Hello to everyone,

I'm pretty new here, so please forgive my ignorance if it shows through...

I've been trying to schedule an appointment with Stacey and I'm aware that she has a very strict and thorough screening process.  I've given her all the information she's asked for, along with information, contact info, and links of other providers I've seen (Independent and Agency).  Although the independent girl who referenced for me has reviews on both TBD or TER, Stacey said she didn't know here and therefore could not accept the reference.

I'm kind of disappointed, but am willing to do whatever is necessary for Stacey to feel comfortable meeting me.  Can anyone provide details on which local women I can schedule with before tryign to see Stacey, women who can then provide a refernce for me that Stacey will accept?

I'm a very well-mannered, highly intelligent and humorous man, reasonably good-looking, in my early thirties, good health, and do my best to treat the women I'm with the best I can.

Thank you!!

Yikes...looks like you're caught up in the job/reference vicious cycle. Good Luck...try Gray-Eyed Nicole...

I'm fairly new as well, and jumped through Staceys screening hoops, but boy am I glad I did!

I saw Marcella www.marcellagfe.com before I saw Stacey.

I will be back to see BOTH of them again! I had a WONDERFUL time with both ladies.

V

I also have provided her with the information required and have gotten turned-down twice.  I just gave up.

While trying to qualify, I found two other providers with great reps, fair prices and wonderful services.  They are just as good looking and I am now a regular.

Stacey has plenty of regulars, so she is not going to starve.  She a great lady, but sometimes the price of admission is not always worth it.

On the other hand, if you are hung up on seeing her, Good Luck.

Stacey, this was not a put-down, just an observation.  You are entitled to whateve requirements you setup.

I have had the same experience as many others.  Stacey has gotten great reviews and I certainly wanted to spend sometime with her, but my e-mails received no response.  She may be great, of course I wouldn’t know because I have never had the pleasure, but I have found there are many other wonderful ladies waiting for you to call.  That I can say for sure.

Please allow me to address the comment on who I will accept for references. I will accept references from a verifiable legit provider especially a local lady or well known travelling lady. I am very prompt, punctilious, and customer service oriented and will respond to any man who has sent me his reservation form and verifiable references. I do not blow off people’s emails. Like any other women who is inundated with requests and whose mailbox is flooded daily, from time to time I get confused as to who sent what and delete someone who I thought needed to be deleted. A good rule of thumb is to always try to follow up if you have in fact provided all the appropriate info.   I will not respond to men who do the following:

A) Send me a one-line email (This does not show me you are serious)
B) Do not do their homework enough to solidify if in fact they are interested in seeing me
C) Send vulgarities or an email of an explicit nature (these get automatically deleted)
D) Write 50 emails to me even after I have said in the beginning that I need references and told them that any verifiable board reference would be fine. (I feel this is counterproductive for us both.)

I do not feel that asking for proper verification to be met is a bad thing. I am very selective and very tough to get appointments with because I safeguard all gents who see me as well as covering my own luscious derrière.

To all the many gentleman who have wished to book with me and gave up because they had no references “please” if you have in fact obtained references of "verifiable ladies" who have more than a few references just write me back and we can have the chance to meet. I would love the chance to be graced with your presence. I never wanted to reject you men for any personal reasons. I just did not want to take any chances and cuase harm to my fans or myself. I hope you accept my SINCEREST apology and understand my motives and methods. Please do not hate me because when you were new and tried to see me I refused. This is the protocol I follow with every new adventurer. I really want to play with you men, but I must schedule appointments and employ common sense as well as holding tight to my convictions when accepting euphoric explorative excursions. I am not one to settle for less than a 100% confidence interval and employ nothing less than the utmost in discretionary as well as safe booking practices. Most men desire a lady who does not need to make exceptions in order to book up and who will not no matter what because she is looking out for everyone’s best interest.

To all those who wanted to see me before and could not that now have references please reconsider and know that I will in fact treat you like the kings you are. We all have to crawl before we walk and going through the references process is part of becoming a full fledge recognized hobbyist for some providers who exercise the highest in discretionary precaution. I will treat you like kings and make these hoops seem like small speed bumps to have to overcome once we are through with our wonderful pleasing encounters. Again I am very sorry to have offended any one. I will kiss it and make it better boys. I hope that you sample just why I am in effect:

New England’s Best Kept Secret

Your Secret Seductress

Hott Stacey

She is treating you badly (my opinion) if your side of the story is all there is to it.  There are other people to see.

There's nothing wrong with seeing another provider and trying to catch up with Stacey at another time.  I've done this a few times: I couldn't meet a provider I wanted to, so I gave up for now and tried again a few months down the road.  

There are a few other ladies who are stellar in personality, skills and (need I say) looks.

-Shy_N_Jewish

I agree with you.  I've seen others.  I was simply hoping to connect with Stacey, if possible, and do so in the most efficient way possible, as I'm not interested in wasting my time, or that of others, whether they be other clients or providers.

Hello Stacey,

I've written to you a few times, all within the scope of continued casual conversation in trying to connect with you, and all providing you with what you requested.  I don't want to provide my name here to look up our mails, just do a search for "VirilCzar" using the "Search Mail" feature of your Yahoo account, that will provide you with my mails, which you can then review by order of date.  I considered writing you another e-mail, but you didn't respond to my request about which ladies in this area you would accept as a reference.  I figured that was pretty straighforward... or maybe I guessed wrong?

I feel that it's fair for me to address your points:

> A) Send me a one-line email (This does
> ot show me you are serious)

I don't do this with any lady, I do my homework ahead of time.  I don't even bother with ladies that don't appeal to me beyond just looks, and who haven't been reviewed.  I've only done that once, with the first lady I ever met with, and got very lucky in that result, she was superb.

My first e-mail to you included the full registration form, all the details you wanted, and 3 references, all of whom are reviewed on TER/TBD, and whom I gave you permission to contact to verify me further if you so wished.

> B) Do not do their homework enough to solidify
> if in fact they are interested in seeing me

I wouldn't jump through hoops unless I had a real interest in wanting to meet with you.

> C) Send vulgarities or an email of an explicit
> nature (these get automatically deleted)

Obviously, with me, that has not been the case, just do a search of your e-mail with my TER username, that will get you any messages I sent which included that.  There is a sort by e-mail feature in Yahoo which lets you sort by e-mail address, so that you can peruse people's messages to you by name.  If you forget who someone is, try that, I'm sure it will be very helpful to you.  After you're done, you can re-sort by date to return your mail view to what it was before.

> D) Write 50 emails to me even after I have
> said in the beginning that I need references
> and told them that any verifiable board
> reference would be fine. (I feel this is
> counterproductive for us both.)

Please explain what you mean by "verifiable board reference".  A lady who posts on TER/TBD?  A lady who's been reviewed more than once?  Both?  A friend of yours?

I provided you a reference to an independent lady who has been reviewed multiple times in the past couple months, on both TER & TBD.  I provided those links, so you wouldn't have to spend time looking for them, and also links to her various web ads.  I even asked her to send you a mail, which I know she sent.

Harry I am sorry you feel that way. I am a realy nice person and all who know me can vouch for that. I guess I cannot please all of the people all of the time. I will work hard at getting to the bottom of this unfortunate situation. I have infact received a letter from your reference sweetie. I never said I did not. I am questioning whether or not she is legit. We should have an added feature on TER that helps us with thiks issue. My intention is to treat everyone fair an equitably and if it seems I am not I can assure you I am a very fair and genuinely caring provider who does not just turn people down because I can. I turn people down if I cannot verify them. My appoligies to the origional poster of this thread. I would normally say this is not a topic for public discussion, but actually it has helped me in redefining just how to handle my verification process without offending people. I cannot improve without feedback. As I said I do this to keep my men and myself safe.  Thank you for your honesty and I hope we can meet soon. xoxoxoox

> Harry I am sorry you feel that way. I am a
> realy nice person and all who know me can
> vouch for that. I guess I cannot please all
> of the people all of the time. I will work
> hard at getting to the bottom of this
> unfortunate situation. I have infact received
> a letter from your reference sweetie. I never
> said I did not. I am questioning whether or
> not she is legit.

Stacey, are you replying to just Harry on this or to me or both?  I'm not Harry.  But it seems like you're repying to his comment and then the rest of your reply sounds like you're referring to my comments.

In any case, I didn't want to get into this publicly either, all I was looking for was a reasonable suggestion of a number of providers that you would feel comfortable getting a reference from.  Whether that came from you or someone else didn't matter to me.  You didn't reply to my request for that, so common sense would lead me to I ask for help from the people here.  I guess nobody here can help with that either.  *SHRUG*

As far as the provider I asked to verify me to you, I'm not sure what doesn't qualify her as legit.  She's reasonably local, an independent, and has multiple reviews on TER/TBD.  And I also provided the 2 other references, one from a local agency, another from a non-local agency.

> We should have an added feature on TER that
> helps us with thiks issue.

I thought that's what reviews were for.  If multiple reviews by multiple guys don't verify that a lady is legit, what does?  Are we to expect the reviews to come from only guys who are known to be legit?  Who verifies THEM?  When dealing with random providers who request verification, it's chicken and egg.  But with specific providers, we get to my original point: simply asking the provider (or people who've connected with the provider) WHO, in her mind, without a doubt, would be a reputable OTHER provider to get a reference from, a reference that would be acceptable?  That's the only thing I wanted to know... I don't think it's a big deal, I might be willing to see one of the ladies.  If not, then I guess we'll never meet.

After all the reads & replies on this thread, no information on that, and that was the only purpose of my original post, not to create some controversy.

Am I missing something here?  Is it possible for someone, anyone, to simply provide some information on which providers would be good to see and who would also be reputable as references for Stacey?

See one of the girls at Room Service

Personally I think you're getting off on the wrong foot here with Stacey.) Try seeing any one of the ladies who post their schedule on a regular basis. I can't speak for Stacey, but I think that would be acceptable. Most of them know each other well and cross reference all the time.