I just kinda use the ol' Golden Rule. I know I'm a wee bit uncomfortable when I meet someone the first time, I expect the same is generally true on the flip side. However, I also know that person showing concern for my enjoyment (obviously) puts me at ease like nothing else.

Even if they don't enjoy it (yes, somehow that happens , it at least shows that you're treating them like a person with whom you're trying to share an experience, rather than just an aspect of business.

i have an excellent regular say the first time ..

We met that he simply doesn't "  dine away from home". It's never effected our time together and knowing his preferences makes things go more smoothly. It's just as important for you Boys to feel comfortable with the situation as it for us Ladies. No pressure, just fun .
Xo Erica

Its all about preferences.

...there'd be a sad face (just for a little bit lol)....as long as you're good with clit play or SOMETHING gah haha. But hey you're not into then your preference would be completely respected without any resentment.  

the chef will break down in tears if you don't order every item on the menu.

I believe it's completely up to you what you want to do or not want to do. I have one client that doesn't do anything except chat- he's great but point being, to each his own!

Personally I would never get offended by something like that. Daty is great most Of the time but it does depend on how and who is performing! I would be more than thrilled to just have your ________ , no offense taken!


Happy Hobbying!