WTF happened to courtesy? I'm done.

I have been around this hobby for 20+ yrs and I have defended providers countless number of times when it comes to how they verify, schedule, and put up with ns/nc. Never in my hobbing life have I EVER ns/nc on an appointment. Since the end of summer I have wasted hours planning and scheduling appointments with highly regarded providers and BP girls alike. Guess what, the BP girls have a better attendence/response rate then the TER girls by far (BP girls 3 for 6, .500 - TER girls 1 for 15 with 14 Ns/Nc's) BTW Erica Sweet was the only girl with the common decency to stay in touch and work things out instead of just blowing things off when something came up, Thank You Dear!!

Never again will I defend or give the benefit of the doubt to any provider until she proves herself worthy first. I will not ever continue to be anything more than respectful of someone elses time if I should have an issue in the future, but I will no longer cut anyone any quarter with my time!!! And I really would like to hear all these providers stop bitching about guys missing appointments until such a time that they respect our time is worth as much as theirs!!!!

Sad statement to make as this used to be a great time and great release. If it continues to be as much work and stress I might as well find a new hobby soon!!!!

I have had this happen a few to many times as well. In fact one is from someone who posts alot on this site. I try to be very nice and always show or call but over the last 3 months it has been a tough go from providers.

Lets hope for a better 2013!!!