doesn't seem right, you have 40+ reviews and are a veteran of BP, yet you are surprised that a provider said you were done after one pop? I would think that, even if this has not happened to you before, you would not be so surprised. One would think that you would know that not all providers follow the same standards, and once in a while, even the most seasoned hobbyist walks away from an appt shaking their head. Sometimes it is YMMV, other times it is a matter of unattraction, or a bad day for one of you. In any case, shit happens.
Is there more to this story? if not, as Winston Churchill once said, " if things are going to hell, keep going". Live to hobby another day.
OK here is yet another I got taken on BP rant but different. I have defended the use on BP her several times and stand behind this even now but here is what happened to me the other day.
A couple of years ago I met a woman on BP who turned out to be the best provider I have ever met. She is insanely passionate, sexy, great rates but as with everything it came to an end last summer when she retired. She actually recommended someone I might like that she knows. Turns out I had seen this woman's ads on BP for some time and even read her reviews (Alex Oasis). I wasn't floored by her so never saw her but the other night just browsing BP I saw her ad and said WTF why not and called. I told her of our mutual friend and we set up an hour date. Showered and drove to where she was staying. Things started off OK with nice kissing, she laid on the bed and invited me. More kissing then she went down on me until I popped. Now it goes bad when she begins to get dressed?
I reminded her we had a 1 hr appointment and she smiled and said I know but you finished so have we?? I explained I have done this for about 7 years and this was the first time anyone pulled this but she insisted this is the norm? Seeing she didn't charge a lot and I wasn't in the mood for a stink I just licked my wounds and left.
1) am I wrong or her generally speaking a 1 hr appointment tends to be a 2 pop date. !/2 hr is just one. At least everyone I have seen thinks so. Heck a couple told me I could go as many times as I wanted in the time we had !!
2) I thought I did my homework yet still got screwed (sort of). I know of this woman from her ads and reviews over a long time, got a referral from a mutual friend, what else can a guy do to protect himself?
I will be posting a full review so that others will be made aware of this issue, not sure why so many guys wrote good reviews of her? I also noticed no new reviews so maybe she is having bad ones taken down? Can the gals do this??
I know many ladies here use BP, I have found many diamonds there so this one bad adventure wont stop me just wonder what more I can do?
Thanks for listening to another complaint
One I don't have VIP at the moment so that wouldn't work.
Second I will be writting a review so anyone can just look at that to figure it out
mainly isn't this the entire point of this site? It is the only way we guys have to "verify" the ladies we want to see. I come her to see comments and reviews so I don't get burned
One and done was SOP before the internet and GFE.
Now an hour is an hour, and if you can only come once in an hour you have the right to spend the time cuddling, or just chatting or whatever.
But some gals are anchored in the past.
There's worst that can happen, so chalk it up to TOFTT.
Write a review.
I agree, Actually my first experience at this was in 1990 in Vegas. I assumed an hour was an hour but no. I learned quick and that became my standard first question when I lady came to visit. Once I asked they all agreed because they knew I would send them home but if no one asks then the story changes.
It wasn't until 2005 when I got divorced that I started this again on a reg basis and thought it had changed as well. I did forget about one agency girl that pulled this on me a couple years ago but she did offer to adjust the rate to a 30 minute deal so I was ok with it and in that case for 30 minutes she was great so....
Oh well, lesson learned (still not sure what it is)
doesn't seem right, you have 40+ reviews and are a veteran of BP, yet you are surprised that a provider said you were done after one pop? I would think that, even if this has not happened to you before, you would not be so surprised. One would think that you would know that not all providers follow the same standards, and once in a while, even the most seasoned hobbyist walks away from an appt shaking their head. Sometimes it is YMMV, other times it is a matter of unattraction, or a bad day for one of you. In any case, shit happens.
Is there more to this story? if not, as Winston Churchill once said, " if things are going to hell, keep going". Live to hobby another day.
Difficult to judge without knowing how much the girl charges, since that makes a big difference
Serena x
there were VERY few MSOG's over the years and three pages of reviews.
One good rule of thumb from BP though, if she doesn't offer 1/2 hour appointments, assume one pop - if she does, assume MSOG.
I have seen her - had a great time. I was a doubles session. I have also seen some ladies who have outstanding reviews, but was disappointed. Some times people have a bad day - sounds like Alex had one. Write your review - it counts. When other hobbyists see that you are generally a fair reviewer, then your review of Alex will be taken into consideration by other guys who might see her ad. If she gets a few bad ones in a row, then something's going on with her, and her business will suffer accordingly.
A couple of years ago I met a woman on BP who turned out to be the best provider I have ever met. She is insanely passionate, sexy, great rates but as with everything it came to an end last summer when she retired. She actually recommended someone I might like that she knows. Turns out I had seen this woman's ads on BP for some time and even read her reviews (Alex Oasis). I wasn't floored by her so never saw her but the other night just browsing BP I saw her ad and said WTF why not and called. I told her of our mutual friend and we set up an hour date. Showered and drove to where she was staying. Things started off OK with nice kissing, she laid on the bed and invited me. More kissing then she went down on me until I popped. Now it goes bad when she begins to get dressed?
I reminded her we had a 1 hr appointment and she smiled and said I know but you finished so have we?? I explained I have done this for about 7 years and this was the first time anyone pulled this but she insisted this is the norm? Seeing she didn't charge a lot and I wasn't in the mood for a stink I just licked my wounds and left.
1) am I wrong or her generally speaking a 1 hr appointment tends to be a 2 pop date. !/2 hr is just one. At least everyone I have seen thinks so. Heck a couple told me I could go as many times as I wanted in the time we had !!
2) I thought I did my homework yet still got screwed (sort of). I know of this woman from her ads and reviews over a long time, got a referral from a mutual friend, what else can a guy do to protect himself?
I will be posting a full review so that others will be made aware of this issue, not sure why so many guys wrote good reviews of her? I also noticed no new reviews so maybe she is having bad ones taken down? Can the gals do this??
I know many ladies here use BP, I have found many diamonds there so this one bad adventure wont stop me just wonder what more I can do?
Thanks for listening to another complaint
Trying to save money doesn't always bring good results. I stick with the 300/hr women, even though I can find plenty advertising for less. [I do my homework reading reviews] and end up with better looking/better performing/less YMMV.
You get what you pay for is oh so true above vs below the 300 level.
I can see the point "you get what you pay for" but don't seem to generally see this here as long as I am careful. I have never seen a lady that charges over $300hr because it is beyond what I want to spend but that is just me and I take the risk. As many of my reviews show I like RSG and they are only 225 with no real complaints.
There are several ladies I have seen several times that were in the 250 range and I saw them often but some have gone the 350-400 range and knowing them I wont pay that and have moved on so to say more is better isn't always true. I think they just need 1-2 guys at those rates vs 4-5 at the lower rates and that's fine just not for me.
They may be okay with grandfathering you in, under her old rates.
They are certainly entitled to rasie their rates. I would still love to see them at the old rate. Some let me "grandfather" rate for a while but once it went over the magic 300 number I just moved on. Nothing against them at all !!
They may be okay with grandfathering you in, under her old rates.
I agree with a lot of the comments given and thank you all.
*Again I felt safe knowing of her for many years and a good friend recommending her so.....
*My fault for letting the little head over rule the big one this time and I got a little burned 
*She may have been having a bad day but seemed generally happy and kept apologizing?
*review will be written to warn others
*will stick more to RSG since I have had a lot of luck with them
Thinking about it now I should have at least stayed and watched TV for the rest of the hour lol
Oh well
Review websites like this one may tend to keep some girls more honest, but as PT Barnum said, "There's a sucker born every minute." In the mongering world, that would be, "There's a suckee born every minute."
Here's the deal: You can't assume anything. There is no "Guild of Honorable Providers" or "Good Ho's-Keeping Seal" [sorry, couldn't resist] to let you rest assured that an hour appointment means guarantees 2 pops and a 1/2-hour appointment means just one. Firstly, I think a lot of ladies assume that after the 1st pop, the hornyness of most is temporarily depleted, so we're not going really mind if we're shooed out of the room right afterwards. Secondly, a lot of ladies -- when you actually listen to what they're telling you on the phone -- say something like, "It's 250 for up to an hour, hon." "Up to an hour" means it could be less than an hour. I've had ladies say to me (but only after I specifically asked), "You can stay for the entire hour, hon," or, "It's your hour," or, "The fee is for my time, so it's an hour from when you walk in the door." Even in those cases, you haven't been promised a 2nd pop. If you want a 2nd pop, you have to figure out a way to get that particular assurance: "Is there a limit on the number of times you're happy to make me happy, ma'am?" is just one way of trying to ask the question. And if the lady hangs up on you, well, that's better than shelling out dough and getting one dough-nut off instead of two. Thirdly, let's be honest here: for most guys over 30, it's more work for the lady to succeed at getting a 2nd pop, especially with an hour time limit, than to get the 1st pop. If anything, it wouldn't be that unreasonable for a lady to more than double her fee for a full hour, for that reason; she'll probably have to work much harder for the 2nd one than for the 1st. Instead, we guys assume there's a discount for the hour, and there are good reasons why there should be one, but it's nothing we should assume. Personally, if I'm seeing a new lady, I go with the half-hour rate. If she opens the door and my jaw dropped, I might be willing, then and there, as a willing buyer with dough in hand, to ask if a full hour is available. And especially once the LE check has been performed, I find that the lady is always candid with me. If a 2nd pop is extra $ over and above the hourly rate, I just thank the gal and proceed with the half-hour; if a 2nd pop is included in the hour rate, I go ahead with the hour and then I have never had a lady retract that promise, not when she made it in person to me just a little while before. But on the phone you'll hear, "Sure, baby, you can have the full hour," and then when you've finished number one, you shouldn't be surprised to find out it was one and done. In that case, posting your review on TER makes lots of sense . . . but it doesn't amount to a refund of the excess fee, does it? Live, and maybe learn.
In this case had I known up front I would have conducted the date different. Mainly I would have DATY first and then let her do what she wanted next. But I thought since she "trained" my ATF friend I "assumed" 2 was on the menu and let her do her thing. Then I would have been ok with it a bit more. Maybe I have to go back to asking specific questions when I get there or do like you said and go with 1/2 hr appointments for a first meeting.
Another thing I don't talk anything specific like this over the phone or email since it seems most ladies would just stop talking to me thinking it was a set up so again I(we) have to trust TER to some extent. Another mine field is sorting thru the fake reviews but they tend to be obvious
two-hour deals with higher-priced providers. Usually no questions, no issues. Your time is yours to do as you wish - one pop, two pops, three pops four. Or just caress, fondle, kiss, nibble, lick, finger and chat after the first pop and more!