any inclination, that anything was even slightly amiss, in regards to me, in any way, I would have been all over it.  

I am deeply disappointed in the fact, that the first time I heard about this, is also the same day I was asked to take some time away from the agency for awhile.  All neatly rolled up in one nice little concise email.

Please also read further down, and read my thought process behind having my recent pics taken this Monday.

Thanks Fuzz, for providing the link to my pic, that some, are unable to see or open.  And on that note, why is it that some can see it, and some cannot, and is there anything I could do from my end, in future, so resolve that issue?

In regards to your comment, "if", SHE, meaning me, "thinks she has weight issue"...

Prior to this past Monday, I hadnt thought of myself as having a weight issue.  After this Monday, yes, I did consider it. I gave a tremendous amount of value as to the opinion and decision of the agency in regards to this issue.  As I have said before, they are very well respected.

Forgive me, I am brand spanking new to TER.

I accept the opinions and decisions of the of the company of I was with, that has asked me to "take some time away for awhile".  They are very well respected and I mean them no ill will.

I posted in Boston, I have never been there, for a completely unbiased and unrelated review of my photo, away from anyone, that might have already had  an opinion of me, and would either "hoo ray me", or "flame me".  I hope that makes sense.

I have reviews on TER, I was just trying to do this as obscurely as possible, with no pre formed ideals or mindsets, just honest feedback.

As far as PM go, I dont know how or where to receive them.  But if you can tell me how, I am most certainly not opposed to doing so.

I am not a VIP.  I have never been to Boston.  I live in Texas, and chose to "tour" on occasion, and "tour" far away from home, in order to maintain some sense of privacy about what I do elsewhere.  I still maintain my "real" "civie" job, and want not issues of potential discovery.  I hope you can understand where I am coming from.

Your apology is graciously accepted, with no hard feelings whatsoever.  Your compliment of me, being a "stunning lady", was most welcomed and appreciated.

I assume you are apologizing for your posting that questioned the intentions and reasons behind my posting.

"Something doesn't seem kosher here. Jaycee, there isn't any information about you ANYWHERE!!"

Ever of heard of "flying under the radar"?

"No postings on TER"

Flying under the radar.

"or ANY of the boards"

Flying under radar and too new to the business to be aware of the existence of other boards.

"including Dallas, or TBD (including Dallas)"

Flying under the radar as well as residing in the great state of Texas.  I dont do "this" in my home state.  It just doesnt seem prudent for a girl that is trying to fly under the radar.

"no reviews to be found"

I was with an agency, so I assume, they would be found under the Agency's name.

"no website"

Nope, no website, flying under the radar, and not an Independent, so why would, a website exist?

"as far as I know you are unable to receive PM's "

As far as I know, as well, but if you find out otherwise, would you let me know?"

"which means you are not a VIP on here"

I'm not a VIP anywhere, but if I were, it could come in handy if I wanted a nice table at a fine dining establishment.

"no tour of Boston scheduled that anyone is aware of either"

Nope, no tour of Boston scheduled.  I only posted in Boston, because I have never worked there, and
my agency is based entirely in another state as well.

"Can you offer up ANY information about yourself? PLEASE!!!!!"

My posting was for an honest, unbiased opinion, of my pic, nothing else.  No hidden agenda of any kind.  Providing anything, other than the pic itself, would seem only to distract from the purpose of my posting in the first place.

Take your current photo to the agency and ask them to update it as well as jour ad with them. I for one think like a little cusion for the pushin!

Jaycee,

It was only the last two reviews from March and February that mentioned the photo/expectation issue.

It seems like your appearance exceeded the expectations of some of the early reviewers, but didn't meet the expectations of later reviewers. This probably has a lot to do with different tastes.

The photo of you in a blue shirt and panties is stunning and the early comments on your appearance were glowing. This may have set unrealistic expectations for later clients and drawn in clients who were less likely to appreciate your beauty.

That's certainly not your fault and you sometimes see this with new providers, particularly if she doesn't have a lot of photos. We see her reviews and convince ourselves that she's our "type" when she really isn't.  And then, we're disappointed through no fault of the provider.

WTF????? it saids your 5'3 112lbs. thats not fat unless u gain 50 pounds in the 5 months

I honestly dont know my weight, I dont own a scale.  The pics that are on the website, were taken by someone choosen by the agency and were taken just after me coming on board with the agency.  

Meaning, they werent some pictures that were provided to the agency by myself, or taken by someone of my choosing, or taken prior to me coming on board with the agency.

They were also not taken by a professional and no special equipment or effects were used.  Said person  taking the pictures, actually showed up and used my camera because it had more megapixels.  There were absolutely no alterations to the pictures, other than cropping and re-sizing.

If anything, all that being said, certainly lends credence to the agency.  They were not misleading or misrepresenting their audience in anyway.  Hows that for truth in advertising.

Dear Ms. Carnal Courtesan,

  You said you only bothered to respond to my post because you  expected that I had spammed the boards.  I am brand new to TER and dont know what spamming of the boards is, but since you said it was refreshing, to see that I had not, I am assuming that spamming of the boards is a bad thing.

  What is spamming of the boards?  How do I not do it?  And just out of curiosity, what would have been your response to my posting had you thought it was a spamming of the boards?