I'm really bothered by my latest review... very upset!

I feel as though I go over and beyond and for the most part my reviews are solid!! But, my most recent review was given and I'm quite shocked!! First of all, the Gent calls me last minute and I quickly verify him and within a couple hours he was at my IC location. He came in and seemed quite happy and satisfied and we proceeded. I must say that I didn't quite feel at ease with him but I am a professional and I proceeded to accommodate to my fullest ability. When he arrives he did request CIM and mentioned a trip to Greek Isles but I said to him what he was looking for was a PSE session. He never mentioned it prior to our meeting and his donation was the standard GFE rate.  I usually like to prepare for PSE session as I use 2/3 enemas prior. He also mentioned only doing a half hour rate and I did say to him that I don't do half hour rates, he knew that before even coming to my door so why post his in his review??  

We seemed to have had a great time considering it was booked last minute and it was only the first time ever meeting. Sometimes I feel as though meeting for the first time can be a shot in the dark- you either hit it off right from the start or you ease into it as the session goes along. DFK is also something I do enjoy but YMMV. I also would like to mention sometimes a guy comes in with this perception that they can kiss you but don't know how to kiss. I like to kiss softly and seductively-almost to a tease!!  

He also mentioned I had "flab" in my stomach and thigh area, well I'm not 24 years old any more, but my reviews (which are recent) all say my body is tight and fit!! I work out regularly and I eat healthy so I'm quite disturbed by this comment.  
If you want a XXX porn star that charges $500-$700 then by all means go see her but I am competitive with my rates and I do my best to satisfy!!

bother you doll you're still high on my to do list and probably most of the others on here.

I read the review.. I see he also saw someone that I see regularly and she knocks my socks off. He said she was just OK... so FWIW.. looks like he gives some fairly mediocre reviews to really great providers.. he has, in fairness, given some high reviews so it's not like he is a serial complainer..
One provider I know says she checks the reviews that a new potential client has submitted prior to seeing him.. She wants to be sure  that his grading curve is not too high..

Thank you.

I just want to add this: I know we ladies are in profession of service, but we aren't robots. To do this job effectively and to have fun while doing so-you have to have some sort of connection, at least to some degree. I do enjoy what I do and I think I try to show that in my experiences and my reviews reflect that.
Hope to meet soon :

Great point and I'll have to take that into consideration going forward.

I know it hurts when someone pics you apart unfairly....your reviews speak for themself, so you have no explaining to do to anyone...It sounds as though this guy and you just didn't click at all. Damn if I was closer to you I'd love to spend some time with you...your 120% my type of woman...Please smile and forget all this...Have a great day

You have 40 reviews great reviews, you have 1 OK review. Most guy are going to look at the 39 great reviews, not the 1 OK  

Ask yourself this question, if you were looking at restaurant reviews and you saw 39 good reviews and 1 OK review.
Would you not go to that Restaurant? I doubt you would even care about that one OK review.  

OK reviews happen, it's not big deal, that's why we have the saying YMMV.  

 

Just my thought on the matter, for what it's wort

Providers always get worked up about bad reviews, but honestly, as a guy, one bad review doesn't mean much when the others are good. Although I can understand your frustration (I shudder to think of reading reviews of myself; my ego would collapse, so I admire that the girls can read them at all because I sure as Hell wouldn't), don't get too fired up, it probably doesn't mean that much to your business.  

I personally weigh what the reviewer's overall history is, too. If he has all great reviews he's probably unwilling to be honest and if they're all bad, he's probably just a sour person.  

The other thing is, if they're all 9-10s, I get a bit suspicious. A mediocre review once in a while makes it look like it's not just shills.

I never thought about it that way, thanks for the point. Like I said, It's my first "bad" review and I guess I'm sensitive to it because I do my best to accommodate and I quite enjoy this biz. I don't over-preform to get great reviews, I enjoy what I do and enough said. Thanks!

As the others stated, this reviewer is off base with you and is sort of all over the place with his reviews. To each his own and they are entitled to their opinion, but we are free to rebut it as we are here. I agree with the other positive notes on this thread. Don't let this one review get you down. You are my (and others) #1 and I am a consistent and accurate reviewer. You have all 10's & 9's for appearance. I know you very well and you DO NOT have an ounce of flab on any part of your perfect body!  Your pictures are a 100% accurate representation of you! I personally have pretty high standards and think you are absolutely gorgeous!  I think we have seen each other 6 or 7 times in the past 4 months and have a 3 hour visit coming up! I keep coming back for some reason!  How many others keep coming back? You have a solid repeat client base and that is all that matters. As you mentioned, it is a shot in the dark with first time meets for both providers and hobbyist. Please don't feel bad for your preferences, likes and don't likes, it is ok if they don't match with one or two other hobbyists. When legit hobbyists read all your reviews, the will see through it all and choose you and be happy as the other 98% gents have been!  You are an absolute perfect 10! Please don't let this off base review get you down. Can't wait to see you!  MMYV

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It's really frustrating when you put your all in an appointment and receive a rating/review that is definitely subpar and not the work you put out. I was really annoyed when this guy bashed your looks - which seems to be a common theme on TER (but lets be honest, looking on the other side of the wall, not all of our clients are Idris Elbas or Brad Pitts) ... but I digress

Based on your vast amounts of positive reviews, I'm sure you're quite beautiful. Don't let one review make you feel bad At the end of the day as long as you feel you did great work and put your all into it, you will still get dates and still be successful.

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I would never show up expecting Greek without making sure that the provider knows ahead of time that is what I'm looking for.  Mainly- this is because of the prep work that you have outlined- mainly enemas.  Cleanliness is a MUST for an enjoyable Greek experience- both for the provider (no worries about any accidents) and the hobbiest (no hershy kisses on your cock) Beyond that there is usually a need for some stretching (via a plug or the like) before the appointment (maybe 30-45 min before the appt).

While this world we play in is indeed a fantasy of sorts- the reality of taking it up the ass really takes precedence.  Its not porn.  You can't just walk in- and throw it in there and go to town.

I honestly think that if you want to perform Greek with a provider- you should at least once get pegged-- simply to have a better understanding of what it entails.  And hell- maybe you'll enjoy it

Nope I have never been told I look like Brad Pitt, but I do think I am a George Clooney look alike...LMFAO

Id love to lobby to have a section here where the ladies could review the men here....that would be a riot to see....Im sure all us guys are gods gift to women..hahahah

 
 

KL, I have not had the pleasure ( yet) but any informed hobbyist would take that review and toss it aside. Part of  ensuring a pleasant date is not just to read a providers reviews but to review the reviewer.

Brush this off, I am sure your next reviews will be right where they should be, 8's and 9's!

Thanks Tazz!! You're sweet LOve!!

Looking forward to seeing you soon!!

Thanks Luna,

Yes, you're right, it's absolutely frustrating but I do appreciate all the support and great advice I've been given on this forum.  

And, I agree with what's been said on here many times over- I wish there was a board to rate the Gents and post reviews on them... wouldn't that be a hoot!!!

I can tell you, for what it's worth, that you were in "My Favorites" before this review and you remain high on my "Must See" list. It's kind of like judging Figure Skating, I tend to throw out the high and low score and look for consistency and things that appeal to me. You have all that in spades. Now, there is such a thing as chemistry and sometimes things don't click despite the best efforts of both parties, so take it with a grain of salt. I know I did. It can be very tough to slough off a criticism, particularly when you feel it's unfair.  It's very human to have 39 great reviews, but have the one mediocre one just stick in your brain.  It shows that you really care about the service you provide.

I couldn't have said it better myself. I do take pride in the service I provide, thanks for understanding

Please don't put any more thought into what this man said in his review of you Kai. I've had the absolute pleasure of being with Kai more than once and she definitely gives 110% throughout the entire session. She is a wonderful person, sexy and a true pleaser.  Once that dress comes off it reveals a body any 20 year old would be proud of. I would describe her body as athletic, tight, fit and very toned! In fact she has the firmest ass I have ever felt.  

Stay well Kai...

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Could not have said it better!  Agreed!

I know you didn't intend it as an ad, but now you're on my radar and I'll look for a time to come see you!  I won't believe a 6 review in the middle of 9s and 10s.

Particularly on this board.  Men can be assholes especially if they know something is bothering you.  You are a known provider.  Trust in that.

Kai

I agree with most of the posts here.  I had the pleasure to meet you a little over a year ago.  I had an absolutely fantastic time and you have absolutely nothing to apologize for regarding your body.  OMG I couldn't get you off my mind for weeks!  You are a beautiful and very sexy WOMAN, not a girl.  Unfortunately I haven't been back to Boston much since our meeting but hope to see you when I return.  Many of the reviews are more about the reviewer than the reviewee, so I wouldn't give that one a second thought, as demonstrated by all the positive responses you have received in this thread.