Just this week, Crystal for Fun told me (between BJs ... whew) that you don't need to be a member to write a review. True or False.

If a moderator can check my unnaproved reviews and tell me, even on this board, what I did wrong, maybe I'll post again.

I take time, out of respect for anyone I write a review about, to do it graphically and TASTEFULLY

But I'm not going to have reviews held back and be happy. I've gotten reminders to post reviews and get "free service" ... well writing GREAT reviews did nothing for me or the provider

Crystal probably meant you don't have to be a VIP member to write a review. (It must have been hard for her to elaborate with her mouth full!)  But you do have to be a TER member with a handle to post a review.

I don't believe moderators have anything to do with unapproved reviews.

After you write two reviews you can become a VIP member for 30 days and each subsequent review gets you an additional 15 days of VIP membership.

Happy hobbying...

The moderators have nothing to do with the review process.  If you go to the account manager and look under "my reviews" there should be an explanation for any review that was not approved.  YOu do not have to be VIP to write a review but you do have to be a member...since you are already posting here you are already a member.

Unfortunately "tasteful" reviews will not always make the cut.  TER wants details. I have had reviews rejected due to lack of details in the past and being a bit more specific about what happened during the session was enough to get them through.

By tasteful, I meant showing respect for the provider. Details .... read my reviews and you'll see details. No using vagina, penis safe words, down and dirty more like it.

You'd definitely want to see anyone I reviewed by the blow by "blow" (in most cases) analysis.