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filmat11 6 Reviews 1407 reads
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I'm a bit surprised that this question is asked so often.  I'm not knocking you at all, as I know you are a nice person and a member of this community.  I'm not judging your site (which a quick inspection shows is perfectly fine), but answering based on experiences with many providers and sites.

Men are simple.

- We look at the pictures to find someone who we find attractive.  This is different for different men, of course.

- If the pictures are too glamorous/perfect, we get suspicious.

- We look to see if she's in our price range.

- We skim through the text of her website to see if there might be anything interesting about her personality or attitude.  The simpler the better, though, we really don't want to read a lot.  What we're looking for is an indication that she can't get enough sex.

- We read the reviews to see if other men verify that she's anything close to as good as she portrays herself on her site.

Here's what I bet most men don't like:

- Cheezy music (that is, any music).

- Cheezy graphics (anything animated, floating flowers, hopping bunnies, flickering candles, sunsets).

- Long essays about how spiritual, intuitive, well-traveled, sophisticated, educated, etc., a provider is.  If she is these things, great, but she shouldn't try too hard to prove it.  Trying too hard makes it seem fake.

Bottom line: If the pics look good, if the price is right, if others say she treated them well, if it at least seemed that she was happy to see them and enjoyed the sex, we book.

Simple, yes?


filmat11

GraceShepherd1965 reads

I am curious to see what gentlemen are seeking from their experiences in a GFE provider? What speaks to you the most via advertising and websites? s there something in particular that really captures you? Once you know what type of lady you are seeking, what types of details really make you feel that special something? Please let us know what it is that prompts you to look into a lady further and make that final step in booking.

XoXo, Savanah

Related Link: http://www.savanahnight.com

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mrfisher1283 reads

and of course a gal has to have great reviews that show a guy that she is into it and energetic.

I love a good massage too.

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filmat111408 reads

I'm a bit surprised that this question is asked so often.  I'm not knocking you at all, as I know you are a nice person and a member of this community.  I'm not judging your site (which a quick inspection shows is perfectly fine), but answering based on experiences with many providers and sites.

Men are simple.

- We look at the pictures to find someone who we find attractive.  This is different for different men, of course.

- If the pictures are too glamorous/perfect, we get suspicious.

- We look to see if she's in our price range.

- We skim through the text of her website to see if there might be anything interesting about her personality or attitude.  The simpler the better, though, we really don't want to read a lot.  What we're looking for is an indication that she can't get enough sex.

- We read the reviews to see if other men verify that she's anything close to as good as she portrays herself on her site.

Here's what I bet most men don't like:

- Cheezy music (that is, any music).

- Cheezy graphics (anything animated, floating flowers, hopping bunnies, flickering candles, sunsets).

- Long essays about how spiritual, intuitive, well-traveled, sophisticated, educated, etc., a provider is.  If she is these things, great, but she shouldn't try too hard to prove it.  Trying too hard makes it seem fake.

Bottom line: If the pics look good, if the price is right, if others say she treated them well, if it at least seemed that she was happy to see them and enjoyed the sex, we book.

Simple, yes?


filmat11

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PacoQ2049 reads

Actually on the two points you say are negatives, music and about "long essays," some music is definitely nice, though it needs to fit the mood one is trying set.

As for "long essays," it really depends on the provider.  If the provider is a good writer, then that helps her to convey who she is.

For some guys, it's not just about the sex, but having some sort of chemistry as well (even if it is for an hour or so) as they like to build "sexual relationships" with these women.

For me, case in point, while both agency girls, would be Vivian and Meredith from TBD.  While most of TBD's profiles seem generic, and I usually don't expect too much of a connection to occur on the personality end from an agency girl, for both of them, what they had said on their respective pages was true and I most certainly had some sort of chemistry going on with them.  While I hadn't had much time to see Meredith (well, until recently), I saw Vivian several times.

I agree for the most part, but it's not as simple as it seems. :-)

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DT_lover1941 reads

Biggest turnoff:  Requiring a member password to see the pictures.  Perhaps a password would be appropriate for any xxx-rated video links, but pictures should be readily available.

Webpage attraction I have yet to see:  A girl can mention her interesting hobbies...like sword-swallowing.

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gagauhlala1112 reads

AND..... get RID of the freaking music! Nothing worse than taking a quick "peek" at a website in a not so private, or even semi-private, area and being met with music that blars out for all around to hear! If I wanted music I would have logged on to a music station.

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filmat111504 reads

that Savanah asked in her post, if not in the Subject.  She asked what about advertising and websites speaks to men and gets them to book.


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I~Spy965 reads

she uses those long essays and comments about what shes all about to weed out the *simple men*.
Not all men are simple or just want to look at the slutty pictures.
The more informative website makes you have to read through it to get to the point. Or you move on.
It weeds out the ones we do not want to see.
From my point of view it works!

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filmat111688 reads

As another poster said, website music can be a very unwanted giveaway to others in the area, when you would rather not be noticed.  If you this doesn't apply to you, that's fine, but as a general rule, music that starts without warning is dangerous.  Also, people's musical tastes are so diverse, that I can almost guarantee that the music a provider finds conducive to "the mood" will not be to the taste of many potential clients.  Why turn off the client?

If the provider is a good writer, she can express herself in a few short paragraphs.  If she has more to say, a link to her blog is fine.  I never said I wasn't interested in what makes her unique, or building chemistry, I just don't want to wade through an essay.  Chemistry happens in person, not on a Web page.  To your point, agencies never do this.  They have short descriptions that are often surprisingly accurate.


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PacoQ656 reads

Ah, as for the music, I was actually talking about when seeing said provider.  I misread your post, heh.  Definitely don't want music on the provider's site for the reasons you listed.

As for providers and their respective writing, you're correct in that if she's a good writer, she'll get her point across in a few short paragraphs.  However, you'd be surprised how well some people can really express themselves via their writing; while chemistry happens in person, it can start from a provider's website if she's a great writer.  As for agencies, the good ones are the ones that are surprisingly accurate.

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johngaltnh939 reads

I specifically seek a woman who is intelligent and with whom I can have really good conversation. I want to get a sense of her personality, humor, character and ethics.

Once these are fulfilled; I look at the price range to see if that's cool.

THEN -- I look at the pictures. I am NOT looking for super-duper-models. I am looking for women who I find simply "attractive." This covers a wide range for me all the way from spinners to smaller BBWs.

As for the menu? I expect sex. The DETAILS of the sex, I leave up to the expert -- however, I don't enjoy much dirty talk, especially anything demeaning; and there are a number of things that are not on my menu; especially anything anal.

I am open to light/minor fetishes but will not allow any woman to restrain me in any way.

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johngaltnh1025 reads

... nothing beats Julie Andrews' wondrous voice. Unless, of course, it can be combined with a wondrously sexy lady.

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kernel__hacker1123 reads


Check out the stunner giving this talk:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQZJIuq_90Q

I got wood as soon as she started talking about frame buffers.

I had to relieve myself when she started talking about "bit-shifting".  

Related Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQZJIuq_90Q

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johngaltnh1313 reads

... are top rated providers.

When a lady can talk Jung and Nietzsche, sprinkle in some anthropology and then start talking about frame buffers -- she gets me HOT.

Hey, the biggest sex organ is the brain, dontchaknow.

:-)

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CarnalCourtesan1606 reads

Ditto.

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CarnalCourtesan1801 reads

I responded quickly as I was leaving for class.  What I meant by "ditto" is that if you act like a jerk, it will get out amongst the ladies as well.
I feel this is worth mentioning and yes I realize I don't know you but my decision not to see you is based on your style of posting.

I agree with you but your superficial style is a turn off.

We "GET"?  Sounds a little rough.
We are soft sweet ladies (most of us) who don't want to be "Gotten" or "Done" by anyone harsh.  What do you do, grab a woman by the throat during Doggie?  

You have choices, a quickie, the overused typical GFE and the right to receive SERVICES that you see described in an ad.  At a minimum the lady in the ad should be the one you meet and have the attributes she has used to describe herself.

I provide a TGFS, or Temporary Girlfriend Situation, which is not acting for the moment, it's the real deal.  That said, spending extended time with someone who thinks I am no more than a piece of ass would not do it for me.  It takes two to tango and have a hot sexual time.  The basis of a great experience is trust.

You may want to think about the delivery of your introduction to ladies, otherwise you will only attract those looking to take your money and get you the hell out the door.

You are the company you keep.  Hobbying101: Be sweet and gentle with the ladies.  Many of us will do ANYTHING for a really nice guy who treats us with respect and kindness.

Simple.



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GraceShepherd1793 reads

There have been quite a few very interesting replies here. I agree complete that you certainly catch more with honey than you do with vinegar and have always stood by this, kudos to you Carnal Courtesan.

We are all individual ladies and all practice differently. For me I prefer to be selective in whom I see and I am a non-smoker which greatly affects my comfort level with those who do smoke. I always ask gents to please refrain from it.
I am not your standard clock watcher or in and out, onto the next appointment lady as I seldom see more than 3 gents in a week. I prefer extended engagements and was looking for insight into what you gents find most appealing.
I am very glad I have no floating bunnies or music on my website, lol!

Excellent input and always looking for more!

Thank you all!

XoXo,
Savanah

Related Link: http://www.savanahnight.com

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