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mrfrench 2228 reads
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1 / 15

As everyone knows, things change.  We've seen it recently with the new look of TER…. and we all know how life continues to throw us curves every day.  It's been said that the only thing that is constant is change.

Over the last several weeks, there have been a lot of things happening in my personal life and most of them have not been good.  In the midst of all this, I tried to help a former provider who was planning to return to the hobby because she said she was desperate for money and needed to escort.   Unfortunately, in doing so, I betrayed the trust of others. I suppose you could say that it was the wrong thing to do for the right reasons.  What I didn't know was that the woman in question was not reliable or trustworthy.  To say that I got burned by her is an understatement.

To make a long story short, it is necessary for me to resign as a Moderator on TER.  This situation has left me with a VERY bad taste in my mouth, and I'm finding it hard to participate in this hobby as a result of it.  It's not the first time I've been burned by a provider but it's certainly the worst.  I've always tried to believe the good in people and perhaps have always trusted too easily.  This incident has me re-evaluating that.  Live and learn.

I've enjoyed my tenure as Moderator and I'm sorry to go.

Be well, be careful and be safe.

-- Modified on 9/24/2010 10:00:37 PM

DT_lover 188 Reviews 1548 reads
posted
2 / 15

Being a regular reader and seeing many posts vanish (includng a few of my own) I can tell being mod is a difficult job and a lot of work.  There are many more rules (from admim) now than in previous years.

Sorry to see you go.  Hope things get better in your personal life.  Maybe we will see you again in the future.

Foodyguy 29 Reviews 2573 reads
posted
3 / 15

Sorry to read about your circumstances.

Hopefully things will work out and the hobby can return as an enjoyable escape.

crimsonlass 986 reads
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4 / 15
sparkyusa 10 Reviews 3287 reads
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5 / 15


I hope all turns for the better Mr french,it was nice to chat wiyh ya once in a while,Good luck.

Posted By: mrfrench
As everyone knows, things change.  We've seen it recently with the new look of TER…. and we all know how life continues to throw us curves every day.  It's been said that the only thing that is constant is change.

Over the last several weeks, there have been a lot of things happening in my personal life and most of them have not been good.  In the midst of all this, I tried to help a former provider who was planning to return to the hobby because she said she was desperate for money and needed to escort.   Unfortunately, in doing so, I betrayed the trust of others. I suppose you could say that it was the wrong thing to do for the right reasons.  What I didn't know was that the woman in question was not reliable or trustworthy.  To say that I got burned by her is an understatement.

To make a long story short, it is necessary for me to resign as a Moderator on TER.  This situation has left me with a VERY bad taste in my mouth, and I'm finding it hard to participate in this hobby as a result of it.  It's not the first time I've been burned by a provider but it's certainly the worst.  I've always tried to believe the good in people and perhaps have always trusted too easily.  This incident has me re-evaluating that.  Live and learn.

I've enjoyed my tenure as Moderator and I'm sorry to go.

Be well, be careful and be safe.

-- Modified on 9/24/2010 10:00:37 PM

FireinHearth1 28 Reviews 1859 reads
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6 / 15
shaunalover 22 Reviews 1676 reads
posted
7 / 15

Thanks Mr. French for your prompt and fair moderating. You will be missed.  I hope things get better on the situation you described and you eventually come back to trusting others and being the good soul. Most of the positive Karma someone creates comes back to them. When others rip you off it comes back to them too....Always has in my life - so keep doing well by others and you will be fine..
SL

LamontCranston69 2053 reads
posted
8 / 15

Sorry to hear about your problem. It sucks when you try to help some and end up getting screwed over.

But like you said live and learn.

Good luck I hope everything works out for you as painless as possible.

And I hope karma come around to the person who burned you.

mrfrench 1087 reads
posted
10 / 15

Since I won't have VIP access here, if anyone wants to chat, you can contact me at
mrfrench@newsguy,com.

LongGoneDaddy 118 Reviews 817 reads
posted
11 / 15

Oh wait, that's just for the rank & file members, right?

Hardbiker67 3 Reviews 1680 reads
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12 / 15
timescourier 17 Reviews 1008 reads
posted
13 / 15

thanks, best of luck and hope your healing process is quick and as painless as possible...

t/c

johngaltnh 6 Reviews 1482 reads
posted
14 / 15

And don't let bad things blind you to the good!

mrfrench 1390 reads
posted
15 / 15

You can ALWAYS post your own private information.  You can't post someone else's private information.

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