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augustwest 46 Reviews 7324 reads
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It seems that every once in a while, this topic is raised, and there is a barrage of spirited responses in reply.

trev1186246 reads

I see that someone else posted something here regarding BBFS, just curious if anyone knew provider(s) who are open to such once some sort of relationship comes about.  I've noticed not much is posted about this, but if anyone has some suggestions they'd be willing to share, private msg me.  

thanks so much.

So I can stay far away from those providers...I am always awed when I see this request...jesus, BBFS is just so f'n dangerous.

Now there's something to stay away from!!

It seems that every once in a while, this topic is raised, and there is a barrage of spirited responses in reply.

usually a bit of an understatement. ;)

thirsty

trev1185260 reads

Ah, Insightful.   I’ll have to remember to check with her before I post here again.
In all honesty, I can understand where I might receive very little information regarding the topic of my post, I know that this isn’t necessarily the forum when anyone could expect to find such information.   However, it does surprise me that I, (as well as other who have posted questions relating to a similar topic) always receive a few slighting posts in response.  I’ve read through numerous reviews users have posted, and many of them participate in activities that are generally considered ‘risky’.  I think that we would all agree that each of us make our own choices, it’s the beautiful part about society that we live in.  Now regardless of whether something is Smart, Foolish, or perhaps Ridiculous, it is simply interesting to see how individuals justify the right to pass their own beliefs onto others.
I fully understand your perspective, if you don’t understand mine, its OK.
I posted in curiosity, wondering if anyone has experienced such service, notably after a relationship between two consenting individuals may or may not develop.  Still curious.

Your point is well taken...  to each his (or her own).  But this is a "taboo" issue -- one of the few taboos that exists in this otherwise open-minded community.  Everyone is aware -- or at least has heard rumors -- that such practices occur.  But no one wants to accept that it could take place...  particularly not to think that any provider we see would engage in such practices.

The animosity that greets posts such as yours is, in part, responding to the sheer idiocy of attempting to engage in such a discussion in an open forum.  But part of the animosity is, I suspect, just the outward expression of the inner fear we all hold with respect to this issue and its safety ramifications...

Have fun (safely), MG

There isn't a person on the board that doesn't understand your perspective.  it just can't be discussed.  Any provider that advertised the service would be blacklisted.  She would likely blacklist any guy that said he received the service on this board.  It would be a no win situation.

I apologize for being sarcastic earlier...Harry

Truthfully, I really don't care what it is you do with your life.  However, I don't want to be with providers that offer bare back service - it just increases the potential risk factor higher than I'm willing to consider.  I'm sure there are a number of terrific, reviewed providers that have at one time or another offered this service and they are probably great people, I just don't want to see them.  We all take our own risks to our own comfort levels.  

When you post on a discussion board do you really expect that people will do something other than "pass their own beliefs onto others?"  What would you have them do through a discussion board?  

Any way, I digress, good luck with your search - to each his own - and please if you find a "reputable" provider that does this let me know so I can avoid her.  Feel free to back channel.

Heatofthemoment4928 reads

It happened to me once and I don't recommend it. I knew and trusted this lady, but still fretted for months. It's not something any reputable provider does with any joe who comes across her path. It's done in a passionate moment with someone she trusts too. I would never reveal who this provider is. Like I said ,it's a matter of trust. Forget about it. Get yourself a real girlfriend if you want BBFS.

dc55932 reads

Point well taken.  BB service would not be a selling point.  However, minority scientific viewpoints are today's version of heresy, and the view of some very distinguished scientists (including one Nobel Prize winner) that BBS is much less dangerous than is generally believed has been effectively suppressed.  On the other hand, I too would just as soon play it safe.

VisitingGirlfriends5111 reads

I've been told by some of the ladies that certain gentlemen
(and i use the term loosely) have requested and in some cases applied pressure to them during a session to perform this unspeakable act.
Anyone seeking this service should NOT call us, any talk of this to me or to the ladies and you will be blacklisted.We'll just have to find a way to live without your business.

Thanks to all our friends for their continued support, and have a wonderful holiday season.

Sonny

Drago19715436 reads

I don't think that any of us would disagree that BB feels better. It's not a matter of personal choice though, it's a matter of common sense pure and simple. If you want to go BB then you might as well play Russian roulette using a six shot revolver with 4 bullets in the cylinder. Spin it, close it, put it to your head and pull the trigger. You stand just about as much a chance of dying as going BBFS. Think about that one.

For my clients that are condom shy I use the "Female Condom" with them...ie. I wair the "Condom" while he goes with out.

Still safe. Even safer then a  male condom. No chance of it slipping off or breaking in the act.

I second that -- I wish more providers would offer (or allow) female condoms, they do feel MUCH better...  I've got an old sports injury that occasionally affects my libido (it can really affect my sensitivity), and more than once the female condom has come to the rescue.

Anyone know where a guy can buy them?

The last time I got mine were in CVS and they were NOT in the area where you buy condoms. They were in the area where you buy female tampons and lubes. Look around in all your local RX's And ask.

I beleive they are called Reality Female Condom.

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