At what point do you try to schedule with another on your top 5 to do List? I have been unsuccessful trying to nail down a time with a particular provider, LOTS of phone conversations tho, and I know if we can resolve the timing conflicts she will rock my world. Seeing as to how I CAN NOT do in all in a hotel ( professional reasons ) I need a provider that has a private in call. Suggestions? This is something I only do every few years, so I want it to be memorable.
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Then I move on and wait a few months and maybe try again.  

Sometimes it's the universe telling us that it's not meant to be.

Sounds like your circumstances can be limiting but workable. Also your activity level is controlled. That being said, you may need to be a little more lenient to fit a situation that works for you. Under normal circumstance I would agree w/ Mr. Fisher (3 strikes & chalk it up to "wasn't meant to be). If it doesn't work the first time around, maybe pick it up again down the road. I may also give special consideration to a Top 5 pick

It seems like you choose your options after much consideration, so the urge may be to "make it happen" after you've made a decision. The down side is, too much....persistent contact may create some Blowback, which will not work in your favor.

So err on the side of caution and maybe reach out to 1 or 2 of the other Top 5. That way when you are ready to act, on your terms....you'll still end up happy.

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...I without fail always meet with every guy that books in advance with enough notice for me to plan. For example so far this week Monday I had to visit with a psychiatrist being the a GHD person I am I showed up too late and missed the damn appointment. Tuesday I went to regular counseling with a therapist. Now Wednesday I am going to see my obstetrician & I am getting a flu shot then I will head to the pharmacy and pick up my prenatal vitamin prescription then I plan on taking the rest of the week off to shampoo the carpets.

Going to buy a new jug of floor and counter cleaner may be some type of scented pine saw going to really give the entire apartment a once over from head to toe. So I figured since I had a lot of multiple hour appointments that were polite and thoughtful enough to pre-book with enough notice for me to plan properly. There was a3 hour appointment on Sunday which made my entire week because it was 750 which is why now I am taking some time off to clean the apartment I am financially secure at the moment at least I know if there's an emergency I could take the dog to the Animal Hospital blah blah blah.

So now what happens with me is I get about 10 to 15 last minute increase per week there either looking for right now at this exact minute they are calling or no go they are not willing to actually scheduled an appointment when I'm actually free and available and ready. I think there's all different types of service and I think some girls may go get a room and they're sitting there with the phone on ready to take calls that entire day .
       I would say I receive sometimes three phone calls a day of gentlemen that are looking for a last minute appointment within a few hours of the phone call and then I would say I am able to actually get one to four appointments per week with gents that are actually willing to schedule and book the appointment. I am open to last minute but I don't make any promises and lately I have not had last minute availability I don't mind the calls coming in looking for me last minute there docum days where I am able to take those last minute calls.

I know a bill who is a plumber has been playing phone tag with me for several weeks but he will not commit to a time and day he likes to call at random during the day when it's convenient for him which so far has not been able to work for me last week I had a2 hour appointment on Friday evening home just gave me a great review mind you.

But he did give me about a weeks notice that he would be coming down from New York and would like to see me for an appointment it gave me plenty of time to plan what days I go to the gym what days I go to obstetrician what day is I go to counseling.

And now I'm going to be going to a group therapy class every Friday on ADHD or HDD so now I'm going to really have been even tighter schedule that will mean I'm at the Counseling Center 9 times a month but I need it because I'm not taking my ADHD meds right now because I'm pregnant and I don't want to harm the baby obviously so I definitely need to work on my skills in that aspect to some people it would seem like a waste of time skipping work to go do all this therapy and group therapy but in the long run it will save time so it's going to help me build skills so I can get ready on time for the appointments. But anyways Bill the plumber there is a bill that has been calling me for weeks but he calls at random in the early afternoon when I'm just getting up mind you I get up at about 10:30 a.m. Then I have two rabbits I have to empty their little boxes I have to walk the dog I have to feed all the animals sometimes a random last minute early afternoon phone call especially where I was very busy all weekend with multiple our appointments with out of town traveling businessmen.

I landed a2 hour appointment on Friday and then I'll and hit a3 hour appointment on Sunday both with traveling business men that were thoughtful enough to book with over a weeks notice I think if you're able to actually tell me a time and date it would work better but that's not your schedule will the plumber I know exactly who you are and you've been trying to call me but you call at random out of the blue and expect me to drop everything and be ready for you you can keep trying but it's probably not going to happen

I offer to book an appointment several days later and we'll throw a time and day out there and you always say no but yet you call me out of the blue in the middle of the afternoon and want to come over within 10 minutes.

Also someone saying they most definitely need to see someone thats hosting out of incall apt.
    which considering you have no reviews that kind of sounds like you're a detective trying to arrest someone for holding a house of ill repute I don't get how a plumber is not able to go see escorts in hotels that kind of makes you seem a little bit sketchy as well but most of the escorts on the erotic review are going to need a little bit of a heads up you might not be able to just call them within 10 minutes and expect them to drop everything for you like you have been doing to me all week

I offered to schedule a set date and time several days later but you're always looking for right now at that moment when it's convenient for you. I don't know how much luck you're going to have booking appointments in this fashion. I dunno the girls on Backpage post an ad when they are available at that exact moment that system might work a little better for you but I know on the erotic review most of the way business is done is by poking and scheduling appointments not calling people out of the blue and wanting them to be there for you in less than 10 minutes I would say about 10 guys per week call me and they are looking for an appointment within 10 minutes or an hour. I will offer if they would like to schedule on a date and time when I am available a lot of times they just say no they were looking for right now and that's that I lose out.

I always assume when they call me in this fashion I was probably their second choice and another provider cancelled on them and this was their only time they were available because we're there looking for within 10 minutes but they're not willing to schedule when I am available it's kind of obvious I was there last minute option and that the lady they wanted to see just is not available right now otherwise they would schedule with me for a time when I am available but they never do

I would tend to think many of those trying to see you,in 10 min to an hour, that you are actually their first choice!

I know I rarely book an appt days or even weeks in advance. Generally will only do for someone that is touring. For local provider I definitely tend to contact them on the day of to see if they happen to be available. But I always give at least a 2-3 hours notice (not 10 min!). For my schedule and lifestyle I tend to be more spontaneous then planned out. But I definitely know that I've missed out on seeing some local favorites because of my lack of planning.