After I  shower, I come out in that white towel and rarely is she under the blanket.

My girlfriend on the other hand prefers a great deal of foreplay underneath.

Is there a difference between being with a civie and a provider?

Your thoughts if any?

Welllllll

Here are my thoughts.  I rarely go under the blankets.  They're almost constricting.  Even with civvie boyfriends, I keep the juices off the sheets.  I have a duvet cover that I can just take off if things get messy, and then you don'thave to do a whole change post coitus when you're all tired.  

Maybe it's not a difference between providers and civvies but from girl to girl.

If the girl is ugly, just turn off/down the lights.  I enjoy looking at the providers I pick.  Why would there be any difference with a civie?