I don't read or hear much about it in reviews or in topics, but how much ass licking goes on? It actually turns me on to give it, and I've been with plenty on women who love to receive, but it seems like a no go in most P4P dates. Am I wrong, is there a protocol for it, is there larger risks?

Happened quite unexpectadly. During Daty she moved on purpose such that I ended up Dato. That's when I found out how much she enjoyed it.

Yes, you can get sick. If a lady is not prepared, and IMHO, they should be;
You can get sick by licking ass. I want to make her feel good, but you have to be careful with the poop she has left in her asshole.

You will not have hygene problems with any quality provider. In my experience, attention to the back door is welcome in almost all cases, assuming it is accompanied by diligent DATY. This has been true even for ladies who dont partake of further recreational activities back there. I think i have only had one or two ladies refuse.

Any decent companion considers hygiene the top priority! I am just amazed that there are actually guys who don't DATO?? That seems so second nature to me. (However, I do have a strong sexual addiction & am pretty comfortable being a pervert). YAY DATO!

~lol~

And who pray tell is you ATF, do share.