Here are some of the facts you cancelled on me 3 times and wasted my time. No text no email no call the last 2 times. (When you had ALL my info) This after me confirming on each occasion by text and email (I saved them all)
I figured yeah maybe something happened so I pm'd you to get an explantion and tell you what I think.
You had enough time to post this week but not enough time to explain all the cancellations.

Sorry about your health problems but 3 times come on.I gave you all my personal info.

I've been around a while and would like to think I am one of the good guys (TER whitelisted etc)

All I was looking for was explanation of why you kerp cancelling appointments.
Thanks.

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-- Modified on 8/15/2008 5:56:47 AM

Hey George,  Nicolette is one of the best independent providers in the area.  Her level of GFE service is second to none.  Occasionally, like anybody, she needs to attend to personal matters and shit happens.  What happened to you was an anomaly.  Forgive her and move on.

and you won't have any more worries

-- Modified on 8/16/2008 6:16:14 AM

He PRIVATELY contacted her and wanted an explanation for missed appointments, MMmm nothing wrong there. She stiffed him 3 times, MMmmm something wrong there. She posts about him using his handle on the board, MMmm something wrong there. He then responds to post publicly defending himself, MMmm nothing wrong there. People start to get on George a little, MMmm something wrong there.

George, I can't see where you went wrong, but I am old and maybe my eyes aren't that good!!

Nicolette posted a complaint regarding a PRIVATE MESSAGE in which she plainly named the TER member who sent her the mail via the system.

In addition to making a thinly veiled ad post (the 2nd advertisement in less than 3 days made by herself) she dramatically drew attention to a private exchange in which she claims George Strait indicated he would make a board inquiry regarding her lack of professionalism IF she did not provide an explanation for her behavior.

Irrespective of the exchange that happened PRIVATELY or the circumstances of her cancellations or impetuousness on his part:  her having posted this thread is drama any way you slice it.

Good providers with good reviews make mistakes too and to blame George for defending himself is wrong.

Hey she cancelled more than three times as well. One day I drove all the way to her place; she didn't have the decency to send a text message  or call me to explain why she cancelled the appointment. I completely agree with you because and I really don't understand why people just assume you are wrong while Nikki started it. For me at least when she cancelled on me several times without any notice. I decided to leave it alone because they are plenty other girls out there.

You really have to go with George on this one.  I have never seen Pretty Nicolette, but I have seen her website and her posts and she seems very nice.  But I think she could have handled this much differently.  Instead of responding to his threat to go public by PRIVATELY getting back to him and talking things out, she instead went public first.  She one-upped him but I don't think it was the smart thing to do.

Have to agree with George on this one. There seems to be a thread about Nik standing people up once a month. She has done it to me 3 times as well. Only once giving a reason of some sort. I understand shit happens in your life but she has a habit of this and all anyone asked for was a courtesy call or email saying she has to cancel. Some people have to make a long drive, leave work, what ever to make this appointment just to have her stand them up.

As others have said. George asked for an explanation in private and she decided to take this public. I don't see him doing anything wrong.

I'm sure Nik is a great person with some issues?? I was patent and kept trying and finally moved on. I too bit my tongue and would have stayed that way until this thread.

Elementary Clarence. You should have said she failed to communicate.

Nicole- are you going to Italy again ?

Most of the time I try to reschedule.  One time, I felt so bad because he was from out of town, that I offered him 2 hours for the price of 1 for the next day.  (He was only in town for 2 days.)  It made all the difference in the world!  

I keep remembering that old saying...."Treat people the way you want to be treated."  

Lisa of Boston



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I am guessing its time for both of you to just move on and be done with it already.

You gotta pissed off provider, a pissed off hobbyist, and white knights for each.  With the exception of Hanky, every poster is pretty much respected, and the issue (cancellation / possible NCNS) is a natural byproduct of the hobby.  It's a recipe for a great train wreck.

Nicolette, you shouldn't have brought this to the board.  I can understand you may have been in a stressed frame of mind at the time, but you had plenty of opportunity afterwards to edit your post to take out George Strait's name.  Naming him was an open invitation to him to respond on the board and put him on the defensive.  You shouldn't have brought a private matter into the public eye.

George Strait, you shouldn't have threatened to slam her on the board in your PM.  Telling her to explain herself or be publicly slammed is an ultimatum that borders on bullying.  I'm unclear on whether two of the cancellations were NCNS, but even if they were, you've been around long enough to know that there are basically three ways to handle them.  Privately (just move on), publicly with a full outing of the provider by name, or semi-publicly with an invitation for a PM for information.  You've also been around long enough to know that any public posting is going to become a he said / she said thing with white knights stating that they never had a problem, and others stating that they did, with the bottom line being that NOBODY is better off (there's even some jerk just making shit up: ImSomebody, a search of the board shows you're full of shit about once per month threads about her). So threatening her with a public spanking is just uncool.

Keep it up though, I just love a good train wreck.

well said !

God, I feel thirsty after reading all this drama.

This shouldn't have come to the board. It makes you look bad because now you've drawn negitive attention to yourself. In this case the "any press, including bad press, is good for you." dosen't apply.
Also, lets not ignore that this was also a thinly veiled AD post. I assume everyone still knows the rules about 7 days. I'm guessing the Mod didn't pull this because you've created a poor situation for yourself. Strait has every right to respond so there shouldn't be any hard feelings toward him from you.
Look I've been around a very long time. I've made tons of mistakes. Hopefully, you'll learn from them and remember it down the road the next time you want to take it to the board.
My suggestion: Next time you feel like this call another provider or post on the ladies board. This way you can vent without the negitive PR. Just know this isn't an attack on you from me, just call it like I see and hate to see a nice provider to do this to herself.

AngieRenee
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I've been getting laid, and missed this thread, and I know for a fact that alias is not an Ex Boston Mod. Hope this clears up any confusion.

Well we all know you don't write that coherently. LOL
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