So... I like food. I like going out to challenging food places and eating food. Sometimes I do this with a girl.

That being said, I am, by no means, protesting the "3-hour+ dates must have dinner, too" scenario. I think it's a reasonable request.

But I am wondering what the origins are. Is it similar to a "union" mandated break? Is it like when I have a 4-hour meeting, I order in food for my staff or take a lunch break down the street? I think it is odd, though understandable, that many of the "upper echelon" women say that 3 or 4 hour dates have to include public time. I think I understand why, but I would love to hear from the women as to why and do the guys rush through the dinner portion or do they savor that as well?

I know that if I went ahead and did that, I'd find my 4 hours mostly at the dinner table. Not that I'd be upset. Good food is meant to be enjoyed slowly over brain-bending conversation.

Take them through a sampling walk at Whole Foods.

Shouldn't take too long and an incredible choice.

Actually most companions will discuss the ins and outs as it relates to timing prior to the evening.

But buying Erin a meal is not a bad idea.

Jeepers, this posted itself before I finished.

Seriously, on an extended date I don't worry about the time spent at dinner.  If he is treating and wanting to spend extended together time, then the least I can do is grab a bite with him like a couple of cozy friends.  

KJB

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And i know you KNOW good food too

for those that would enjoy that type of get togethers and Having done lots of those sessions i find that the guys dont rush dinner. as that time at the table can and usually is with me total seduction time and makes the private time so much better.


Jenny

You will find Rate A for Dinner date and then something next to it stating "please add X amount if you prefer to stay in entire duration of the date"

So it is not so much about the food per se as about discount applied to 4 hour date.

And of course you will always spot the ladies who prefer longer engagements by their rate structure.

XoXo

Lina

I can't think of anything I'd enjoy more than to take my favorite out to dinner and then back to her room for dessert

Definitely have dinner after playtime.  Alcohol reduces a man's verility, and problems can "come up" if a woman has a full stomach during playtime.

Re: And i know you KNOW good food too

Jenny will eat adventurous, fun, interesting things. A local Michellin one-star chef personally brought over some rabbit terrine and she ate that. I think that says alot about her and her mouth. In a good way.

Big turn-on: a sleek, fit woman who has eaten well and is expressing her sensations from being full. I'd be into a lot of after-dinner cuddling, gently rubbing the lady just above the navel, and savoring every little tummy noise she made!