Indeed. These rules apply to about 95 percent of the ladies. Once you do any of the above, I personally, will NOT ever respond to you. Nothing personal, just problematic. I appreciate the above post, I thought of posting something similar myself. I love newbies but you do need a refresher before you start sending angry emails about why we haven't responded.
Hobby on!

Yeah that's great.  The only thing is, you are highly specific with the fee you want, but highly unspecific with the services offered thereafter.  

Imagine if we said: "Yeah you'll get paid some money, but don't you dare ask how much."

Some women say "don't worry baby, you'll be totally satisfied and completely happy."  Then when I say I would like some not-uncommon requests like bbbj and 2 pops they act like they are shocked and "oh my God!"

Then they say well that will be another $100 buck.

Imagine if we were taken aback (shocked!) that an escort felt that a payment of as much as $200 (two hundred dollars!!) for an hour was not a fantastic compensation rate.  "Well, I don't know what you were expecting, but that's a lot of money."

I mean come on, let's be real.  Why insult us?  

After extensive field research for years, I have found that women who adopt this attitude do it strictly for reasons of short changing on the service side.  I regrettably have the datapoints of numerous ripoffs after fancy/charming/seemingly slutty come ons to prove it.

I am not sure where you have been doing your "extensive research for years" because you have it all wrong.

If you stick to the well reviewed providers, you will know exactly what to expect.  You'll know how many tatoos the lady has, if she spits it out or swallows.  When 7 out of the last ten reviewers rate her a 7/9.  You know she is attractive and delivers more than her looks.

The fact that you mention that $200.00 is a lot of money in this business identifies you as a newbie to this board.  Your fishing in a bigger pond.  You gotta bring bigger hooks.  

I think you'll find that the quality of women, their attitudes their level of service is much higher than what you have been getting.  You have found what you have been looking for my friend.  You just have to pay a little more for it.  But in the end, its probably a better bang for your buck when you tally in all those rip-offs you paid for.

Now enjoy and play well with others.

Perhaps this is applicable to "unknowns"- brand new providers, Craigslist-only providers, escort mall providers with no reviews because they operate on the fringe and change their identities as often as they change their socks.

The provider who posted this is established with many reviews which depict her level of service.

She posted this on a review site which features providers who are extensively reviewed and are proven to provide what they say they will.
Her comments are directed towards the men who utilize this site as a means of research- and not others where bait & switch are prevalent.

She is speaking for those of us with dozens, if not hundreds of reviews who have to field phone calls in which we are asked questions point blank with absolutely NO discretion.

Many newcomers impulsively contact providers without so much as reading the entire advertisement, let alone researching via the escort mall they're viewing carefully and learning the references and innuendos.

Asking direct questions of a sexual nature are grounds for termination of immediate contact for most reputable online providers.
End of story.  I have no sympathy towards an adult man who calls me on the phone and says "so for $300 I can have greek right?" and ends up listening to a dial tone when I promptly and unceremoniously hang up.

The promise of fast cash is NOT enticing enough to compromise safety or a life without complication.

BTW- in all of the instances of B&S that I've read of: the provider usually stresses that she is willing to do things that she will not in actuality during correspondence in order to secure the appointment.

So what has the caller gained by potentially incriminating himself by discussing these things on the phone?
Do your homework and be comfortable spending discretionary cash OR go with what you know via the review system.  Otherwise you have no one to blame but yourself when you're disappointed.


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lets see now, with all that has been said, I agree. this appears to not be the field you are used to playing in. $200 is not the average around here it's below the avarage going rate for quality intimate time and companionship.
As for the questions you want to be able to ask, no matter how long and loud you protest that will absolutely Never change. You will experience a dial tone if you insist on crossing that line. This is just one of those things in life, that are out of your control. When it comes to verifying references, setting the rules and so on, hon it's not your call it's hers.
All the Ladies who have responded to your little protest are all well respected here, are well reviewed and quite experienced, they all expect references, and your respect for their rules, as do most other ladies.Accept it or don't but it is what it is. Now grow up and stop stomping your foot on the floor like a 3 yr old, you are giving me a headache.

Everyone else have a sweet weekend!!
Nicole



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I don't know which planet you are from, but you don't appear to have learned much after conducting  'extensive field research for years'.  

Firstly, no reputable provider or hobbyist in their right mind would discuss the provision of illegal services, either on the telephone or in an e-mail.  Secondly, if your idea of the going rate in this area is $200, you will continue to be disappointed with your choices in that price range.  

You don't even have the balls to post under your real handle, but that is another issue.

Next time, to save your own embarrassment, it would probably be better to keep your irrational musings to yourself.

DJ

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