My traditional mem day plans were thrown off this year and that's cool cause I had stuff to do and apps in the city. But I'd love some beach, sand, chowder and lobster in my life, what's a good beach for tomorrow or a good event to participate in?

Assuming your still in the ciy.  I would recomend Carson Beach in southie nice area to walk around and get something to eat.  If your up for a little traveling time.  You can head south to Nantasket Beach, nice area.  I have not been to Revere Beach in a while which is just outside of the city, but plenty of places to eat (fried clams etc..). Obviously if you don't mind the drive you have several beaches to choose on the Cape.  Driving down won't be the problem but going home might be a little hard.  I hope that helps you.  What ever you decide have a great day.

definately the best beaches!!!! Being retired I'm there every day that I can.