I know that it is a business and that we (hobbiests) need to remember the our providers are business persons, but because of the personal nature of the relationship, I have a tough time reminding myself that it's business for them...

As I age, my choices and taste gets better. My expectations also rise. Should I be surprised that a very high quality provider has  a bit of a routine each and every time. To me, spontanetiy, variety, suprises are all part of a successful season--and  the reason that I hobby.

It a real drag when I can almost anticipate what's going to happen next. I must admit, my recent pension has been for the exotica of the far east. And perhaps it is the language barrier that is partially to blame for this caught in the same-old-routine-rut.

No question that it must be tough for a provider to be creative and exciting 24/7, but it's business, right ?

Respectfullly to all involved.

You want her to be creative in a language she doesn't speak? This is such a ridiculous post.

Quit itching--you  miss the point completely. Im asking her to be creative in the session. Im not asking her to take english lessons.

Yes it is a business & mine is always mutually enjoyable!  I LOVE my job!!!