Hi all - I posted from an alias (Beantownhero) earlier this week about a provider black mailing me.  

She's now threatening to come to my place of work

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Let's face it she has the plan to rat you out, so you might as well do it first.

I have a LOT of patience, but I think it's time you outed her as many ways as you possibly can.  I agree with Lamont.

and whether she can really carry out her threats. Sounds like you gave her enough. You have options:

Not much you can do to prevent her from doing anything.  Not sure what you/she means about blacklist on TER.  If things are the way you say, her reputation on TER will go sour soon.

will post her name and follow it up often until they go away.

tried this. she didnt seem to think posting her name on TER would hurt her.

https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=263364

That kink is dead now?

You have us way to far up the hook now.  You have to tell us who this is.

I would ignore any and all attempts to harrass and black mail you
she will likely just move on to her next victim !
I would also let Ter know that they are representing her and She should be banished from advertising, having reviews etc etc
 
I dont normally get caught up in the gossip but I feel very strongly about this and feel sorry you ate going through this !  
She sounds desperate for money And it leads me to believe that some of her reviews might be fake !
This is not a common practice of most providers

If Lamont's TER link is to the correct provider, her cancellation policy is clearly listed on her website and it is one of the most severe I have seen. Once the meeting is confirmed, the cancellation fee is $300 and if cancelled the day of the meeting, the fee is the full amount. The fee is to be paid online by CREDIT CARD. This to me is a big red flag and is very risky.

...yikes at how she's handling this. Her cancellation policy definitely makes mine look extremely lenient.
I'm guessing she figures her being outted here won't hurt her much because she feels she has greater client reach via BP (it has a higher ranking on Alexa anyways than TER so unfortunately she might not be wrong).

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Hey guys,

This is her cancellation policy

I don't offer half hour rates, Lamont.

Hi All,

I had a cancellation of a three hour appointment today and I am sure my rates are higher than this back page blackmailer i spoke to a few girlfriends and none of us have ever heard of a four day out cancellation fee.  

Did you work it out by paying her the cancellation fee, by rescheduling, etc?
Pretty easy to "work it out" by agreeing to her outrageous terms and paying her.

His reaction sounds like he had a gun to his head with the sudden 180. Very fishy.

Makes Deflategate seem like a more interesting topic!

Months ago, without naming anyone, I posed a question about canceling out when I was asked to secure a hotel room for a weekend, even though I was only looking for an evening event. Many fellow hobbyists told me I was nuts, some lovely ladies wondered if I mis-represented the facts. At the time there was no web-site with any policies. My advice to all, use your big head when shopping.

Bellichick deflated the balls to get back at beantownhero and Brady paid the price with Elle.

Now it makes sense.

He cancelled 4 days in advance. No loss to you. Simple greed at work here. Stay in school. Learn about best business practices.  

jdentente, are you saying Ellie was the woman you posted about in September?

Not that I think she is, but her procedures would keep me away.

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Why do people act like some bullshit written on a website is the law or something? Fuck her cancellation policy.

She may have good reviews, but this isn't the first time somebody has had trouble with her. Somebody else posted on another forum about having problems with her as well. I've never seen her, but the impression was that she's great in bed, but is a little young and not quite equipped to handle the customer relations part of the business.

I have to just say that it's not at all good to threaten people. Many girls have cancellation policies, but threats turn this whole thing into something low class, violent, and scary. Don't you believe in fate? That the right people will be brought together if it's meant to be ? Why push fate or take karma into your own hands? These behaviors hold consequences, and I'd not want to test the effects of karma. It sucks when men cancel. It's awesome when they cover the cancellation fee. But if he refused, let the karma be on him naturally. Don't push it. I remember I was kneeling beside my grandfather's grave in ohio. I had never met him alive, nor seen his grave. It was a precious moment and yet I was on a time restraint to drive to an appointment. He pushed me to take the appointment, so I agreed. I remember walking backwards to my car, holding my eyes on the gravestone until I couldn't see it anymore. So I was on my way to this appointment, an hour into my drive to him, and he cancelled. Can you imagine how horrible I felt? I asked for a cancellation fee and he refused. I still feel sick in my soul about that experience. But I didn't threaten him because karma must be allowed to naturally take care of these kinds of interferences. Once we step in and match their behavior, we will have karmic debts and trouble. I highly suggest you stop being threatening. Accept your cancellation fees when it's done out of true consideration from the gentleman. If he is a jerk about it, then just let it go and trust karma. I'm one of the mature providers. I speak from lots of experience and I remember the sad days that I occasionally brought anger into complicated dealings. But believe me it's not worth it. You will feel miserable and resonate at a low frequency unless you let love go before for you in all manners of this business and life in general

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The claims that I am either LE or working under someone else's control are ridiculous.  

my Giselle reference had nothing to do with you, it was about deflategate. It was meant to be a reply under "different thread". The Giselle I referred to is Tom Brady's wife. She is Venezuelan. ooopps, lol

At $1600 that's a lot to miss out on!

I like this gal!  You may be the one to break my own no review policy!

In your previous post you say that this is your only job,,,,,now in this post you say you have another job?  These are reasons why people may not think your above board. Just pointing out the reality of what you said.

My advice to you is to keep in touch with providers that are straight forward (like myself) instead of sweet talkers that might be mean and two faced ones!