I have been trying to contact you via phone regarding your question.  I am sorry for not getting right back to you.

Kindly email me at [email protected] and I will respond promptly.

I realize you may not picking up because my number is blocked.

KJB

To the person who has been PMing me about this post let’s get something cleared up.


1) I have never had issues with Ms. Angie Renee; we’ve always a very good relationship.

2) I was returning her call because she was looking for a reference.  Being that I did not return her call right away, I felt bad since a day had passed.  I always provide references in a timely manner but I did not realize her call was amongst 15+ in my voice mail box from the past day.  Most people write me and I was busy with classes and an appointment during the prior 24 hours.  She was probably trying to get information quickly and I felt that I let her down, especially since she has always been so kind to me.


3) I CALLED HER from my cell, which has a blocked number to ensure the privacy of my gentlemen friends.  FYI, 99% of ladies will not answer a blocked call, so if she were available to pick up, she probably would not have.  She DOES NOT have MY NUMBER blocked FYI, since you stated she probably doesn’t want to talk to me.

4) My voice mail is also generic to ensure the privacy of my friends.  If ‘someone’ were to dial back my number, they would hear a recording, not the sound of my voice.  This is just an extra FYI for you to ponder.

So, since you stated to me in PM in “IMHO one cannot be over educated” perhaps this information will further educate YOU not to jump to conclusions.  Ms. AR does not have my number blocked because she does not wish to speak with me, nor do we have any personal issues.

Sorry to disappoint you, but there is no drama involved in my wanting to reach out to her ASAP in order to provide the information she needed.

You’ve proved the point that I making in my post below.  Some people immediately jump to negative thoughts when they read something on this board because they thrive on drama.  Unfortunately I could not accommodate you in your quest.

Ciao

PS:  Blocked from further BS PM’s since you always want a Pen Pal, but never an appointment.

Looking through my mailbox, I noticed that the previous time we corresponded was /over a year ago/. And then, as this time, it was brief. So your PM friend isn't "always" doing anything.

Anything I have sent you has always been sympathetic and supportive. Granted, my assumption that you, like everyone else, are capable of unblocking your number for purposes of correspondence with providers might have been invalid. But either through lack of comprehension or just having a bad hair day you decided to distort and just be nasty.

Perhaps my invalid assumption that could have been easily and kindly corrected was less than a good thing. But it could have been easily corrected with no harm to anyone. But if you want to know why I would make such an assumption, look no further than your current post. I'm not the only person who has seen your reactions to be disproportionate at best and disingenuous at worst. You've also publicly laid into other providers with inappropriately vituperative language. So the idea you might have pissed somebody off is not at all far-fetched.

Maybe you had valid reasons for your prior rants, I don't know because I don't know the recipients. But I know myself quite well. YOUR invalid assumptions regarding ME -- and especially your fashion of conveying them, has forever imprinted you in my mind as someone unworthy of the privilege of touching me. You are like every nasty ex-wife on steroids.

Perhaps I should add something to my statement that you can never be over-educated. Do you know what you get when you take a nasty woman and educate her? An educated nasty woman.

Although you will never have the degree of introspective capacity necessary to understand this fact, you have created a self-fulfilling prophecy. I guess maybe next year (because that is how rarely I have PMd you regarding your posts) I might notice that you've blocked me. Of course, your blocking is stupid and childish. I didn't even realize it until reading this post. Why on earth would I ever try to contact you after you have mis-construed me to such a degree? Perhaps you are not used to dealing with men with a bit of self-worth; but I have self-worth and as a result will not bother further with you.

Until then, maybe you can apply your formidable intellect to figure out how to unblock your phone number when calling people who don't accept blocked calls. Maybe with a master's degree you can finally figure out what my 14 year old can do.

I don't usually unblock my number when calling people back either. Privacy, right?!!

I see that someone has nothing better to do then cause drama (love aliases that have a whole lot of nothing to say.). Ah, another reason why I stay away, which is why i didn't see your post.

I was looking for a quick reference as you thought. I'm bad with listening to my own messages so I'm sorry for not getting back to you. All is well and thanks for taking the time to reach out to me. Glad to hear things are going great.

Big hug.

AR
XO

I deeply apologize for my delay in pointing out that Kate has violated a TER policy that subjects her to banishment.

The policy is as follows:

"Posting personal information of members or provider, including content copied from their emails and Private Messages, is grounds for BANISHMENT."

Please notice that her original posting directly quoted from my PM -- which, incidentally, was positive and supportive -- as follows:

"So, since you stated to me in PM in “IMHO one cannot be over educated” "

Now, because I am infinitely kinder and far more understanding than she will ever have the capacity to be, I will be a good little boy and not call this little faux pas of Katie to the attention of admin. I don't believe in being retributive or nasty to people. Clearly, both you and Kate do -- especially when I wronged neither of you in the first place.

Now go have a nice day. I have some useful stuff to do.

Ah, but ONCE again you did not read properly.  My quote was the same 'jest' of what you said, but not EXACTLY verbatim.  

AR has nothing to do with this and I did not owe you an explanation in back and forth banter.  Just learn to read for goodness sakes.

And further more, I find your nosey PM notes to check in on what my life is like and how things are going to be offensive.  I don't even know you and I don't disclose personal details about my daily routine to just anyone in cyberspace. Did you notice the generic reply?  I also do not appreciate your public posts about my private life.

KJB


"This board is full of men, whores, old whores and old men who act like old whores"  ~Kate*  

*Old Whore


-- Modified on 10/31/2010 8:23:17 PM

"Jest" means "joke" and "gist" means "essential meaning." If you are going to be critical of my literacy; you'll look a tiny bit less foolish if you demonstrate literacy yourself. And the quote was indeed verbatim rather than paraphrased, but let's not debate things that cannot be debated in a public forum because no proof can be offered. Furthermore, I have no desire to bring you to harm (or, rather, allow you to bring yourself to harm), so fleshing out such a technicality is pointless.

It is very childish of you to make continued false accusations. Did I ASK you personal details of your daily routine? Why would you act as though I did?

Your private apology is not accepted because of the  fashion in which it was rendered and its proximity to continued public excoriation.

However, I consider this the end of the matter. You are not someone with whom I wish to deal at any level for any purpose. I consider you dangerously unpredictable at best; and as such you'll be avoided.

I respectfully request that you avoid me also.