Dude, just wanted to warn you that if there is someone who would share with you their utr considering that can't even see your history - I would be very worried if I'd be you of it being some sort of set up. You don't share UTRs with people who are trying to stay private.  

They are called UTR for a reason. UTRs are passed around only between hobbyists that either know one another or at least can see your record so they could size you up for trustworthiness. If I'd be you I'd get on Seeking Arrangement where you'd find plenty of ladies fitting all your criteria. From what I understand you'd have to invest some time in finding them but you'd find them in the end.