How do you get the message across to a provider of what you are really seeking?  Most providers will not respond to questions if graphic in nature.  In know the provider language, but it isn't enough and I don't want to be dissappointed any more.

why dont you just email the provider and ask her directly.  I for one can be asked anything.  I dont get offended.  I'm very open minded and honest.  Just ask.

Reviews are the best way... that's why we all are here. Since providers have their own rules we as gentlemen honor, it's a bit tough when you can't come right out and state what you want, but you make a date and find that your wished-for entrée isn't on the menu. I've had a few where I got my wish, but the experience made we wish I had just walked away. Since I now regularly read reviews and usually won't see a provider till I've read a few, I've been a lot happier.

By your posting below it looks like you're looking for a full French lesson without any translation. They are out there. Anyone listed as GFE will be a good start. If you're looking for just that and nothing else (no hardbodies, no DFK, cuddling, smalltalk, etc.) you might look for providers who do 1/2 hour sessions (unless you've got the staying power of a rock!) It'll cost you less in the long run. Once the ice is broken, you might describe your wishes, though I find that letting the provider drive is usually a very enjoyable experience.

It never hurts to remember that being courteous, on-time, and above all clean helps make everyone happy.

And don't forget, good or bad, let us know whay happened!

Zanshin

yes.  do not see a provider unless she is reviewed.  then you know what you are getting in to.  Otherwise, get verified first and see if she'll answer questions before you see her...

I would like other providers to tell me the same is true with them.  I have always found that no one will communicate with me if a tell them exactly what I am really looking for.  I will be in touch.

you can  just write in creative way  about what you want as long it is not stright out  and if you do get verif first most providers would feel much better to answer your ??? but  i know as for me if someone just come out and say something and i have not verfiey him i would just delet the message as you not sure who is sending that e mail  just my 2  c  and as the gent said make app for first time and then when  you both comf with each other  you can just say what you like    GOOD LUCK