Sorry if I already posted on this topic.

Ha ha!  Is that what you meant?

i prefer when a girl flirts a little on mail or text. Kind of works as an ice breaker.. and it's builds up the excitement before the date. unfortunately not many girls are into this or maybe i haven't run into the ones that are into it.

I flirt by leaving an envelope full of money on the table. Works every time and it's just the sort of thing the girls seem to like. There's really no reason for a guy to have communication once the appointment is set, is there?

For some who prefer the GFE
Yes, there is. IMHO

GFE is about the time you're paying for, not off the clock stuff.

its like steppin in shit...ya just cant scrape it off your shoe...lol

I just did figure it out. Haha

I agree that once an appointment is set, there is no need, nor is there much communication except for last moment confirmation, etc.

Yet, some gals take the lead in sending flirty emails, and it would be rude to ignore them or brush them off.

So, with these gals, I banter back and forth and let them decide when is the time to cut back.

I enjoy it as long as they do.

I can tell you I've had the best time (and it's not even close) with the ladies I've spent time talking to before the appointment. Helps to get a sense of each other, and what we each enjoy, as well as helps build a solid relationship which is key going forward.