As you know I am quite comfy with who I am and what I look like...I also whole heartedly believe that ones personality changes how I personally SEE them...for example I can see a man on the street and I will literally say outloud "I'd fuck him"...then I meet that man at the chinese restaurant and he is a prickish sorta guy...now he just went from a 9 to a 6...I'm pretty sure that I am not alone on this...of course I am 42 not 22...so what I am wondering is this...are men really that focused on a woman's aesthetics that her personality is secondary? Would you personally rather see a chick who is reasonably attractive and really wanton OR do you just want a barbie doll with 3 holes? Is it a mood thing? Do you even care if she feels attracted to you? I don't see men under 40 so it obviously matters to me. OK I need cawfee meow. Ta Ta xo

If she's ugly, just turn off the lights.

I need passion and need to know the girl is into me. We have to have a sexual chemistry other wise it will just suck

personality is much more important in the medium and long term.

As you are now mature and most of us hobbiest too are mature, although a few youngsters are active in the hobby, I see women differently. a mature in attitude and as well as appearance is so much more attractive to me than a young girl with tattoo's and pink hair. I prefer to play in the right sandbox but also like a 30 ish girl too if she's worldly. Our eyes get weaker but our perception gets stronger so I get what you mean, many times I'll be in town at a bar and wonder aloud ( half praying)if that 22 year old hottie is meeting her mom for a drink? a fit and pretty milf really does it for me more than her hot daughter.

Sophisticated intelligent educated  fan to talk good looking.  3 holes .

1. Personality / Attitude
2. Skills

Good answer...I can come to Lynn any time

Oh yes Papi I know exactly what you mean! 24 year old kid lives next to me and he is so much fun to look at and even chat with...he asked me if I'd consider a 24 year old...I said NO but give your dad my number lol

Excellent personality and conversation abilities, superb oral skills, superb DFK skills, average to cutie looks.

It's the picture that gets my attention. Have met knockouts that just lie there waiting for me to finish I wont see again.

Well I for one have been 24 years old since I joined this crazy group 9 years ago so I guess Erin won't do me but I did enjoy the small of your back at that m&g on the waterfront years ago.  

i look for how a woman carries herself,and big boobs of course

I don't have big boobs!  

Can I come to you, if not I will make it happen I guess

Posted By: realcrimsonlass

Good answer...I can come to Lynn any time

So when can I come see you??

your boobs will do just fine,

Thanks you are too kind lol

Since, I am no longer in my 20's anymore the slam bam thank you mam days are are behind me.  Thank the Lord!  LOL   Now looks are not as important to me as they were.  I am looking for a chemistry that fits both of us.  I really do not want a "Barbie Doll" anymore.  They are a dime a dozen.  I have had my share and it seems their is just to much drama and they are what I call "HIGH MAINTENANCE".  I'm way to busy for that stuff.  Who really wants that?  I just like to be around a lady who is attractive to me.  Just me.   To me her looks are just part of the equation.  I like to see how she thinks and talks, can she make me feel good about us and what we have or could have.  Am I special to her?  Beauty is more than skin deep.  Hell, I want her to sexy and alluring and love to wear high heels!  I want her to be able to make me a good drink and let's relax and let it FLOW!  LOL  A "youngin" won't be able to do that.  HA

Absofknlutely it can happen MJ...when it's supposed to play the song"the secret of life" by faith hill...makes perfect sense

You have a PM.

Although looks is 3rd in order of importance it is still important. I had one experience where I knew a provider's looks were questionable when I made the appointment, but her reviews made it sound like it would be a worthwhile risk. As it turnd out her personality was terrific and her performance was off the charts. Unfortunately (and I don't mean to be cruel) she was so unattractive that I would never see her again. I'm no Brad Pitt and I really feel badly saying that but it's just the truth.

Are men really that focused on a woman's aesthetics that her personality is secondary?

I want to feel that DAILY earth shattering, grab the sheets, squeeze your head...that's a beautiful thing  and now I am horny

Idk what that means but I'll play along

Posted By: RustyCog

 
   

Posted By: realcrimsonlass

I want to feel that DAILY earth shattering, grab the sheets, squeeze your head...that's a beautiful thing  and now I am horny

For me it's in the writing, either in your add, posts or your website. As I read about you and get a sense for your personality, I find that the key for myself. The way you write (Normally) shows your style very clearly and helps me learn if we would a good match. I really do not have a particular "type of body" that I am drawn to.  I have seen a variety of ladies from BBW to petite, short to tall, small chest to large, every hair color and ethnicity. I read through all the ads, then look at your website or ads on other sites, to lead more about you, if you do not have a website or have very brief ads that do not allow me to understand whom "You" are, I will not likely go farther. Hoping I did not just ramble on, but that's just me. (:
Thx,
Ratty

I have a huge thing for passion. Not really into the wham, bam thank you mam stuff
Although I am a little older, but looks can come in a distant 2nd if there is a good passionate connection as far as I'm concern