A lot of the women I have seen in my relatively short time in this so-called hobby are so normal looking that I think... wow... this is a young woman or cougar that I could have met anywhere and had NO idea that they are a prostitute. And if she's smart she will never tell me that she was one. Sure there are some women that look the part but if you are like me and stick to high end gfe types it really makes you think about the reality of the dating world.  There are a lot of regular dating scenarios where you could easily be used as a sugar daddy or be the victim of a gold digger.  No one thinks of it as prostitution but for the the guy it's in some ways more risky financially and emotionally.  It also makes me wonder if getting laid in the real world might be easier with certain types of women if you show that you will kind of take care of them a little.

Then there are the health risks.  I'm sure most of us are wearing condoms for intercourse but it seems like  2/3 of the providers at least do BBBJ. And it's damn hard to resist that too of course with a pretty naked woman in front of you willing and able to do it.  Sure your girlfriend might be a slut but she's probably not sucking  8 -10 cocks a day.  I got a clean bill a health the other day from my doc. I had been a little worried that maybe I could have picked up something with this hobby.  When I realized I was in the clear I guess it made me rethink all of this a little bit.

I'm not judging anyone here... just thinking out loud.  And before someone calls me an idiot for talking about this stuff here remember we have an alias feature.  

that the dates we set up in the hobby world are understood before hand that time and activites spent together are in exchange for an envelope of cash, and no emotional baggage or similar claims can be made by either side as long as all the ground rules are followed.

Once that line is crossed, it's Thunderdome from there on.

"normal looking"???????????? WTF! When you make an appointment to see an escort are you expecting to be greeted by someone abnormal looking??

Too true!

He thinks that lower end escorts look trampy lol.

It is more common to see women that one would not expect to be providing doing that work in europe. Those types of women are less common in the US, but are becoming more common. I meet more highly educated women that have other work endeavours now than ever during my time hobbying. There are reasons for the change, high college or grad school related debt, changing attitudes about what it means to provide, the internet attracting better educated, sophisticated and career oriented women to providing.

There is no certainty that a civvy woman is not providing or has not provided, just like there is no certainty that I have not been a hobbyist when I am walking a city street or am in an airport during business travel. If a person has to give a potential lover a virginity test to fall for that potential lover, the first person should avoid falling in love, period.

You should consider your words when writing posts. Some people understand what you are trying to describe, but to use a term like "normal" implies that providing is abnormal, nothing could be farther from the truth for providers that make informed, analytical decisions to provide.

I hear what you are saying.  While I dabble in and out from time to time in the hobby, I've come across profiles on legitimate dating sites (ie match) and have seen a few local ladies.  

Years back I myself even dated soneone I met through RSG for a bit,...that was a fun time.  So yes, there are a lot of these women also looking for something more in "real life", I'd assume the problem is getting close enough if they met someone where eventually he would have to find out, and I'm certain most of us would find it hard to take it to a more serious level in the relationship....

They usualy are no class in and out low cost only for the money

By normal looking I meant that with these high end gfe providers that they often look like your everyday girl next door.  A college girl... coworker... neighbor... as opposed to having the look of a sex worker.  There are some women you see and they kind of look the part and others do not.  More and more I am finding that the providers defy stereotyping and it really helps make it seem more like a real gfe.

No not at all. I am not attracted to that kind of provider and I am too much of a hypochondriac to pick up that kind of provider.

I unfortunetly have fallen hard for a client before. and yes I have to agree with mr.fisher a thunderdome and absolute chaos ensued. We are talkn bad idea. I dont know if any other providers have made this mistake too. But when some one is gettn so many appts you arent seein or interactin with any other clients any more. few months go by. You happen to find the client ridiculously smokn hot. next thing you know you caught feelings and need to take a step back and re evaluate what in sam hell is goin on here?

I haven't used them yet but I plan to- they have some sexy chicks on their site.  Where do they usually service though?  Are they usually in the 'burbs?

So why is it such a bad idea?  Do guys get too jealous and are not able to handle the career choice once they are attached to you?

This is not the way i normally think/talk/write, but let me fill you in using your own words:

Trampy women are low end because they do not merit being high end.

This should start to sink in after a while.

I am not judging anyone. As a hobbyist I know that I am in the same game that the provider is in.

I agree with you angel...here I am one minute having a visit with a woman, next thing she invites me over later, and it goes from there.  Went from phot sex to hanging out like a normal couple, taking road trips together (now that was fun)  lol.  Now being a professional male, i had to take a step back and ask how is this going to work.  Then once feelings grew, I couldnt do it any longer.  And not that she was that much either, at one point she would work one or two days a week just for money but didnt want to work but for a brief period in time.

Not necessarily.  Just because someone charges more doesn't mean that they are always a better provider.  The reverse is also true.

You get what you pay for. Low price means low service and quality

If they could charge more they would. Its the law of supply and demand. Bad service = low price and desperate to stay in the trade.