I am currently in a roomie situation. I live in a rather lovely, small, beachy community. I strongly dislike my roomie. Usually I refer to her as my celly because she is quite frankly comparable to a crazy person in jail. Anyway, IT'S TIME TO GO! Though I am not rushing out the door. I am going through the realty co. hoping they will find me EXACTLY what I desire. (apt. not house). Meow my question goes a lil suntin like this...should I make this apartment genius REALLY  happy or nawt? I want to...is that wierd? Should I keep it professional? Will weekly hummers help me or hurt me? And g'mornin 2 ewe

Weekly bjs = who's in a rush to find you an apartment? He'll drag that out as long as possible. :$
The proper motivation would be "if you find me the perfect place, then I reward you"

not sure what you are mixing?  sounds like you are mixing biz with biz, make sure he knows that; you are bartering sort of speak...
but agree you your services as the carrot, do not just give it away for no apt found

But im still torn lol

...head do the thinking, as the guys are fond of saying.  Think it through first, and if you decide to go ahead, make the ground rules clear to Mr. RE Agent.  It should not be an open-ended arrangement, and it would be best if it was a one-and-done deal.

Since you would approach him rather than the typical P4P with the client initiating a meeting you may be putting a gentleman into a relationship that he is not prepared to handle. I think if a man is looking for P4P then he has already made certain concessions in his real life and has weighed consequences etc... in your case it may be that the allure of a tryst will cause him to take a step he would not ordinarily do and that may be harmful in some way either in his current relationships or subsequent guilt. He may also not understand P4P ground rules and become problematic

I'm not sure if any of you have ever dealt with guys before, but generally the more well-laid they are, the better a mood in which you'll find them. Also, as a general rule, when people are in good moods, they're likely to be helpful. Maybe I'm crazy... but I doubt it.  

Why go to boston when I live at the atlantic ocean..LITERALLY lol
..crotch grab on the beach I GOT IT NP  

You tell him he gets a BJ every week till he funds you a place? I'd get used to your current roommate, because you'll be hearing "there is nothing available, so I got nothing to show you, want to go to my place?"

Posted By: realcrimsonlass

I am currently in a roomie situation. I live in a rather lovely, small, beachy community. I strongly dislike my roomie. Usually I refer to her as my celly because she is quite frankly comparable to a crazy person in jail. Anyway, IT'S TIME TO GO! Though I am not rushing out the door. I am going through the realty co. hoping they will find me EXACTLY what I desire. (apt. not house). Meow my question goes a lil suntin like this...should I make this apartment genius REALLY  happy or nawt? I want to...is that wierd? Should I keep it professional? Will weekly hummers help me or hurt me? And g'mornin 2 ewe

if that what it takes,ill rent ya an apartment lol

... in the @ss eventually. Great fantasy tho.

With a landlord, you might get to a lower cost by barter, but even that puts him in control.  Not good.

and made sure they all knew I wasnt playin favorites I was out for the best deal on the best property in my range.
I got a great deal on a house that had come on the market at 9am saw it at 11 went through it again w/my parents at 1 made an offer it was accepted by 7. thats the way to go pit them against each other...survival of the fitest.