I am curious to know if it's really worth my efforts to go shopping

You bet your sweet ass lingerie is important. My Stella McCartney panties make me feel like a million bucks even if I'm just going to Lowes for gardening supplies. If nothing else a woman should always treat herself to proper foundation garments. You will look better and feel better, plus they look amazing on even if you are the only one who knows. La Perla has great online sales for splurging as well as Nordstrom's to find quality pieces that are gorgeous and will last.

Plus if you walk into my room you'd better have nice panties on, because I like unwrapping women like a birthday present

Grace

However, it usually does not stay on for long.

It is part of a nice introductory phase.

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Foody looks just like I envisioned !  LOL

AMEM!  There is nothing better than high heels and thigh high stockings.  

Mj

 

You always look good sweetie. Can't wait to see you again!

Thanks dahlin...I missed you while I was away xo

Seeing a girl in a hot outfit is so awesome. It definitely sets the mood and puts me at ease by taking some of that pesky blood flow away from my brain. I would say that 2/3rds of my visits have been to girls dressed sorta "meh." Sadly, I've come not to expect anything fancy, so when I do see it, my eyes pop out like some sorta cartoon wolf.

they have a store on newbury, This get up stalkings , garter, g string and bra. was like 600 or so. They had much nicer stuff, The corsets were 600 or mre each if i recall. Looking at them and seeing I need to bring more next time. i wouldve prefered the corsets, but next time!  It is more quality and more comfortable than viccy secret, Viccy secret stalking thigh highs, they  rip easily, The agent provocateur bra was so comfortable too, and the thigh highs are super durable and dont rip when you hastily are tryn to get em on before your client comes, ..

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I am not paying 6 bills for something I won't wear after a couple weeks when it's novelty has worn off

and they are still in good condition, i dont put my lingeraie through dryer , ever.  
and for me i def do continue to wear them for years, ...If you get sick of em yes it wouldnt be worht it, i actually have my whole teddy, nighty , lingeraie sets , garters thigh highs all hung in my closet, its like my work clothes, i have to have them all organized so i can see what i wanna wear that day. my next big investment now that the bathroom got done over in white marble is this 'PEACOCK" A GRANITE COUNTER TOPS  with espresso new cabinets for the kitchen renovations, . yay, so wont be buyin much lingeraie this next month...

Then by all means, wear it on the date.

When I wear a "suit" it makes me feel differently than wearing "sweats".

If it puts you in the right mood for you to perform better. Please go shopping.

lingerie does not matter to me at all.

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Sorry but it really doesn't do it for me in this situation. I prefer simple jeans and t-shirt ! Feels more real like we just got back from a date and are headed to the bedroom. Or maybe jus a mans dress shirt with just one button done up?

black laced stalkings,sexy shoes and a Bruins shirt will do it for me

A few just today...the gals looked like were dressed for Halloween...very over the top "hookerish"...to each his own...that's just not me...then I met my girlfriend at DD for coffee...she had on semi baggy jeans and a wife beater w/ flip flops and zero make up...I was defknlighted to be with her...probably will see her again tomorrow...my very own lesbian...such fun

Let me try to list all of the reasons:

1) When you advertise or tell me that you have a selection of lingerie, it lets me know that you consider yourself a professional professional, which means you want me to appreciate your services enough to become a repeat client.
2) It lets me know that you think in terms of clothes, toys, and other tools of your trade: you'll have covers and lube and you may even have a clean towel to offer me.
3) It lets me know that I'm going to have an experience with a lady who wants to get me in the mood from the very first moment I lay eyes on her.
4) It lets me know that you have at least a basic understanding of how visually oriented men are, and that gives me hope you'll understand other things about the male mind (and other parts, too).
5) It lets me know that since you spent time buying lingerie and bringing it with you, you are likely to be willing to spend the agreed-upon amount of time with me, too.  (The kind of person who tries to rush a guy out of the appointment in ten minutes is not likely to consider spending time shopping for lingerie for her clients worthwhile.)
6) It lets me know that you are smart and savvy enough to understand that it helps us both out when you look stunningly sexy.  (Hey, you may even manage to get me out the door in ten minutes rather than thirty or sexy.)  At least half of good sex is in the head (the big one), right?
7) It lets me know that you care enough to "package" your figure, and that whatever so-called imperfections you may have, you know that I'll be focusing on the sexy camisole and stockings rather than a blemish here or there.

Well, that's just 7 reasons why when you select lingerie it signals to your clients that you're a thoughtful lady  and not just a fly-by-night wham-bam-get-outta-here-Sam provider.  I can already think of another three reasons and I'm sure there are even more.  I look at it this way: When I show up to an appointment with you and you're wearing the lingerie we talked about, the appointment starts off on a high note.  But if I show up and you're wearing a sweat shirt and flannel pajama bottoms, that tells me that even though you know I'm going to be bringing a donation for your time, and I could still pivot and leave as soon as I see how little attention you devoted to confecting some "eye candy" for me, you really don't care whether I leave.  Or you figure I'm just so hard up (so to speak) for companionship that I'll stick around no matter how you're dressed.  Either way, it doesn't bode well for a fun time together.

Thank you for thinking about lingerie.  You can be sure that your clients appreciate it.

Yes, but --  

Lingerie on another woman may not be important to you.  It may not serve as a turn-on to you.  Truthfully, if I'm at the gym and I see another guy wearing tight shorts and a clingy t-shirt -- it does nothing for me at all, either.

But the question you asked was whether lingerie on a woman is important to men, not whether lingerie on a woman is important to other women.  Lol - heck, if I were a woman I would no more want to go traipsing around in high heels than walking on two-foot stilts.  But when I go to visit a woman, yeah, I'm kind of grateful when she keeps the FMPs on her feet while we're in bed together.  I'm pretty sure that's not just me who feels that way, too.

I like Black!

Mj

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Fair enough & noted tyvm

as  are good lighting soft and sensual but not too dark.
Tanned and toned skin soft hair and beautiful nails...
you go out of your way to make sure you are clean fresh and soft now dress that package up as well.
I put on some nice lingerie, a sexy dress heels and theigh highs I freshen up look in the mirror and damn I feel good and it shws when he shows up. He feels like you bothered...you went the distance to dress up FOR him.
It just further sets the mood and it does make a difference.

Plus its p4p...you should in my opinion be extra specially dressed to please.
Its always nice the antisipation the unveiling all the lace buttons and bows...to the magic prize inside.

you are a special person and when you answer that door dressed to impress they know you see them as special too they are worth your effort.

and noone dresses up for them at home.
this is a fantasy...Live it!

Lifes your cup baby...drink it up! (3doors down)

xo
Nic

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I agree totally with you.  That's why you have great repeat clientel.   Well said.  

Mj

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I never thought about lingerie that way. I have a bunch because I think its fun and sexy, plus I know folks often have a certain look that drives them wild. If I am meeting with a hobbyist, I want them to have the best time possible so lingerie has always been part of that equation.  I just never thought of it as "tools of the trade", but that definitely makes sense. Plus, I like any advice that gives me more reasons to get pretty things for myself!